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Only you know the answer to that question I'm afraid. As an outsider looking in, it would seem you MAY have some gay tendencies. However, I am no expert on the subject.

Only you know the answer to that question I'm afraid. As an outsider looking in, it would seem you MAY have some gay tendencies. However, I am no expert on the subject.

Yea, last year I thought about becoming a lesbian bc I couldn't get a bf, but it wasn't until just recently I actually had a crush on another girl.

Yea, last year I thought about becoming a lesbian bc I couldn't get a bf, but it wasn't until just recently I actually had a crush on another girl.


Have you always been attracted to women? Are you still attracted to men?

Only you know the answer to that question I'm afraid. As an outsider looking in, it would seem you MAY have some gay tendencies. However, I am no expert on the subject.
It's also normal to question your sexual orientation, no matter how old you are.


I've never really gone through that though, so I'm afraid I don't have any advice for you either. :(

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I am straight, but there was a period in my life, where I used to kiss and flirt with women. I think I was just curious. I do not think there is anything wrong, in liking someone, whom is the same sex as you.

yea, I'm just confused right now if I'm really become a lesbian or just curious about all this.

so please, do not feel that you are weird or anything, believe or not, this is quite common, especially, when you are have been disappointed with men.

Thanks....I just wish I could know who I really am.

Hey, sweety, there is nothing wrong, having feelings towards another human being; maybe, and forgive me if I am being out of line, that you are bisexual, and there is absolutely nothing in the world wrong with that; love is blind, which is a beautiful thing:)

Thanks, I feel a little less bad now. I don't really feel bisexual, though bc I don't like boys anymore....guys have never really liked me before, but I do get compliments from girls a lot w/ my hair, clothes, ect. I've been hurt a lot with guys, but I think having a gf would make me happier bc girls pay more attention to me than guys do.

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Then go with your heart:) :bighug:

Thanks :) Now I just don't know I can tell my friends & family I'm a lesbian....I come from a Christian family, so my parents would kill me if they found out.

You could just be curious. Or perhaps you are bi. Nothing wrong with that. In fact, you'd get the best of both worlds in such a case. And I'd be quite jealous, as I haven't had either world! :p

I'd probably be better off bi. I've been hit on by more guys than women. It's rather annoying...

Ah, don't worry about it! You will be who you will be! Make it special!

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I'm kind of embarrassed too bc I told one of my friends (probably the only 1 friend I truly 100% trust) I'm a lesbian now & I asked her to message Baylie on myspace & ask if she liked me (which I kinda regret now) & she told Baylie that I like her. The bad thing is that a few months ago I didn't like her (sexually) & I told her I had a boyfriend....so now she knows I like her. Ughh, I'm scared of what Baylie thinks of me now and all that & I have to see her tomorrow at school...she's in 3/4 of my classes!

Oh ow... That could be a problem, right there... Recipe for drama...

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Yea, I know :( If she asks, should I admit I like her? Or what if she doesn't talk to me anymore (idk why she wouldn't bc she's a lesbian too, but I'm just worried)?

Ideally, I would have talked to her personally. Considering she is lesbian, she may have a good perspective on things such as that.

I would not have brought in another friend. Straight or not, in my experience, you can never really trust friends to keep such a confidence, I'm afraid.

Anyway. If she talks to you, great! I'd recommend a heart-to-heart chat. I hope she's mature enough to talk things out with you.

Good luck!

Whatever happens, please don't let this thing leave you bitter, as I am...:wave:

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idk how I can talk to her in person about it now or bring up the conversation....I couldn't do it in class bc of everyone else around. I would call her, but I'm too afraid & I really don't know how I would bring it up. Plus, my friend that messaged her won't tell me exactly what she said to Baylie....so now I wanna know what my friend told her.

Thanks! I feel a lot better now....I'll let u know how school goes tomorrow seeing her & all that. I REALLY like her & idk how I can face her tomorrow....should I just start a regular conversation (like "So, what did u do this weekend?") so I don't seem nervous or scared?

Just act natural. If you get nervous, she'll get nervous. You two are friends. That shouldn't change.

Easier said that done.

Just act natural. If you get nervous, she'll get nervous. You two are friends. That shouldn't change.

I'll try to act like nothing's wrong, but I do get nervous easily and it shows really badly (like I talk stupidly and say the wrong things & get really hot). I hope she likes me....I wanna know now since she knows I like her. But hopefully we'll at least stay friends no matter what.

