besides "Have to get a hobby" what else is it for me to say before I just stop taking her calls completely? She's really fun to talk and be around but i just can't deal with the-" i'm a loser because I don;t have a boyfriend" mess anymore.

date her

Offer to have sex with her right there on the spot. One way or another, you'll never hear her complain about being single ever again.

date her


Not my type

1)Get a new type
2)Tell her to stop
3)Put up with it
4)Move to Canada

Anybody?

1)Get a new type
2)Tell her to stop
3)Put up with it
4)Move to Canada

Anybody?


Well seth I have started

1. not taking her calls on Friday night
2. Not taking her calls on saturday night


LOL

Have a nice day.

Tell her "I agree".

If her friendship is important to you, it might be time to lay it on the line to her. Tell her that you don't have any answers for her, especially if she's ignored your advice previously. I once had to wrangle out of a friendship because the person was burning a hole in my head with their issues, one after the other.

I consider myself a good friend, but there's a limit to everything. I have my own problems, and when I start to feel like someone's therapist, or when the friendship starts feeling like a chore -- that's when I lose interest.

Tell her "I agree".



LMAO-LOL-LOL

If her friendship is important to you, it might be time to lay it on the line to her. Tell her that you don't have any answers for her, especially if she's ignored your advice previously. I once had to wrangle out of a friendship because the person was burning a hole in my head with their issues, one after the other.

I consider myself a good friend, but there's a limit to everything. I have my own problems, and when I start to feel like someone's therapist, or when the friendship starts feeling like a chore -- that's when I lose interest.


You are so right Janice-lol It does have the CHORE feel at times and I told her I'm no longer interested in her complaining about NOT HAVING ANYONE. I do have anyone either but I have ways to deal with it and for her to be almost 30 it's time for her to cut the SH*T out-lol I told herI don't have a problem discussing family problems, job problems, financial problems, NO MORE MOANING ABOUTBEING SINGLE like I can snap my fingers and have a guy standing in her apartment-lol

It really comes down to people asking for advice and not heeding it. How annoying is that???? I am sick and tired of people who ask for advice and don't follow through with it. Why ask then??? I can see your dilemna Solomon. Friends can really be annoying when they ask for help or advice.

Tell it to her straight Solomon. You don't seem to have that problem in telling people how you feel.

1)Get a new type
2)Tell her to stop
3)Put up with it
4)Move to Canada

Anybody?


Gee thanks Seth - we already have enough whackjobs up this way! :lol:


I worked with a chick like that - drives me nuts. Wish I could have REALLY told her why she doesn't have a boyfriend, can't keep one, or why guys run screaming from her as fast as they can - cuz she's a WHINEY, HIGH-MAINTENANCE BEOTCH WHO'S TOO SELF-ABSORBED TO REALIZE WHY SHE CAN'T GET A GUY! I mean, this girl is absolutely beautiful in looks, but whoa, God help the poor sucker who ends up with her, if that's even possible. She prides herself on walking out in the middle of a date (doesn't matter where) if he the least bit kids her or looks at her "funny".

Anyway, sounds to me like she's laying some heavy duty HINTS on you Solomon. She might not be your type, but it sure sounds like you're hers. ;)

(and Seth - I DO like the suggestion about sex, right there on the spot - I'm sure that would put an end to it real quick - for one of them at least!)

It really comes down to people asking for advice and not heeding it. How annoying is that???? I am sick and tired of people who ask for advice and don't follow through with it. Why ask then??? I can see your dilemna Solomon. Friends can really be annoying when they ask for help or advice.

Tell it to her straight Solomon. You don't seem to have that problem in telling people how you feel.


The lowest of all lows that she has done recently stalking her EX and trying to force her way back into his life

The lowest of all lows that she has done recently stalking her EX and trying to force her way back into his life
Oh my gosh, you certainly don't need to give this girl advice abt dating. You need to stay away from her. If she is a stalker, God knows what else she is capable of.

Gee thanks Seth - we already have enough whackjobs up this way! :lol:


I worked with a chick like that - drives me nuts. Wish I could have REALLY told her why she doesn't have a boyfriend, can't keep one, or why guys run screaming from her as fast as they can - cuz she's a WHINEY, HIGH-MAINTENANCE BEOTCH WHO'S TOO SELF-ABSORBED TO REALIZE WHY SHE CAN'T GET A GUY! I mean, this girl is absolutely beautiful in looks, but whoa, God help the poor sucker who ends up with her, if that's even possible. She prides herself on walking out in the middle of a date (doesn't matter where) if he the least bit kids her or looks at her "funny".

