On average, I'd say I probably go out on about 2 dates a month. I was with a few of those online dating websites for a couple years, and that's where I got the majority of my dates, as well as where I met my last girlfriend, but I recently took my name off those sites, and so my dating life will likely become even less active over the next few months. When I have a girlfriend, I probably go out on about one or two dates a week. How about all of you, how often do you date?? This question is for singles, as well as married people.

I dont really know what a date is.

On average, I'd say I probably go out on about 2 dates a month. I was with a few of those online dating websites for a couple years, and that's where I got the majority of my dates, as well as where I met my last girlfriend, but I recently took my name off those sites, and so my dating life will likely become even less active over the next few months. When I have a girlfriend, I probably go out on about one or two dates a week. How about all of you, how often do you date?? This question is for singles, as well as married people.


My Dating has Decreased to 2-3 dates a YEAR since 2002 because I find these things more fun


Watching NBA and NFL
Surfing the Internet
Watching TV comedy
Listening to Sports Talk Radio
Talking to friends on the Phone
Going out to Dinner with Family

Next question please...

;)

My Dating has Decreased to 2-3 dates a YEAR since 2002 because I find these things more fun


Watching NBA and NFL
Surfing the Internet
Watching TV comedy
Listening to Sports Talk Radio
Talking to friends on the Phone
Going out to Dinner with Family

I can understand that. Dates can be fun and everything, but they sure do take a toll on your wallet. When I first broke up with my girlfriend, I was totally inconsolable, but then when the month went by, and I saw how much extra money I had in my wallet, that definitely helped to soften the blow. :lol: That's one of the benefits of just dating, as opposed to having a girlfriend. When you're just dating, you and the girl usually split the bill 50/50, while when you have a girlfriend, you always have to pay. Despite that though, I still prefer having a girlfriend to casual dating. The good feelings I get when I have a girlfriend, far outweigh not having much money in my view.

I dont really know what a date is.

I'm with you....

I'm kinda married, and we haven't gone on a date in about 2 years, but the marriage is only for a little while later (perhaps the lack of dates is the problem lol), so I'm thinking my dating will become even less if that's possible :)

I'm with you....

I'm kinda married, and we haven't gone on a date in about 2 years, but the marriage is only for a little while later (perhaps the lack of dates is the problem lol), so I'm thinking my dating will become even less if that's possible :)


yeah i have this kind of girlfriend that i've been with for like 2 years..we hang out and go places but i dont think its like going out on a date? dating makes me think of meeting someone new and asking them to go to the movies or dinner.

I have a girlfriend. Her name is The Internet.
We are together nearly everyday and we travel around the world a lot!
She is very inexpensive. ;)

My Dating has Decreased to 2-3 dates a YEAR since 2002 because I find these things more fun


Watching NBA and NFL
Surfing the Internet
Watching TV comedy
Listening to Sports Talk Radio
Talking to friends on the Phone
Going out to Dinner with Family


Yeah those are the reasons why:lol:

But to answer the question, once in a blue moon

Yeah those are the reasons why:lol:

But to answer the question, once in a blue moon


6. Safe Adult Fun


LOL

My husband frowns on me dating others, so I date him, lol. Actually we had date earlier...nice dinner.

My husband frowns on me dating others, so I date him, lol. Actually we had date earlier...nice dinner.

People and their damn monogamy ways.







I've always wanted an excuse to use this word and it finally came up

That's one of the benefits of just dating, as opposed to having a girlfriend. When you're just dating, you and the girl usually split the bill 50/50, while when you have a girlfriend, you always have to pay.

That's where I would draw the line. If I went on a date and the girl expected me to pay completely, I'd tell her that isn't fair and if she expected me to pay, I'd say "Ok, well if that's the case, you won't be going on any more dates with me." and I'd leave and make her pay. :lol:

But in all honesty, I think whoever asks the other person on the date should pay. If the girl asks the guy to go with her to eat, it implies her saying "Would you like me to take you out to eat?" which means she should offer to pay. Same thing if its a guy who asks the girl on a date. It's not fair to expect the guy or girl to pay every time, and I wouldn't allow that treatment.