You mentioned coming from a Christian family...is there an adult at your church that you trust and could talk to, such as a youth group leader? If there is, try talking out your feelings. Sometimes it helps just to have someone listen to your fears and worries. Just a thought...hope everything turns out for the best, honey...:bighug:

You mentioned coming from a Christian family...is there an adult at your church that you trust and could talk to, such as a youth group leader? If there is, try talking out your feelings. Sometimes it helps just to have someone listen to your fears and worries. Just a thought...hope everything turns out for the best, honey...:bighug:

No...I think anyone at my church would judge me harshly :( My youth pastor sometimes talks about how bad homosexuality is....plus, if I told someone from my church, they'd probably tell my parents :(

Thanks...I'm so glad I can talk to people on here bc there's no one I can really 100% express my feelings to about this in real life.

It feels weird....I've seriously been thinking about this so much this weekend I've barely aten or slept at all!

No...I think anyone at my church would judge me harshly :( My youth pastor sometimes talks about how bad homosexuality is....plus, if I told someone from my church, they'd probably tell my parents :(

Thanks...I'm so glad I can talk to people on here bc there's no one I can really 100% express my feelings to about this in real life.
From my experience, youth pastors are supposed to keep certain things confidential.

Just think of it this way...I know that God loves you for YOU and always will. No matter what. You are wonderful no matter what. I'm 27 and I've had many heartbreaks in my own life (check out the cheating thread for more). In a way I'm glad they happened because it deepened my compassion for other people. So hang in there...you'll always have people to talk to here. :bighug:

So hang in there...you'll always have people to talk to here. :bighug:

Thanks! :bighug:

I'm sorry about that cheating thing....I know it hurts....I've been through it before too, which is another reason I don't like guys anymore.

Thanks! :bighug:

I'm sorry about that cheating thing....I know it hurts....I've been through it before too, which is another reason I don't like guys anymore.
Thank you...but my experiences helped me relate better to other brokenhearted people. They also happened several years back so it doesn't hurt me as much. Maybe you could try talking to your guidance counselor at school. They are there to help, and I KNOW they are supposed to keep your privacy. Keep us posted! :)

Thank you...but my experiences helped me relate better to other brokenhearted people. They also happened several years back so it doesn't hurt me as much. Maybe you could try talking to your guidance counselor at school. They are there to help, and I KNOW they are supposed to keep your privacy. Keep us posted! :)

idk maybe, but I don't really know my counselor very well so I wouldn't feel really comfortable talking about it with her. I don't want my teachers finding out either.....I feel most comfortable talking about it on here & to my best friend (the one that messaged Baylie).

Whatever is most comfortable...just keep in mind that you are not alone, and that you are special no matter what!! :D (Now I'm beginning to sound like Mister Rogers!! :rofl:)

Whatever is most comfortable...just keep in mind that you are not alone, and that you are special no matter what!! :D (Now I'm beginning to sound like Mister Rogers!! :rofl:)

Thanks! :D

Do u know how I could maybe bring up the conversation w/ Bailey? Should I ask her if she got my friend's message (even though I already know she did cause she just logged onto myspace tonight) & then ask her what she said or something? I'm just scared bc I've never been involved like this w/ a lesbian so I don't know exactly how they are all the time or how they think. As u know, I'm new to this.

I don't know...I've never been in this type of situation before. Not to be preachy, but I find that saying a prayer always helps me. I know that God made you and loves you no matter what. He'll never shut you out. Hope everything goes well in school tomorrow! :bighug:

I don't know...I've never been in this type of situation before. Not to be preachy, but I find that saying a prayer always helps me. I know that God made you and loves you no matter what. He'll never shut you out. Hope everything goes well in school tomorrow! :bighug:

Thanks :) I'll post here tomorrow what happens w/ Baylie at school. She's in 3 of my classes, but 2 of them she sits a little far away from me. But in my drama class, she sits right across from me (we sit at long tables in that class), so she'll be able to see my face & how I act around her the whole period!

Gee i understand ive been through that situation im straight at least i think i am,but i had this huge crush on a girl at work it was sooo...awfull when i first started to get the crush on her i didnt know how to act around her at all,just like how ive felt when i fancy guys etc...shes just a very nice person very pretty there was somthing about her well there must of been for me to of felt that way.She still works at the same place as i do and i still see her everyday it soon went,it was just odd out of the blue these feeling for the same sex??? Ive never fancied anyone else of the same sex just her? god only knows hey? i couldnt help the feelings i had i wished i didnt feel that way i just did.

I know this sounds weird and all, but please don't attack me.
I've always been "straight" and never thought of going out w/ the same sex or anything, but just recently I started really liking one of my friends, who's a lesbian. idk why, it's weird & I'm confused why I started feeling this way....I've always felt more accepted and liked by girls more than guys, and I have A LOT more friends that are girls than guys. What's wrong with me?? Since I have this crush on one of my friends, does that make me a lesbian?? I've known her for a few months now (I met her in my drama class) & I've never actually had a crush on another girl bc I've always been straight before, but now I feel like a lesbian. I do feel that I would do better as a lesbian bc I get more compliments and talked to from girls than guys. Sorry, I know this sounds weird but I'm just so confused & everything about myself & who I am. I hope you understand.
you probably aren't a "full" lesbian if you've had crushes on guys before. in fact you might not even be bi...i think you could still "like" someone of the same sex and still be straight, but if you start liking more girls then guys you'd probably be bi. i dont really think it's something to get too worried about, i'm sure most people have gone through something simular, but if you really do think you're bi/lesbian it's really nothing to be ashamed of.

Well I know what you're going through with the family thing, mine are all that strict Irish Catholic... my mother wanted to disown me everytime I had girlfriends. I told her to bite me. My feelings are, if you're family can't accept you for who you are, then something is wrong. They may not AGREE on it, being religious and all, but they have to accept you. You're their daughter, for Christ's sake.

Personally, I just cant get the idea that since you cant get a bf, you should turn lesbian? You cant make yourself like a certain sex for whatever reason. If your gay/straight/bi whatever thats fine, but you cant just start going after girls because you cant get a bf. If that were my case Id be with a girl now :lol:

Personally, I just cant get the idea that since you cant get a bf, you should turn lesbian? You cant make yourself like a certain sex for whatever reason. If your gay/straight/bi whatever thats fine, but you cant just start going after girls because you cant get a bf. If that were my case Id be with a girl now :lol:

:brent

I am straight, but in the last year I have seen some guys and made remarks(to myself) they they were attractive(or in a few cases hot). I would never date them, it's just an observation. I guess to see what the competition is... :lol:

Gee i understand ive been through that situation im straight at least i think i am,but i had this huge crush on a girl at work it was sooo...awfull when i first started to get the crush on her i didnt know how to act around her at all,just like how ive felt when i fancy guys etc...shes just a very nice person very pretty there was somthing about her well there must of been for me to of felt that way.She still works at the same place as i do and i still see her everyday it soon went,it was just odd out of the blue these feeling for the same sex??? Ive never fancied anyone else of the same sex just her? god only knows hey? i couldnt help the feelings i had i wished i didnt feel that way i just did.

yea, exactly....just like Baylie seems to be the only girl I've truly crushed on, which is weird. It just happened....

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Personally, I just cant get the idea that since you cant get a bf, you should turn lesbian? You cant make yourself like a certain sex for whatever reason. If your gay/straight/bi whatever thats fine, but you cant just start going after girls because you cant get a bf. If that were my case Id be with a girl now :lol:

It didn't happen like that....I just started liking Baylie & crushing on her....I wasn't looking for a girl or anything....it just weirdly happened. Plus, bf's are too complicated.....gf's would probably be easier & more fun for me (no offense, guys, lol)

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Unfortunately, this is something that you have to go with your heart on. It took me many years to finally accept that I was bisexual. The fact is, I've ALWAYS been attracted to girls, but I always tried to pass it off as 'Well, I just find so-and-so good-looking...it doesn't mean anything'.

When the feelings intensified (i.e., when I start thinking about getting in to actual relationships with girls), I knew I was bi. There was just no denying it any longer. The strong feelings I'd had since childhood made sense.

What I'm trying to say is this: It may take you a while to figure it out, but if you really are attracted to girls, then you will figure that out when the time comes. You may just be going through a phase--or you may not.

On a side note, I've never actually dated a girl or even kissed one. I've only dated guys thus far. Am I still bi? I'm pretty damned sure I am. It really has to do with your feelings or what your heart tells you to be true.

Good luck in any case :)

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Well today my friend told me that Baylie only likes me as a friend....I asked her if I could eat lunch w/ her & she said yea & we had fun talking....it's still just really awkward that she knows I like her & she doesn't like me in that way. And at lunch she was acting all flirty w/ one of her friends so it made me feel rather awkward, lol....ugh.

Sounds like a positive outcome. I'm glad! The awkwardness was unavoidable, but it will subside with time.

Confusion is all part of life. Keeps things interesting! Good luck on you quest to find yourself!

I'm "gay" have a gorgeous bf, what more could I want :)

Sounds like a positive outcome. I'm glad! The awkwardness was unavoidable, but it will subside with time.

Confusion is all part of life. Keeps things interesting! Good luck on you quest to find yourself!

Thanks! Yea, it went better than I thought....we're still really good friends & talk every day, especially in drama class. We talked a little bit about gays & stuff today, but we didn't mention anything about my friend's message on myspace asking her (Baylie) if I liked her.

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Hey guys....I made this thread about 3 months ago & several people have PMed me telling me they saw my thread & asked if I wanted to talk.....thanks, everyone 4 your support & help....seriously, I probably would still be dumbfounded & confused if I didn't make this thread!
Ok my friend that I was talking about (the one I liked), her real name is Emily, and yes, I still like her....I told her that a couple weeks ago & she said she gets that from a lot of girls & she would go out w me if she didn't have a gf right now (I hope that's true!!). I really think I'm bi now, but I find myself liking girls more now....like whenever I'm at the mall or something, I look at all the girls instead of guys. Well, I told most of my closest friends about this & all of them seem to be really nice & supportive about it, although one of my best friends says I should be straight. I have a crush on another one of my best friends now, who's straight....which is kinda hard for me since I know I can never have her....I told her I liked her, and she still seemed to be my friend, although things were a little bit weird w us a first. I really wanna be w Emily right now, even though if I was, it would be really hard since my parents wouldn't let me hang out with her bc she's on drugs & they wouldn't trust us together.
The thing I hate most is that my family really doesn't support me being bi like this :(

I did have one gf, Miranda, a couple months ago....but I haven't seen her in over a month bc my mom wouldn't let me see her anymore just because she was on drugs....ugh, long story :(

Thanks again for you help, everyone!! :) :wave:
wow, you like a lot of people on drugs.

I am sorry for not getting support from your family. I know how important it is to support your children regardless of their orientation. I know my 18 year old daughter expected me to not be supportive, but she was wrong. I just tell myself, what is wrong with her being gay? Nothing. She is not a murderer, she is not a loser, she is not stupid, she is not a thief, she isn't going out and doing stupid things that cause parents heartache, so what do I have to ever complain abt? NOTHING. I am proud of her and I love her to death. God gave her to me the way she is and for that I am grateful.

This thread just proves that sexual labels suck. If you don't fall into one of the three categories, you're "confused." Maybe you're 75% attracted to girls and 25% attracted to boys, not unlike a certain legendary poster here from years ago.

I've known that I'm bi forever. Hell, when I started school, it wasn't a matter of me finding out that I was attracted to boys. It was a matter of me finding out that most of the other boys weren't attracted to boys.

I am sorry for not getting support from your family. I know how important it is to support your children regardless of their orientation. I know my 18 year old daughter expected me to not be supportive, but she was wrong. I just tell myself, what is wrong with her being gay? Nothing. She is not a murderer, she is not a loser, she is not stupid, she is not a thief, she isn't going out and doing stupid things that cause parents heartache, so what do I have to ever complain abt? NOTHING. I am proud of her and I love her to death. God gave her to me the way she is and for that I am grateful.


Wouldn't life be easier (for everyone) if every parent felt the same way. Then maybe we could get rid of labels and judgement. Hell, as long as they're healthy and happy that's what all that should matter right?

I've also known for a fact I would be fully supportive of my child (had I had any) regardless of their sexual orientation. I also think my parents would have been if any of us had been gay. Oh my old man would have made some pretty good "Archie Bunker" cracks, but I know deep down he wouldn't have had a problem with it.

No...I think anyone at my church would judge me harshly :( My youth pastor sometimes talks about how bad homosexuality is....plus, if I told someone from my church, they'd probably tell my parents :(

Thanks...I'm so glad I can talk to people on here bc there's no one I can really 100% express my feelings to about this in real life.All the preaching against homosexuality by people in the church does NOT change the fact that people are gay--or that many young people are dealing with that issue in their own lives. Many of these Christians fail to understand that one's sexual orientation is not a cut-and-dried thing. One may be primarily hetero with a few gay tendencies, or in fact may think that they are completely "straight" without realizing they may be more gay than they think. They may be predominantly gay while going through the motions of being hetero.