Anyway, sounds to me like she's laying some heavy duty HINTS on you Solomon. She might not be your type, but it sure sounds like you're hers. ;)

(and Seth - I DO like the suggestion about sex, right there on the spot - I'm sure that would put an end to it real quick - for one of them at least!)


I hope Not-lol

I hope Not-lol


Me too - for your sake - if she's now stalking the ex? She sounds more like 13 than almost 30!!!! I've seen so many "girls" like this. It's sad - they'd rather have a guy for the sake of having a boyfriend than anything.

Seriously - I would just tell her straight that it's really starting to wear thin with you.

Me too - for your sake - if she's now stalking the ex? She sounds more like 13 than almost 30!!!! I've seen so many "girls" like this. It's sad - they'd rather have a guy for the sake of having a boyfriend than anything.

Seriously - I would just tell her straight that it's really starting to wear thin with you.



She was kind of stalking me when I stop speaking to her for YEAR, 2005-2006, she would call my job and HANG UP-lol

She was kind of stalking me when I stop speaking to her for YEAR, 2005-2006, she would call my job and HANG UP-lol


How many weird ass chicks do you have in your life Sol????? SERIOUSLY?

Is this the same one who called with her number BLOCKED?

How many weird ass chicks do you have in your life Sol????? SERIOUSLY?

Is this the same one who called with her number BLOCKED?



Yup-lol

Tell her it's annoying.

Here's 50 cents, call someone who cares?

besides "Have to get a hobby" what else is it for me to say before I just stop taking her calls completely? She's really fun to talk and be around but i just can't deal with the-" i'm a loser because I don;t have a boyfriend" mess anymore.
I would say "You're not a loser, and Stop complaning about being single and find yourself a boyfriend."

She was kind of stalking me when I stop speaking to her for YEAR, 2005-2006, she would call my job and HANG UP-lol
:eek: You should stop taking her calls, but not because she complains about being single. She sounds scary.

:eek: You should stop taking her calls, but not because she complains about being single. She sounds scary.

Well this is her want list in a man

Good Looking
Athletic with muscles
Nice Paying Job
Nice Car
Tall
Own Place
Little bit of THUG on him


So as long as she focus on all that, she will be ALONE and MISERABLE-lol

Well this is her want list in a man

Good Looking
Athletic with muscles
Nice Paying Job
Nice Car
Tall
Own Place
Little bit of THUG on him


So as long as she focus on all that, she will be ALONE and MISERABLE-lol


Gee, hardly superficial at all eh? Not one point is about personality. Unless it's "must be able to handle a pyscho stalker". :rolleyes:

RUN - RUN FOR YOUR LIFE SOLOMON! :crazy:

Gee, hardly superficial at all eh? Not one point is about personality. Unless it's "must be able to handle a pyscho stalker". :rolleyes:

RUN - RUN FOR YOUR LIFE SOLOMON! :crazy:


Plus I have explained to hr many of times that guys like that is not just dealing with ONE GIRL, but she refuses to understand that-lol

Hey Solomon; here is my two cents; be honesty with your friend, tell her that you will always be there for her, but having to hear her constantly complain about being single, etc..is becoming tiresome; sometimes, honesty is the best policy!!!

She has chased 6 or 7 guys away in the past 5 years

Damn, no defense, but your friend sounds like she is deal with some low esteem issues; tell her to learn to love and respect herself, and once she develops self-confidence, the men will be doing the chasing, not vice versa.


she believes that getting a HAVING A NICE BUTT will he;p her get a man-lol

Tell her grow up get with it and that there will be someone out there for her! gee i hate people who moan like that!:mad:

she believes that getting a HAVING A NICE BUTT will he;p her get a man-lol
Ok, this is the same chick who buys clothes or dresses that emphasizes her butt, correct?

You really need more friends Solomon if this woman is constantly the subject of threads here on S.O.

Ok, this is the same chick who buys clothes or dresses that emphasizes her butt, correct?

You really need more friends Solomon if this woman is constantly the subject of threads here on S.O.


I know, I hope to find one before July-lol

I know, I hope to find one before July-lol
One???? How abt at least three. ;)

One???? How abt at least three. ;)


That may work-lol

That may work-lol
Id go for 5 dear lol!:lol: