She said she gave an attractive guy her phone number in the supermarket 5 days ago and was asking me why do i think he hasn't called yet? And I said because it's a Big City and it's lot of competition"


Does that sound like I'm saying she is not attractive?

She said she gave an attractive guy her phone number in the supermarket 5 days ago and was asking me why do i think he hasn't called yet? And I said because it's a Big City and it's lot of competition"


Does that sound like I'm saying she is not attractive?


did you really have to ask us that?:crazy: :eek:

men, some advice: THINK THINK THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

That answer was a bit rough.

did you really have to ask us that?:crazy: :eek:

men, some advice: THINK THINK THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK


WHAT???-lol It's an honest answer. If the guy looks that good he may have met someone else who was good looking and then someone else and then someone else. That's what I mean by compeition, the guy has a lotof women.

Hmmm I think I'd rather a lie to save my feelings instead of the truth. I'm very sensitive! lol

WHAT???-lol It's an honest answer. If the guy looks that good he may have met someone else who was good looking and then someone else and then someone else. That's what I mean by compeition, the guy has a lotof women.
WRONG WRONG WRONG....If you can't say nothing nice...blah blah blah


don't try and squirm outta this one....YOU WERE WRONG. No matter what you meant, no matter how your female friend interpreted it, it SOUNDED MEAN.

Hmmm I think I'd rather a lie to save my feelings instead of the truth. I'm very sensitive! lol


What else is there to say?-lol I'm not insulting her i'm just saying she is not the only cute girl in philadelphia, what's wrong with that?

What else is there to say?-lol I'm not insulting her i'm just saying she is not the only cute girl in philadelphia, what's wrong with that?
YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY CUTE GIRL... that may be the truth, but not the thing to say to A FRIEND...

Well, men have stronger feelings than we do. Something that men would just shrug off, girls will mostly go and cry about, at least that's what I do. Men have to be very sensitive around us (if they want their family jewels in tact that is) :lol:

WRONG WRONG WRONG....If you can't say nothing nice...blah blah blah


don't try and squirm outta this one....YOU WERE WRONG. No matter what you meant, no matter how your female friend interpreted it, it SOUNDED MEAN.


So it sounds mean to say-"well you are not he only attractive grl in Philly????

you asked us if this sounded wrong...

WE ARE TELLING YOU: YES so why do you continue to defend your actions that you asked our advice for?

Well let me ask you this, what did she do when you said that to her?

YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY CUTE GIRL... that may be the truth, but not the thing to say to A FRIEND...


In all honesty i was irritated by the question and that was the nicest answer I could think of-lol JUst like he met her in the supermarket he probably met another girl, my advice to her is move on. I do know if she askes me that queston again I may say something mean

In all honesty i was irritated by the question and that was the nicest answer I could think of-lol JUst like he met her in the supermarket he probably met another girl, my advice to her is move on. I do know if she askes me that queston again I may say something mean
WHAT WAS HER REACTION?

Well let me ask you this, what did she do when you said that to her?


She said -"Well I'm powerful so that competition thing means nothing" So if she feels that then WTF is she moaning that some guy hasn't called her yet?-lol I think she is trying to get me to say she is DROP DEAD GOREGOUS but I'm not going to do it

She said -"Well I'm powerful so that competition thing means nothing" So if she feels that then WTF is she moaning that some guy hasn't called her yet?-lol I think she is trying to get me to say she is DROP DEAD GOREGOUS but I'm not going to do it
Then don't say anything. Just smile.

Agreed.

I'm old enough to know that I have to compete with other handsome men in the city and I never et bent out of shape if a female doesn't call me right away

forget abt it Solomon. She is the way she is and you are the way you are. You said it and it's done. It's not going to change anything.

forget abt it Solomon. She is the way she is and you are the way you are. You said it and it's done. It's not going to change anything.


Did competition bother you? Oh I forgot u are Hot-lol

That probably wasn't a good thing to say, women flip out over comments like that

That probably wasn't a good thing to say, women flip out over comments like that


Well It's the truth. She don't look that good to be automically number 1 on some guy's list. Thats just life.

What else is there to say?-lol I'm not insulting her i'm just saying she is not the only cute girl in philadelphia, what's wrong with that?

Now, most of you here at Sitcoms Online know that when it comes to women, I have no clue what's going on.

But i do know this:

They reeeeeaaaaaallly don't like to be told that there are other women out there that are smarter/cuter/better/funnier/nicer/hotter than they are!

;)

Now, most of you here at Sitcoms Online know that when it comes to women, I have no clue what's going on.

But i do know this:

They reeeeeaaaaaallly don't like to be told that there are other women out there that are smarter/cuter/better/funnier/nicer/hotter than they are!

;)


Well that's Dating, either she accept it or spend her nights wondering why men take 5 days to call. It took an pretty women 4 days to call me and then it ended up being every 2 days once we started talking and then it was everyday. So that's how things are when yu date, have to relax and see what hapens-lol

I guess I'm the only woman on the board who don't find anything wrong with what Solomon said. It wouldn't have hurt my feelings at all, it's the truth.

Don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth.

I guess I'm the only woman on the board who don't find anything wrong with what Solomon said. It wouldn't have hurt my feelings at all, it's the truth.

Don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth.
The thing is Soloman stated this is his friend. Yet, towards the end he is saying how she REALLY is. Had he stated in the beginning post how STUCK UP she was, then my response would have been different. I thought she was a good friend seeking advice. I didn't know she was a prude.

I guess I'm the only woman on the board who don't find anything wrong with what Solomon said. It wouldn't have hurt my feelings at all, it's the truth.

Don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth.


Right Brie, as good as look u look, i would say the same thing, i would say-Well brie i guess he probably meet some more females who are on your level looks wise.

The thing is Soloman stated this is his friend. Yet, towards the end he is saying how she REALLY is. Had he stated in the beginning post how STUCK UP she was, then my response would have been different. I thought she was a good friend seeking advice. I didn't know she was a prude.
reread solomon.

I think what you said was perfectly fine Solomon. If you have a good relationship with a person, there's nothing wrong with laying it on the line. It's not as if you insulted her and told her she was ugly.

Damn Solomon, your always getting yourself into these situations. :D

Just...don't say that stuff to girls. You just have to lie to us sometimes. :lol:

Just...don't say that stuff to girls. You just have to lie to us sometimes. :lol:
Your avatar is a riot Ashlee. :lol:

These threads are becoming a daily occurrence. :p

The thing is Soloman stated this is his friend. Yet, towards the end he is saying how she REALLY is. Had he stated in the beginning post how STUCK UP she was, then my response would have been different. I thought she was a good friend seeking advice. I didn't know she was a prude.

I know, she asked for his advice and he gave it to her. I don't find anything wrong with what he said. It's not like he said that she was unattractive or anything. She asked and he told her. Now if he would have said "Maybe he found someone better looking then you" THEN I would have had a problem with it. But he didn't say that.

I think as women we always want to hear people say that things are ok when they aren't. False hopes :lol:

Like I said, Don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth.

I know, she asked for his advice and he gave it to her. I don't find anything wrong with what he said. It's not like he said that she was unattractive or anything. She asked and he told her. Now if he would have said "Maybe he found someone better looking then you" THEN I would have had a problem with it. But he didn't say that.

I think as women we always want to hear people say that things are ok when they aren't. False hopes :lol:

Like I said, Don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth.


Right, and when I tell you what type of guy she is looking for in this big city full of OTHER pretty woma, you are going to be shocked. She is looking for a guy who is

Muscular
Tall
Attractive
Nice Job
Nice Car
No Kids
His own Place
His Own Car
Warm
Funny
Romantic


Lots of woman want a guy with all that, not just her-lol

Your avatar is a riot Ashlee. :lol:
Thanks. SNL :lol:

Right, and when I tell you what type of guy she is looking for in this big city full of OTHER pretty woma, you are going to be shocked. She is looking for a guy who is

Muscular
Tall
Attractive
Nice Job
Nice Car
No Kids
His own Place
His Own Car
Warm
Funny
Romantic


Lots of woman want a guy with all that, not just her-lol

Well at least she has a goal.

Well, men have stronger feelings than we do. Something that men would just shrug off, girls will mostly go and cry about,:

That's not really true, Kelly.

Solomen, sometimes I think it is better to not be totally honest. If you know that what you are going to say may hurt someone, then sometimes a lie is better.

Solomon, here's a tip for next time -

tell her that you heard the guy was gay and that he's probably too intimidated by her beauty to call her back.

...or just run away.

That wasn't a good thing to say. You should never imply that someone isn't good looking or good enough, whatever. You could have just said that some people aren't interested in going out with total strangers, which is true.

Solomen, sometimes I think it is better to not be totally honest. If you know that what you are going to say may hurt someone, then sometimes a lie is better.


Well it looks like she should just move on because I asked her last night did he call yet and she said no-lol Sometimes Guys may just hit on a woman to see if they can get the number. She actually said that she gave her number to 3 attractive guys on Monday and none of them called yet. So I will not be accepting her calls this weekend because I'm not trying to hear-"I HATE BEING SINGLE, I NEED A NICE ATTRACTIVE GUY".

So I will not be accepting her calls this weekend because I'm not trying to hear-"I HATE BEING SINGLE, I NEED A NICE ATTRACTIVE GUY".


I can't really blame you there. :lol:

I can't really blame you there. :lol:


LOL-We start out having a nice conversation and then after bout 30 min, the moaning and complaining starts

LOL-We start out having a nice conversation and then after bout 30 min, the moaning and complaining starts
:lol:

LOL-We start out having a nice conversation and then after bout 30 min, the moaning and complaining starts
god this thread is still going on. The point is, you Solomon didn't give all the facts in the beginning post. You gave the appearance that this is a dear friend of yours and that somehow you hurt her feelings. REREAD YOUR POST. you do this all the time. As each person posts something in response to your initial post, you start throwing in different info and then a curve ball. Had you said this:

I have this female friend who is wondering why a guy hasn't called her after she gave him her number. She is the type of person who is conceited, thinks she is all that, thinks all men should want her, etc. Now, I like her, she is my friend, but she gets on my nerves by repeatedly stating how "I can't be single..." "I need a man." "I am beautiful." "I have no competition"...etc. etc. etc.

Do you see what I am saying Solomon? Little by little you give different info and with that you will get different responses. Had you GIVEN ALL THE FACTS the first time, I would have told you to just avoid the conversation altogether and if and when she brings it up once more, than lay it on the line to her. However, you made it sound like you hurt a close friend and were asking if you were outta line? If you felt like you weren't outta line, what do you care what we think????? Especially if you don't tell us THE WHOLE STORY?

god this thread is still going on. The point is, you Solomon didn't give all the facts in the beginning post. You gave the appearance that this is a dear friend of yours and that somehow you hurt her feelings. REREAD YOUR POST. you do this all the time. As each person posts something in response to your initial post, you start throwing in different info and then a curve ball. Had you said this:

I have this female friend who is wondering why a guy hasn't called her after she gave him her number. She is the type of person who is conceited, thinks she is all that, thinks all men should want her, etc. Now, I like her, she is my friend, but she gets on my nerves by repeatedly stating how "I can't be single..." "I need a man." "I am beautiful." "I have no competition"...etc. etc. etc.

Do you see what I am saying Solomon? Little by little you give different info and with that you will get different responses. Had you GIVEN ALL THE FACTS the first time, I would have told you to just avoid the conversation altogether and if and when she brings it up once more, than lay it on the line to her. However, you made it sound like you hurt a close friend and were asking if you were outta line? If you felt like you weren't outta line, what do you care what we think????? Especially if you don't tell us THE WHOLE STORY?

Now that you put it that way, I think that he really does like her and he's trying to convince himself that he don't and that she's getting on his nerves. When in fact he really does like it, and he gets jealous when she talks about other guys, That's what he doesn't like. This reminds me of High School :lol:

When you like someone just tell them, it won't hurt to let them know how you feel. You never know they might feel the same way about you.

Now that you put it that way, I think that he really does like her and he's trying to convince himself that he don't and that she's getting on his nerves. When in fact he really does like it, and he gets jealous when she talks about other guys, That's what he doesn't like. This reminds me of High School :lol:

When you like someone just tell them, it won't hurt to let them know how you feel. You never know they might feel the same way about you.
I don't know what to think. Each post of Solomon's, he adds some new twist to the story. Next post will be, "She is my female friend, but she is only female on the weekends...she is saving up for a sex operation."

Now that you put it that way, I think that he really does like her and he's trying to convince himself that he don't and that she's getting on his nerves. When in fact he really does like it, and he gets jealous when she talks about other guys, That's what he doesn't like. This reminds me of High School :lol:

When you like someone just tell them, it won't hurt to let them know how you feel. You never know they might feel the same way about you.


No I don't think of her in that way, she is not my type

No I don't think of her in that way, she is not my type


Do you even have a type? Because your quick to say "She's not my type", just about every woman isn't your type, seems to me.

Do you even have a type? Because your quick to say "She's not my type", just about every woman isn't your type, seems to me.


You are my type but you are married and live in Dallas, oh Well-lol But she is too immature for me

You are my type but you are married and live in Dallas, oh Well-lol But she is too immature for me

As much as we butt heads. I would be too much for you to handle lol

As much as we butt heads. I would be too much for you to handle lol

LOL