All the preaching against homosexuality by people in the church does NOT change the fact that people are gay--or that many young people are dealing with that issue in their own lives. Many of these Christians fail to understand that one's sexual orientation is not a cut-and-dried thing. One may be primarily hetero with a few gay tendencies, or in fact may think that they are completely "straight" without realizing they may be more gay than they think. They may be predominantly gay while going through the motions of being hetero.

There are loads of Christians who don't have a problem with homosexuality at all, though. I'm one of them. I'm not just a Christian, however, I'm also a New Ager.

Yea, last year I thought about becoming a lesbian bc I couldn't get a bf, but it wasn't until just recently I actually had a crush on another girl.


it's not a such thing as going out ith the same sex because things were not working out with the opposite sex. It was always in you but you just didnt know it. I have not suceeded at all with the opposite sex my entire life and would never have a interest in trying out men.

it's not a such thing as going out ith the same sex because things were not working out with the opposite sex. It was always in you but you just didnt know it. I have not suceeded at all with the opposite sex my entire life and would never have a interest in trying out men.
My God...is this...Solomon, being sensitive and understanding and caring and nice?

I'm at a loss!

My God...is this...Solomon, being sensitive and understanding and caring and nice?

I'm at a loss!


:lol: Yeah, I think we hit a first with that post!

The Era of the Kinder, Gentler Solomon! ;)

It's also normal to question your sexual orientation, no matter how old you are.

Don't ruin her life by telling her to experiment.

Yea, last year I thought about becoming a lesbian bc I couldn't get a bf, but it wasn't until just recently I actually had a crush on another girl.

This girl is not a lesbian. She is left out and searching to fit in. Nobody should tell her to experiment. It is not normal and will only hurt her.

OP, talk to your parents.

Don't ruin her life by telling her to experiment.

Why would experimenting ruin her life?

This girl is not a lesbian. She is left out and searching to fit in. Nobody should tell her to experiment. It is not normal and will only hurt her.

OP, talk to your parents.

If she's having feelings for girls, then it's possible that she could be either a lesbian or or bisexual.

What is it you mean by saying it's not normal? Do you mean that being gay is not normal? If so, I disagree, because I think it's as normal as being straight - there just happen to be less gay people than straight people.

This girl is not a lesbian. She is left out and searching to fit in. Nobody should tell her to experiment. It is not normal and will only hurt her.

OP, talk to your parents.

If she's having feelings for girls, then it's possible that she could be either a lesbian or or bisexual.

What is it you mean by saying it's not normal? Do you mean that being gay is not normal? If so, I disagree, because I think it's as normal as being straight - there just happen to be less gay people than straight people.

I'm afraid to read this thread, I know it will probably conjure many emotions.

I would like to respond to this topic even though the young lady might have already figured it out...

There is nothing weird about having feelings for someone of the same sex. People shouldn't be so quick to label their feelings just yet, not until they figured it all out.

I don't know if I would helpful enough considering the fact that i'm bisexual instead of a lesbian, but I can tell you that you can't choose your sexuality, sexuality isn't a pair of shoes.

It's really hard being bisexual, you get hell from both sides of the "fence". You have some in the gay community who is afraid to date you because you also like the opposite sex and will call you every name in the book. Then there are some straight people who think it's just a phase. Take my husband for example, first of all, when I got married to him the first thing my father asked was "So I guess you are straight now?" and while my husband loves me dearly, he is annoyed about my bisexuality and doesn't take it seriously, like some people on both sides do. But no, bisexuality is a real sexuality, not something to use on a drunken saturday night, I always knew at such a young age that I also liked girls.

And for whoever said that experimenting will ruin her life is wrong, it's lying to yourself for years and try to cover up so that a closed minded society could love you for who you are...a LIAR!

I would like to respond to this topic even though the young lady might have already figured it out...

There is nothing weird about having feelings for someone of the same sex. People shouldn't be so quick to label their feelings just yet, not until they figured it all out.

I don't know if I would helpful enough considering the fact that i'm bisexual instead of a lesbian, but I can tell you that you can't choose your sexuality, sexuality isn't a pair of shoes.

