Just recently met this very pretty girl who I hit it off with and we had a nice time and plan to hook up again this weekend. But on the date i was complimenting her on certain physical features and I wanted her to do the same but she never would-lol I guess that's how it is with some women. but It's like I can always be told what is sexy about me from some i'm not attracted to.


So what female on here likes to tell a guy what she likes about him PHYSICALLY?

Just recently met this very pretty girl who I hit it off with and we had a nice time and plan to hook up again this weekend. But on the date i was complimenting her on certain physical features and I wanted her to do the same but she never would-lol I guess that's how it is with some women. but It's like I can always be told what is sexy about me from some i'm not attracted to.


So what female on here likes to tell a guy what she likes about him PHYSICALLY?

Maybe she didn't think you had anything to be complimented on.:D

I tell my husband that his ass looks great all the time :lol:

Maybe she didn't think you had anything to be complimented on.:D



That can be true too-lol But I'm sure that's not it, especially when she is coming over to my place this weekend to relax with me. I never heard of any female wanting to spend quiet time with any guy because he had a nice personality

I tell my husband that his ass looks great all the time :lol:


I wouldn;t want any A$$ compliments-lol

I wouldn;t want any A$$ compliments-lol

Last night I told him that his abs were finally starting to look good :lol:

Last night I told him that his abs were finally starting to look good :lol:


as of right now, i'm no longer giving compliments to a woman on dates, i will just say I'm interested in knowing you better, the compliments is over.

I wouldn;t want any A$$ compliments-lol

Those are the best kind to get!

Those are the best kind to get!


I don't like when females just want me for my body, and that's what it would seem like if she compliments my a$$-lol

I don't like when females just want me for my body, and that's what it would seem like if she compliments my a$$-lol

You're asked women in this forum "So what female on here likes to tell a guy what she likes about him PHYSICALLY?" And that you were mad because a woman didn't compliment you on how you looked physically?

So what are you meaning when you say "Physically?" Isn’t telling someone that their ass looks good, a compliment on a physical feature? LOL

You're asked women in this forum "So what female on here likes to tell a guy what she likes about him PHYSICALLY?" And that you were mad because a woman didn't compliment you on how you looked physically?

So what are you meaning when you say "Physically?" Isn’t telling someone that their ass looks good, a compliment on a physical feature? LOL


Facial features, hair, and outfit

I've been out of the dating scene so long, lol. I don't think that I would give a man a compliment on the first or second date. What I would do is compliment him for complimenting me. I'd say something like, "Thank you. How nice of you to notice."

Then again, I've never been stingy with compliments, so I just might compliment a man if he's complimenting me. It depends on my mood and other things I guess.

I've been out of the dating scene so long, lol. I don't think that I would give a man a compliment on the first or second date. What I would do is compliment him for complimenting me. I'd say something like, "Thank you. How nice of you to notice."

Then again, I've never been stingy with compliments, so I just might compliment a man if he's complimenting me. It depends on my mood and other things I guess.


That's another thing i hate about dating, i like to hear what looks nice on me too, i put effort into looking nice just like she did. Once again, dating is ONESIDED-lol

I've never been on a date in my life. Guess that's why I've always been single.

I've never been on a date in my life. Guess that's why I've always been single.



well take your time because it's nothing but an annoying exprience for a male, you are expected to compliment her and not receive any back and pay for dinner. See how fun dating is for a guy?-lol

well take your time because it's nothing but an annoying exprience for a male, you are expected to compliment her and not receive any back and pay for dinner. See how fun dating is for a guy?-lol

I'm sure it isn't any easier on the woman.

I'm sure it isn't any easier on the woman.


It's not?-lol They get a free meal even if they don;t really like you like that because they can just fake it if they are hungry-lol

Solomon, I know a lot of "females" are afraid to compliment a guy, because it seems a lot of men have this narrow mentality.."Oh, a chick said something NICE about me, I guess that means she wants to hop into bed".; there are (unforunately) some men out there that only think with the smaller version of their heads.


Ok well I guess you make a strong point there.

It's not?-lol They get a free meal even if they don;t really like you like that because they can just fake it if they are hungry-lol


Maybe they get a first meal for free. I know for me once I start dating someone after awhile we start alternating who's gonna pay. I'm just fine with that, because then I don't feel like I'm mooching.

Maybe they get a first meal for free. I know for me once I start dating someone after awhile we start alternating who's gonna pay. I'm just fine with that, because then I don't feel like I'm mooching.


Well I feel like I'm entitled to some touch feels if i'm going to continue to pay. Not sex, but defintely touchie feelies-lol

Well I feel like I'm entitled to some touch feels if i'm going to continue to pay. Not sex, but defintely touchie feelies-lol

So if you're paying for dinner, you expect a woman to rub you all over?

So if you're paying for dinner, you expect a woman to rub you all over?


If I pay for dinner 3 or 4 times yes i want some touch play-lol Not sex, just extended affectionate games

MEN...If a female truly liked you; she will be paying for dinner once in a while (NOT YOU). I know, for me, if I am interested in a man, I have, absolutely zero problem taking him out; because you know when a girl likes a boy, when she buys him things, etc. (am I wrong?)

You're not wrong at all. Truth is I hate it when my boyfriend pays for a lot of things, but at times he wants to. The other night I paid for our dinner, and we were both fine with that.

Solomon, WTF are affectionate games? That's all I'm gonna ask since this is a PG forum or whatever. To me it sounds like either sex or maybe foreplay.

You're not wrong at all. Truth is I hate it when my boyfriend pays for a lot of things, but at times he wants to. The other night I paid for our dinner, and we were both fine with that.

Solomon, WTF are affectionate games? That's all I'm gonna ask since this is a PG forum or whatever. To me it sounds like either sex or maybe foreplay.


SafePlay-Hugging/Kissing

If I pay for dinner 3 or 4 times yes i want some touch play-lol Not sex, just extended affectionate games


Do you not see or hear how stupid that sounds?

Do you not see or hear how stupid that sounds?


No what's stupid is me KICKING OUT MONEY and not getting anything back in return. Now that's stupid

No what's stupid is me KICKING OUT MONEY and not getting anything back in return. Now that's stupid


If you ever get to the point of someone caring about you and you caring about them in return, you'll see that it's not about KICKING OUT MONEY. You won't care if you have to buy their dinner or whatever. Also if you care about someone it's not about getting things back in return.

If you ever get to the point of someone caring about you and you caring about them in return, you'll see that it's not about KICKING OUT MONEY. You won't care if you have to buy their dinner or whatever. Also if you care about someone it's not about getting things back in return.


So the benefit should be-"Just being in her presence"?-lol

So the benefit should be-"Just being in her presence"?-lol


Exactly! Now you're getting it.

Exactly! Now you're getting it.


No A female has to show that she is interested in me physically and mentallly for me to come out of my pockets. Just doesn't work like that

No A female has to show that she is interested in me physically and mentallly for me to come out of my pockets. Just doesn't work like that


Well if you're expecting "affectionate games" or anything else, you'll be alone for a very long time. Not all women are going to make out or do anything on the first few dates. Sure I give my boyfriend compliments. But if I had to give them to him 24/7 that would make him seem weak and needy. A lot of women hate that. I know I do.

You're asked women in this forum "So what female on here likes to tell a guy what she likes about him PHYSICALLY?" And that you were mad because a woman didn't compliment you on how you looked physically?

So what are you meaning when you say "Physically?" Isn’t telling someone that their ass looks good, a compliment on a physical feature? LOL
You know Sol, he is a ping-pong, like that song by Cameo...BACK AND FORTH. :D C'mon Sol, we have gone thru this a hundred times, don't ask us women on the board for our opinion or advice if you are going to gripe abt it, spit on it, laugh at it, or blow it outta your ear. What is the point of asking?:crazy:

No A female has to show that she is interested in me physically and mentallly for me to come out of my pockets. Just doesn't work like that
I can see your point Solomon, but only if you're referring to a situation where some time has passed, not right away. It usually takes a woman a couple of dates to decide if she's interested in a relationship. I agree that nobody should be footing the bill for anyone all the time.

Well if you're expecting "affectionate games" or anything else, you'll be alone for a very long time. Not all women are going to make out or do anything on the first few dates. Sure I give my boyfriend compliments. But if I had to give them to him 24/7 that would make him seem weak and needy. A lot of women hate that. I know I do.


It doesn't have to be affectionate Games, i just have to feel that you are interested in me in order to foot the bill for 3 or 4 dates

In what way does a girl how to prove that she is interested in you, Solomon; tell you off the bat. "Hey baby, you are so damn hot, let's ****!".


By asking me questions about myself, calling me everyday and flirting

Sorry Solomon, I'll make sure to treat you better next time we go out :mrtarver:

Sorry Solomon, I'll make sure to treat you better next time we go out :mrtarver:


Ok, because I took time and effort to look sexy for the date so I want to hear i look nice too-lol

Ok, because I took time and effort to look sexy for the date so I want to hear i look nice too-lol
K, let me practice.

I like your feet, they're real nice.

K, let me practice.

I like your feet, they're real nice.



No things like

1.Hair
2.Facial Features
3.Body Build
4.Smell
5.My sense of Humor

No things like

1.Hair
2.Facial Features
3.Body Build
4.Smell
5.My sense of Humor
What's left? Your wallet? :lol:

What's left? Your wallet? :lol:


That would be up to the Woman-lol

No things like

1.Hair
2.Facial Features
3.Body Build
4.Smell
5.My sense of Humor
Dammit! I would have never thought of those things. I guess this just isn't going to work out. :(

By asking me questions about myself, calling me everyday and flirting

I thought you didn't like it when a woman called you everyday? Did you make a thread about a woman who was calling you and you didn't answer her calls?

I don't think you know what you want in a woman.

I thought you didn't like it when a woman called you everyday? Did you make a thread about a woman who was calling you and you didn't answer her calls?

I don't think you know what you want in a woman.
Yes he did. He also said he doesn't want women to chat while he is watching television. She can't wear sneakers. She can't be too fat or too thin. She has to compliment him. She can't call him without IDENTIFYING HERSELF with her caller ID. She has to know WHEN TO CALL, can't just call any ol' time. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: She has to have money. She can't compliment his ass.

Yes he did. He also said he doesn't want women to chat while he is watching television. She can't wear sneakers. She can't be too fat or too thin. She has to compliment him. She can't call him without IDENTIFYING HERSELF with her caller ID. She has to know WHEN TO CALL, can't just call any ol' time. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: She has to have money. She can't compliment his ass.


He wants imaginary woman :lol:

I thought you didn't like it when a woman called you everyday? Did you make a thread about a woman who was calling you and you didn't answer her calls?

I don't think you know what you want in a woman.


She was calling 6 times a day, once is enough

K, let me practice.

I like your feet, they're real nice.
well, as a dude, i'd LOVE to get a compliment like that. i care about my feet. :)

Yes he did. He also said he doesn't want women to chat while he is watching television. She can't wear sneakers. She can't be too fat or too thin. She has to compliment him. She can't call him without IDENTIFYING HERSELF with her caller ID. She has to know WHEN TO CALL, can't just call any ol' time. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: She has to have money. She can't compliment his ass.

Don't worry Solomon. There's someone out there for us all.

I don't think you know what you want in a woman.

Neither do I. Although... he certainly has more experience than I do in the area!

No things like

1.Hair
2.Facial Features
3.Body Build
4.Smell
5.My sense of Humor
Sounds reasonable to me. It's good to know what you want and don't want in a person.