Um. Zero?

That's where I would draw the line. If I went on a date and the girl expected me to pay completely, I'd tell her that isn't fair and if she expected me to pay, I'd say "Ok, well if that's the case, you won't be going on any more dates with me." and I'd leave and make her pay. :lol:

But in all honesty, I think whoever asks the other person on the date should pay. If the girl asks the guy to go with her to eat, it implies her saying "Would you like me to take you out to eat?" which means she should offer to pay. Same thing if its a guy who asks the girl on a date. It's not fair to expect the guy or girl to pay every time, and I wouldn't allow that treatment.


I know what I mean-lol If you are expected to keep paying you should be atleast be getting some touch feels-lol

I know what I mean-lol If you are expected to keep paying you should be atleast be getting some touch feels-lol


Getting some what???

People and their damn monogamy ways.





I've always wanted an excuse to use this word and it finally came up

:lol: That's cute.

Getting some what???


"SOME TOUCH FEELS"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-LOL

I know what I mean-lol If you are expected to keep paying you should be atleast be getting some touch feels-lol

The women Iv'e gone out with usually have offered me a little action, or as you put it, some touch feels. LOL!! I rarely accept it though. I find that "touch feels" are far more exciting when you wait. Builds up the anticipation. ;)

"SOME TOUCH FEELS"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-LOL


:brent :brent What in the hell is "Some touch feels" :rofl:

:brent :brent What in the hell is "Some touch feels" :rofl:



I already explained this to you in PM's-lol

I already explained this to you in PM's-lol


Well I've forgotten, so tell me again, what's, some touch feels?? :lol:

i know exactly what you mean by 'some touch feels'. :rofl:

Well I've forgotten, so tell me again, what's, some touch feels?? :lol:


Stress Relief Activities or Creative Foreplay-lol Whatever u want to call it

I kinda went on one today. :D

Stress Relief Activities or Creative Foreplay-lol Whatever u want to call it


I don't know how to word what I want to say with out sounding dirty and keeping it G-Rated, SO I'll just say I understand LOL

I kinda went on one today. :D

That's awesome Courtnee!! :thumbsup: I hope the two of you had a great time together!! :)

That's awesome Courtnee!! :thumbsup: I hope you and your date had a great time!! :)
aw thanks. :D He seems to like me a lot, I hope something blosoms out of all this...

Stress Relief Activities or Creative Foreplay-lol Whatever u want to call it
a massage with a happy ending?

we hang out and go places but i dont think its like going out on a date? dating makes me think of meeting someone new and asking them to go to the movies or dinner.

I completely agree with you. I don't ask random people out right away. I had a err... "girlfriend" up until a few weeks ago and like you said, we just hung out and went places, and I guess they were dates but not like a 'date, date'.

a massage with a happy ending?



Possibly-lol

Stress Relief Activities or Creative Foreplay-lol Whatever u want to call it


:rotflmao:

"touch feels"...def. gotta use that phrase more often!

I go out on the occasional outing... I wouldn't call it a date, though. It's just us hanging out and whatnot.

I prefer to have someone of the opposite sex come over to my house the first time, or vice versa. ;)

im going on one tomorrow.


"I prefer to have someone of the opposite sex come over to my house the first time, or vice versa."

yeah thats what i did when we first stared "dating"
but he kinda called it a date, i didnt call it anything.

Um. Zero?
Amen, sister :mrtarver:

if you call a date going out for dinner and a movie then none. if you call it going out drinking and just hanging out, then plenty. i think the old dinner and a movie standard is lame and outdated. sure, once you get serious fancy dinners are nice, but im not going to be throwing cash on someone i'll probably never see again.

My Dating has Decreased to 2-3 dates a YEAR since 2002 because I find these things more fun


Watching NBA and NFL
Surfing the Internet
Watching TV comedy
Listening to Sports Talk Radio
Talking to friends on the Phone
Going out to Dinner with Family
and talking to your commeorative bobble head of George Jefferson that you use as a vooodoo doll

Stress Relief Activities or Creative Foreplay-lol Whatever u want to call it
:rotflmao: OH MAN, I GET IT!

