I was recently rejected by a Pretty girl because she said I lacked that certain kind of swagger that she likes in a guy. She also said my shyness was not appealing and gave me a insecure look. So is a Swagger always important???

I'd stay away from swaggering guys.

They're either cowboys, drunk or think they're God's gift to us all.


WTF - what the hell is a "swagger" really anyways? :lol:


Where do you find these chicks Solomon?!?! :crazy: :lol:

I'd stay away from swaggering guys.

They're either cowboys, drunk or think they're God's gift to us all.


WTF - what the hell is a "swagger" really anyways? :lol:


Where do you find these chicks Solomon?!?! :crazy: :lol:


Craigslist-lol

Craigslist-lol


That explains it! :lol:

Tell her she needs to visit a Dude Ranch to find that kind of guy.

That explains it! :lol:

Tell her she needs to visit a Dude Ranch to find that kind of guy.


And when she was asking me where I wanted to go eat I told her since she was driving we can go to one of her favorite places. Then she said i was too
indecisive which was another turn off-lol

Or pirates! :D

Anyway, yeah, I'm definitely not attracted to cocky guys with the swagger :rofl:


I'd stay away from swaggering guys.

They're either cowboys, drunk or think they're God's gift to us all.

Or pirates! :D

Anyway, yeah, I'm definitely not attracted to cocky guys with the swagger :rofl:


Are Shy Guys a Turn Off?

Not at all...actually, I think it's kinda cute :blush:


Are Shy Guys a Turn Off?

Not at all...actually, I think it's kinda cute :blush:


Agreed - nothing wrong with shy guys. I ended up with one! Hell, I had to drop hints, play the "highschool" thing of getting word to him that I was very interested, you name it to get him to go out with me. He was afraid of "crashing and burning" with me if I turned him down. Drove me nuts, but he was worth hanging in there for.
Now that we've been together for 16 years, more of my outgoing personality has rubbed off on him and he's a LOT better socially now.

Indecisive? Because you gave her the option of her favourite place? WTH? This chick just has a ton of rules in her bag doesn't she?

You should have then just shot back, o.k., we'll hit my favourite place and name a real dump - or Chuck E. Cheeses or something.

This broad sounds like one I used to work with. A real piece of work. Absolutely gorgeous, but has a list of "Dos and Don'ts" so long it would take weeks to get through. And then she laments that she can never find a guy. Well maybe if you took that iron suit of armour off it might help! :crazy: :lol:

Agreed - nothing wrong with shy guys. I ended up with one! Hell, I had to drop hints, play the "highschool" thing of getting word to him that I was very interested, you name it to get him to go out with me. He was afraid of "crashing and burning" with me if I turned him down. Drove me nuts, but he was worth hanging in there for.
Now that we've been together for 16 years, more of my outgoing personality has rubbed off on him and he's a LOT better socially now.

Indecisive? Because you gave her the option of her favourite place? WTH? This chick just has a ton of rules in her bag doesn't she?

You should have then just shot back, o.k., we'll hit my favourite place and name a real dump - or Chuck E. Cheeses or something.

This broad sounds like one I used to work with. A real piece of work. Absolutely gorgeous, but has a list of "Dos and Don'ts" so long it would take weeks to get through. And then she laments that she can never find a guy. Well maybe if you took that iron suit of armour off it might help! :crazy: :lol:



I basically left it up to her because she was the driver, i didn't want to start suggesting restarunts without knowing how far she was willing to drive. Now if we were both CABBING it, then I could see her saying indecisive.

I basically left it up to her because she was the driver, i didn't want to start suggesting restarunts without knowing how far she was willing to drive. Now if we were both CABBING it, then I could see her saying indecisive.


Exactly. You're right for sure Solomon.

Dump the chick asap - sounds pretty high maintenance to me.

Exactly. You're right for sure Solomon.

Dump the chick asap - sounds pretty high maintenance to me.


Her other statement-"I like a man with a dominance presence about him"

lol

I'm actually more attracted to shy guys. They seem more sensitive.

Exactly. You're right for sure Solomon.

Dump the chick asap - sounds pretty high maintenance to me.


She alo said that's the way her DAD was and she looks for those qualities in a man since she is feisty and aggressive

Men with confidence are sexy, but guys who are controlling are NOT.

Don't date on craigslist...

Refrigerators you can get on craigslist. Women are another story...

Her other statement-"I like a man with a dominance presence about him"

lol


:rofl:

OMG - next time you see her, show up in black leather pants, a black leather vest, platform boots, some "hardware" chains hanging from the vest and pants, wearing a gimp mask (complete with orange ball), dangling a whip and swinging one of those medieval spiked balls on a stick and ask her, "Is THIS dominant and decisive enough for ya beotch?" :lol:

:rofl:

OMG - next time you see her, show up in black leather pants, a black leather vest, platform boots, some "hardware" chains hanging from the vest and pants, wearing a gimp mask (complete with orange ball), dangling a whip and swinging one of those medieval spiked balls on a stick and ask her, "Is THIS dominant and decisive enough for ya beotch?" :lol:



Since she said that she was FEISTY and AGGRESSIVE, maybe it's good that we didn't go out again because I'm not really into Feisty Women.

:rofl:

OMG - next time you see her, show up in black leather pants, a black leather vest, platform boots, some "hardware" chains hanging from the vest and pants, wearing a gimp mask (complete with orange ball), dangling a whip and swinging one of those medieval spiked balls on a stick and ask her, "Is THIS dominant and decisive enough for ya beotch?" :lol:

But then she'll say "I don't like a man who will change for me. It shows low self-esteem."

But then she'll say "I don't like a man who will change for me. It shows low self-esteem."


EXACTLY! :lol: You're never gonna win with this one methinks! :crazy:

Yep Solomon, she sounds like she's Star Jones who wants to date Dwayne Johnson! ;)