It's really hard being bisexual, you get hell from both sides of the "fence". You have some in the gay community who is afraid to date you because you also like the opposite sex and will call you every name in the book. Then there are some straight people who think it's just a phase. Take my husband for example, first of all, when I got married to him the first thing my father asked was "So I guess you are straight now?" and while my husband loves me dearly, he is annoyed about my bisexuality and doesn't take it seriously, like some people on both sides do. But no, bisexuality is a real sexuality, not something to use on a drunken saturday night, I always knew at such a young age that I also liked girls.

And for whoever said that experimenting will ruin her life is wrong, it's lying to yourself for years and try to cover up so that a closed minded society could love you for who you are...a LIAR!That's a horrible thing for a father to think, that your marriage to a man is "proof" that you're "cured" of being partly gay. I just wish some of these "Christian" uber-conservatives and the like would figure it all out and stop parading their miracle methods of
"degayifying" people. Marriage is an expression of love, not a litmus test of one's heterosexuality.


I think everyone thinks about a possible bisexual side to themselves. I have once or twice..... or 364 times...

That's a horrible thing for a father to think, that your marriage to a man is "proof" that you're "cured" of being partly gay. I just wish some of these "Christian" uber-conservatives and the like would figure it all out and stop parading their miracle methods of
"degayifying" people. Marriage is an expression of love, not a litmus test of one's heterosexuality.


I think everyone thinks about a possible bisexual side to themselves. I have once or twice..... or 364 times...

Even to this day I keep reminding him that just because i'm married to a man that doesn't mean my feelings for women is non-existed. He thinks that bisexuality is a "drunken girls phase" but he never turned me away.

My uncle is the same way, homosexuality and bisexuality is taboo in the black and Hispanic community and on my black and Mexican side, my bisexuality is made fun of, along with my cousin's homosexuality. His mother even tried to send to some 'special' camp or something like that so that he can be 'cured':rolleyes: . My husband is almost just as worse, sometimes he make snide comments about it and even in front of his friends. He will sometimes get so bold and suggest a threesome in front of his friends!:rolleyes:

Even to this day I keep reminding him that just because i'm married to a man that doesn't mean my feelings for women is non-existed. He thinks that bisexuality is a "drunken girls phase" but he never turned me away.

My uncle is the same way, homosexuality and bisexuality is taboo in the black and Hispanic community and on my black and Mexican side, my bisexuality is made fun of, along with my cousin's homosexuality. His mother even tried to send to some 'special' camp or something like that so that he can be 'cured':rolleyes: . My husband is almost just as worse, sometimes he make snide comments about it and even in front of his friends. He will sometimes get so bold and suggest a threesome in front of his friends!:rolleyes:
OMG....Yeah, wouldn't that be just sweet. Guys' favorite fantasy. His comments are not only uncalled for, but it really shows his lack of tact and empathy toward your feelings. It's all hypocritical. Bisexuality is wrong only as "HE" doesn't get to be part of it with his buddies (and drunken chicks).

Funny how for all our moral browbeating on gays, bi's, and other
"undesirables", we pull out our twisted thrills only when it's convenient. Case in point: Ted Haggard, Senator Craig, and a host of other (formerly) closeted pro-family, "anti-gay" Republicans.

OMG....Yeah, wouldn't that be just sweet. Guys' favorite fantasy. His comments are not only uncalled for, but it really shows his lack of tact and empathy toward your feelings. It's all hypocritical. Bisexuality is wrong only as "HE" doesn't get to be part of it with his buddies (and drunken chicks).

Funny how for all our moral browbeating on gays, bi's, and other
"undesirables", we pull out our twisted thrills only when it's convenient. Case in point: Ted Haggard, Senator Craig, and a host of other (formerly) closeted pro-family, "anti-gay" Republicans.

I've told him over and over again that it won't ever happen again(I actually gave in during our first year married..never again.) He has said he doesn't mind my bisexuality if he can particpate in it:rolleyes: but he would be upset with me if I leave him for another woman or cheated on him with one...oh, and if we ever get divorced, god forbid my next love will be a female.

:lol: Oh yes, it's always the ones who are totally in the closest and so pro-family that gets busted in a "George Michael" position with another man. Sometimes I feel bad for them..

Mothers with young kids who spend their lives online, pouring out their life stories, give me gas.:lol:We're so glad to hear your scintillating input. ohno: I find it very interesting, actually.

It's actually closer to 40 or so. You'd think a guy his age would have something better to do than sign up several different accounts just for the sake of being an internet tough guy, but I guess you'd be wrong.