I don't date.

Hardly ever. I prefer to stay home most of the time. Plus it gets too expensive to do too much.

The question is - what is considered a date?

I go out on the occasional outing... I wouldn't call it a date, though. It's just us hanging out and whatnot.
:yeahthat

and talking to your commeorative bobble head of George Jefferson that you use as a vooodoo doll


Are you going to run that joke to death or what?

never been on one.

Now that I'm working in Italy, something like 10 diff dates a week, hehehehehe!! No joke!

Now that I'm working in Italy, something like 10 diff dates a week, hehehehehe!! No joke!



You must have a NICE SALARY-lol

I kinda went on one today. :D


That is great news. :)

Hardly ever. I prefer to stay home most of the time. Plus it gets too expensive to do too much.


Cathy, I thought that you were seeing someone? :confused:

I have had my share of dates, but not any over the last two years. I need to really get back to dating though since I am 30 now and would like to have a family someday.

Cathy, I thought that you were seeing someone? :confused:
I am. But we don't really go out on "dates."

Amen, sister :mrtarver:
Theres a guy I like and we hang out one on one and such and everyone at work thinks we're together and dating.. evidently its a big rumor at work, but its NOT true!

I wouldn't know. :(

Don't feel too bad Jen. I didn't go out on my first date until a little over a year ago. Some of us are just late bloomers, and there's nothing wrong with that. :)

The question is - what is considered a date?

A game of 20 questions where if you get enough of the answers right, you get to spend one night with a member of the opposite sex. The more answers you get right, the more of your life you get to spend with him or her.


That's one of the reasons I don't do it. I know that rejection is guaranteed before I even try.

me and Jonathan go out every Friday night, sometimes more, if you consider that a date, then I guess i date alot??

Theres a guy I like and we hang out one on one and such and everyone at work thinks we're together and dating.. evidently its a big rumor at work, but its NOT true!
Closer than I am lol

If you qualify a date as going out to dinner and/or a movie, Anthony and I go out on about 2 dates a month. For the most part we are fine with just hanging out at one of our houses. That and we are both broke college students.

Theres a guy I like and we hang out one on one and such and everyone at work thinks we're together and dating.. evidently its a big rumor at work, but its NOT true!

pfft, you keep underestimating yourself. give yourself some more credit Miz! you're luckier than a lot of people I know.

pfft, you keep underestimating yourself. give yourself some more credit Miz! you're luckier than a lot of people I know.
But Im not getting any 'touchy feels' :(

But Im not getting any 'touchy feels' :(


Really? Everyone needs a little touch feels every once in a while

Hahha, I'm with you guys...never!



Amen, sister :mrtarver:

Cathy, I thought that you were seeing someone? :confused:
She is. I've met her boyfriend in person, too. ;)

But Im not getting any 'touchy feels' :(

cause those you get with me :D

cause those you get with me :D


Touch feels is a beautiful thing-lol

Touch feels is a beautiful thing-lol


Is that something that you do alone or do you need another person to help? LOL

Is that something that you do alone or do you need another person to help? LOL



of course i'm with another person-lol

I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 15.

So my dating life is pretty non-existent.

You must have a NICE SALARY-lol

Well, I did get a pay rise last year actually!!! That's not the point though:rolleyes: ! It's just that Italian chix like to play around more too now.....it's not all mandolins, poets and family over here anymore.....wwwwwwwwwwooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! Me get married? Never again, heheheheheh!!!!:cool: :lol: :lol: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

Nah, no worries, you are still young; and also, I find that hard to believe that you do not have a boyfriend!??!; you are a doll:)

Thanks. :) That's really nice of you. :) But offline, I'm quite shy, and I don't really go out much. I think some people tend to find me a bit standoffish and boring. Either that, or if I'm talking animatedly about my beliefs in astral projection and alternate realities, they usually think I'm crazy.