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80s_Fan
09-27-2005, 12:25 AM
:crying:

I ended my relationship with my boyfriend today; it wasn't easy and it will be hard to be without him anymore but I had to do it for my happiness and everything. I don't really want to get into it but I will say this much, I ended it because I am no longer happy with him and his family in general.

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Karen*
09-27-2005, 01:21 AM
Aw. I'm sorry. I've never been in a relationship, but ending one is always tough for people. :( Hang in there!

Ireneparalegal
09-27-2005, 01:24 AM
Aw. I'm sorry. I've never been in a relationship, but ending one is always tough for people. :( Hang in there!
Yeah, hang in there. It will be hard, tough and so forth. I know of what you speak. I remember having to call it quits with my ex-husband. It gets to the point where you are no longer happy and you are the one making yourself miserable. Bless you and may God watch over you during this time. :wave:

Superstar
09-27-2005, 03:25 AM
I'm sorry :(

TJL
09-27-2005, 08:22 AM
That's rough. Life does go on. Focus on the positive, and don't look back.

bad_boy
09-27-2005, 11:45 AM
I'm sorry to hear that. That's a long time, I can't imagine how you feel. Best of luck to you with getting through this.

EmoJoe
09-27-2005, 03:38 PM
Wow im so sorry :( My heart goes out to you

Tuesday Weld
09-27-2005, 04:03 PM
Awwww, I'm sorry. :hug: :(

Southern Hellraiser
09-27-2005, 07:14 PM
Im sorry :(

Cactus Jack
09-27-2005, 07:23 PM
Sorry :(

David
09-27-2005, 07:39 PM
Aw I'm sorry :( Don't worry though, you'll pull through.

MissZero
09-27-2005, 07:53 PM
awww im so sorry...the important thing is u did what was best for you...just hang in there and everythin will be alright :)

Pitooey
09-27-2005, 08:13 PM
That is a long time. I'm so sorry for you. You did the right thing.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-27-2005, 09:35 PM
I'm sorry, hope you feel better soon :)

Janice
09-27-2005, 11:36 PM
Ending a relationship, even a troubled one, is never easy. Any change in life is scary. Fear of what lies ahead, I guess.

Good luck to you in getting through this. Stay strong.

80s_Fan
09-28-2005, 12:37 AM
I want to thank everybody who responded to my post; it makes me feel a little bit better. I can't believe him; for so long I had wanted to marry him but he never wanted and all that, now he left me a letter on the table asking me to marry him. He's desperate now, he'll doing anything to keep me but now it's too late. If I stay with him, it will only get worse.

dawsongirl
09-28-2005, 02:27 AM
I'm sorry. :( But hey, best you realized this now instead of getting married and then deciding you're not happy. Happiness is the most important thing in the world.

MsOrange
09-28-2005, 03:41 PM
just stay strong... if you know in your heart that you made the right decision, you gotta stick with it

80s_Fan
09-29-2005, 12:31 AM
I wrote him a letter today telling him that it's over between us and everything. I found out today that I have to stay here in my apartment with him until the lease ends which is July 1st of next year but I have to be out by June 30th (a few days before is ok too).

It will be hard to be with him all that time and see him everyday but I will do my things and he will do his. I know that life does go on even without him.

I will keep you posted from time to time when things come up.

80s_Fan
10-03-2005, 12:23 PM
Here's the update on our relationship; and it's a good one for now.
We have talked and worked things out at the present time, however I did tell him that after the holidays when everything has calmed down; if I still am not happy and feel the same way as I do now, I am gone for good.

So, we will have to wait and see. For the time being; everything is ok.
I hope that it will be fine and everything because I do love him and want to be with him forever and hopefully get married, etc....

I will keep you all posted as it goes on. Thanks again to those who gave me support and who showed comfort, understanding, etc... when I said that it was all over in the beginning of all this.

Holly
10-03-2005, 01:03 PM
:crying:

I ended my relationship with my boyfriend today; it wasn't easy and it will be hard to be without him anymore but I had to do it for my happiness and everything. I don't really want to get into it but I will say this much, I ended it because I am no longer happy with him and his family in general.

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I'm so sorry to hear about you and your ex bf.. 10 years is a very long time.. Just hang in there and try to get things off your mind.. hope everything works out.. How did he take it? Sorry i hope you didnt mind me asking you that.