View Full Version : My Friend told it's always FLATTERING when she gets a compliment no matter who


TVFactFan
02-17-2006, 09:03 PM
it comes from-lol Now who agrees with this? She said even if a female who likes woman compliments her it's flattering. Someone help with this but I thought it was only flattering when you receive a compliment from someone you are attracted to? Anyone agree? Like for you females out there who are between 20 and 30, would you be flattered if you were complimented by a 48 year old man?-lol

James"Thunder"Early
02-17-2006, 09:12 PM
I know a woman who is a bus driver who likes compliments from anybody, even bums, so I guess it depends on the woman.

TVFactFan
02-17-2006, 09:15 PM
I know a woman who is a bus driver who likes compliments from anybody, even bums, so I guess it depends on the woman.



I;m only flattered if the compliment comes from a young pretty woman.

EmoJoe
02-17-2006, 09:56 PM
I;m only flattered if the compliment comes from a young pretty woman.
well i'm flattered by anyone who's under the age of 30 (family members can be any age though). if a 50 year old women said "LOLZ UR HOT" to me, i would be like..o_O

x3 Taylor x3
02-17-2006, 10:00 PM
Compliments are great from anybody. The end.

TVFactFan
02-17-2006, 10:02 PM
Compliments are great from anybody. The end.



I will remember that the next time a woman with missing teeth and says-"Hi Handsome"-lol

G-Force Glockstar
02-17-2006, 10:24 PM
Compliments are great from anybody. The end.


Agreed

James"Thunder"Early
02-17-2006, 10:47 PM
I will remember that the next time a woman with missing teeth and says-"Hi Handsome"-lolLOL

gilligan fanatic
02-17-2006, 10:56 PM
I will remember that the next time a woman with missing teeth and says-"Hi Handsome"-lol

that's not flattering, that scary.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
02-17-2006, 11:04 PM
I will remember that the next time a woman with missing teeth and says-"Hi Handsome"-lol
ha, that's not a compliment...that's flirting. It's kind of different...

Chelsea
02-17-2006, 11:06 PM
There's compliments

And then there's compliments.

EmoJoe
02-17-2006, 11:12 PM
ha, that's not a compliment...that's flirting. It's kind of different...
yeah. if it was a compliment, then ok, but if it was flirting, then...yuck

TVFactFan
02-17-2006, 11:49 PM
ha, that's not a compliment...that's flirting. It's kind of different...



But she is still pointing out that I'm handsome so wouldn't that still be a compliment?-lol I thought Flirting would be if she said-"hi with a Big Smile"

James"Thunder"Early
02-18-2006, 12:06 AM
But she is still pointing out that I'm handsome so wouldn't that still be a compliment?-lol I thought Flirting would be if she said-"hi with a Big Smile"I think it would be both flirting and a compliment

Janice
02-18-2006, 12:46 AM
Flirting and giving a compliment are not mutually exclusive. A 60-year old woman can tell a 30-year old man that she likes his shirt or that he's handsome. It doesn't mean she's flirting.

I think a compliment is always nice to hear, regardless of who says it. You can never go wrong with kindness.

lockdown06
02-18-2006, 01:59 AM
I like compliments from anyone.

Now if a guy says he likes my truck or my boots its OK. He says he likes anything else he may not talk for another 6-8 weeks.

Mijada
02-18-2006, 06:57 AM
I think a compliment is always nice to hear, regardless of who says it. You can never go wrong with kindness.

Your right. I've had guys who weren't all that attractive in my eyes give me compliments and I still appreciate it. I've also given compliments to people who are much more attractive than me. It's always nice to hear, better than someone putting you down all the time.

Michael [hXc]
02-18-2006, 09:11 AM
well i'm flattered by anyone who's under the age of 30 (family members can be any age though). if a 50 year old women said "LOLZ UR HOT" to me, i would be like..o_O

omg that happens to my friend all the time. at the mall older guys usually talk to her and think she is older, and she thinks it is sick and she isn't complimented and she says 'omg back off you pervert!'

but i agree, i feel flattered by anyone as long as it's not flirting, which i only feel flattered by women/girls under 25.

*MIBabe03*
02-18-2006, 10:59 AM
Your right. I've had guys who weren't all that attractive in my eyes give me compliments and I still appreciate it. I've also given compliments to people who are much more attractive than me. It's always nice to hear, better than someone putting you down all the time.


Yep, I agree. It doesn't bother me at all if someone is unattractive and wants to give me a compliment, it's still nice. Just because someone might say that you have nice hair, doesn't mean you have to go out with them later or something.

TVFactFan
02-18-2006, 01:01 PM
omg that happens to my friend all the time. at the mall older guys usually talk to her and think she is older, and she thinks it is sick and she isn't complimented and she says 'omg back off you pervert!'

but i agree, i feel flattered by anyone as long as it's not flirting, which i only feel flattered by women/girls under 25.


I agree with your friend. If she is in her 20's no man over 50 should be saying anything to her. a 46 year old woman who works in my building told me I had nice eyes and I wanted to VOMIT_lol

Michael [hXc]
02-18-2006, 01:10 PM
yeah, if any guy over 20 flirts with her, she is extra careful and thinks he is a sick pervert.

TVFactFan
02-18-2006, 01:12 PM
yeah, if any guy over 20 flirts with her, she is extra careful and thinks he is a sick pervert.


Well how old is your friend and what is the age range of the older men who compliments her?

Brian Damage
02-18-2006, 01:14 PM
Compliments don't both me at all, no matter who it is from.

Michael [hXc]
02-18-2006, 03:28 PM
Well how old is your friend and what is the age range of the older men who compliments her?

she's 14 and she is hit on by 20 year old guys at the mall sometimes. she could easily pass as being much older.

Polniaczek033
02-18-2006, 03:57 PM
compliments are nice from anyone.
i compliment people i don't know.
i'm not being a creep, i'm being polite.

TVFactFan
02-18-2006, 05:04 PM
she's 14 and she is hit on by 20 year old guys at the mall sometimes. she could easily pass as being much older.


Ok, i thought when u said older you meant old enough to be her dad-lol

Ireneparalegal
02-18-2006, 06:23 PM
There's compliments

And then there's compliments.
Agree. And who is to say that a woman with no teeth can't see a handsome man or a beautiful woman and give a compliment? She can see just as well as a "beautiful person". It's not always a come-on. Some people like to point out your beauty or how you carry yourself, doesn't mean they want to go out with you.

Fonzarelli
02-18-2006, 06:31 PM
I like compliments from anyone.

Now if a guy says he likes my truck or my boots its OK. He says he likes anything else he may not talk for another 6-8 weeks.
:rolleyes: Tough talk behind your pc.

lockdown06
02-18-2006, 07:10 PM
:rolleyes: Tough talk behind your pc.

It dont need to be from behind the PC....its the same at school or the bar or uptown....i aint f'in around

Why would I say something that aint true??

So you just keep running yer money maker.

MsOrange
02-19-2006, 05:19 AM
There's compliments

And then there's compliments.
very true

G-Force Glockstar
02-19-2006, 04:18 PM
I get most of my self esteem from boys..........and as you can tell I don't have a very high self esteem!