When a woman says something like this to a guy do you think sex is on her mind? This female I recently met and been talking on the phone for 2 weeks said to me-"Do you feel like having company?" It's usually the guy who says something like that. I just got a freaky vibe when she said-"can I come over" instead of-"Do you want to go out and do something" What do you think?

dude you haven't got any in 6 years... shut up and go with it!

dude you haven't got any in 6 years... shut up and go with it!


Look I'm not looking for any freaks. I want someone with class not a woman who is so quick to give me the A**-lol

dude you haven't got any in 6 years... shut up and go with it!LOL

i didnt know only females 21 and over were sexually active.

i didnt know only females 21 and over were sexually active.



I said 21 and over because someone who is 18 may not be dating a guy with his own place.

I guess it all depends on the tone in which she said it. But chances are good, yes that she is looking for sex.

I guess it all depends on the tone in which she said it. But chances are good, yes that she is looking for sex.


That's what I keep trying to tell another friend of mine but she says it doesn;t mean that. I don't like females who just want to jump in the ebd right away

I agree with LadyJess, it kind of depends on the tone in which she said it. Other than having a inkling in that respect, it is kind of a toss-up as to what she meant by it.
Could be she simply wants to check out your digs, and thereby finding out alot about you by how you live, maybe? If it isn't so innocent, and she does want more, you can always say no, you know.


Oops, sorry. I forgot what the title to this thread was before I posted.:lol: I'm not a female 21 or over.:blush: At least the last time I checked I wasn't.

She might just wanted to come over and talk or watch a movie. Did she say it in a sexy voice? Did she ask the question just out of the blue? Were you two having a x-rated conversation? You have to give us something to work with here LOL....j/k

But seriously you should have asked her what she had in mind. I'm taking it that you said No since your asking this question.

I can't speak for every woman, but YES, that can be taken that way. Or she could just want to hug and kiss and have male company. After I was divorced I wouldn't invite any man over my place like that because it can sound that way.

When a woman says something like this to a guy do you think sex is on her mind? This female I recently met and been talking on the phone for 2 weeks said to me-"Do you feel like having company?" It's usually the guy who says something like that. I just got a freaky vibe when she said-"can I come over" instead of-"Do you want to go out and do something" What do you think?
You sound like me in a reversed role with a guy friend of mine. It later got misinterpreted where I realized he was just "being funny" and that was his persona. He didn't really mean anything by it. Maybe this girl is the same way? I don't know....

She might just wanted to come over and talk or watch a movie. Did she say it in a sexy voice? Did she ask the question just out of the blue? Were you two having a x-rated conversation? You have to give us something to work with here LOL....j/k

But seriously you should have asked her what she had in mind. I'm taking it that you said No since your asking this question.



I made up a lie and said I was busy-lol I wasn;t expecting her to ask to come over so fast.

I can't speak for every woman, but YES, that can be taken that way. Or she could just want to hug and kiss and have male company. After I was divorced I wouldn't invite any man over my place like that because it can sound that way.


Exactly, was so caught off guard by the question. Usually a female would want to go to dinner first or a movie but she was just like-"so do you want so company?

Exactly, was so caught off guard by the question. Usually a female would want to go to dinner first or a movie but she was just like-"so do you want so company?
I can see your point. And there is nothing wrong with being a gentleman and wanting to visit for only company. Maybe next time something like this occurs, you can kinda say something subtle like "Great, what should I bring?" you know, suggest something, like renting a movie, bringing something to munch on or drink, then her response should be something you can decipher what she really has on her mind. And also, there is nothing wrong with going over and if she does do something that makes you think she is only wanting to lead to sex, you can be blunt and tell her how you feel. Let her know what a tramp she is! LOL Maybe not that blunt, but still, i think you know what I mean.

dude you haven't got any in 6 years... shut up and go with it!
:rofl:

Stop being shy and ask the woman out.

I guess it all depends on the tone in which she said it. But chances are good, yes that she is looking for sex.
I agree. Actually, I think that's sort of a dumb thing to say anyway. What's wrong with "I'm bored, can I come over and hang out?" Or just simply state her objective..."I'm horny, can I come sleep with you?"

Either way, ditch her.

dude you haven't got any in 6 years... shut up and go with it!

:brent

Seriously dude... attractive(I assume) woman asks to come over to your house and you say no? What the heck is wrong with you? :p :lol:

:brent

Seriously dude... attractive(I assume) woman asks to come over to your house and you say no? What the heck is wrong with you? :p :lol:


I didn't say that I said NO-lol That would make me sound GAY. I said that I made up a lie but she can come over this weekend. So That's why I ask do you think she is trying to have sex with me the day she comes over.