Did she meet her husband making A mothers Gift? Does anybody know?

I think so. There is a 1995 TV Guide interview with her where she talks about meeting a guy from Texas on the crew of that movie that she was dating/in love with. I'm pretty sure it's the same guy, as that movie was based in Austin, but they just took a long break in the middle of dating.

YES, HER HUSBAND, MARC IS A KEY GRIP, AND THEY MET ON HER MOVIE SET.:)

I remember reading the tv guide article a while ago. Also in her intimate portrait on lifetime I think she talks about a relationship with a lighting director that didn't work out. And when she was talking about the corsit outfit and they had pull it down she said she had a couple of choices to do that. In another interview for a mag I remember her talking about getting "burned" when she was so open in that tv guide interview. So is it possible she dated Marc the key grip and another guy the lighting director?

Nope, pretty sure Marc is the same guy. They just broke up for several years in between and then I guess started dating again for whatever reason. I think the Intimate Portrait was before they started seeing each other again so she would still talk about Marc in the past tense.