View Full Version : How old were you when you got or gave your FIRST KISS?


Ireneparalegal
09-21-2005, 02:15 PM
I was 13, the guy was 17 and it made me feel so weird that I didn't eat for three days. I got so sick I ended up in the emergency room. But there I was, wanting to kiss more guys!!! :lol:

PZelda
09-21-2005, 02:30 PM
I was 12 and my boyfriend was 12 as well. We had a friend hanging out with us and she kept telling me, "Kiss him! Kiss him!" and I kept telling her, "I can't do it with you looking!" so finally we reached an agreement where she could be in the same room but she had to turn away and stay that way until we were done. When she did, my boyfriend leaned in for the kiss...It was mighty good! :D It's funny now, when I think back to that day...We were such kids. :crazy: :lol:

*MIBabe03*
09-21-2005, 02:56 PM
I'm 20, and just recently had mine 2 weeks ago. Actually last weekend, we had a 4 hour makeout session. I've got to make up for lost time. :lol:

MsOrange
09-21-2005, 03:16 PM
4 hours? GEEZ!

17...boy was 17... aweful kiss, :lol: , but still a memory all the same

Courtnee
09-21-2005, 04:05 PM
earlier this year :D :cool:

Ireneparalegal
09-21-2005, 04:20 PM
I'm 20, and just recently had mine 2 weeks ago. Actually last weekend, we had a 4 hour makeout session. I've got to make up for lost time. :lol:
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :crazy:

Dumballa
09-21-2005, 04:20 PM
5

Pitooey
09-21-2005, 04:32 PM
I was 16 he was 15. I still have the vampire marks on my upper lip.

Living In a '70's Dream
09-21-2005, 04:48 PM
11 :o

The Chauffeur
09-21-2005, 05:23 PM
7 or 8 maybe

MissZero
09-21-2005, 05:57 PM
13

EmoJoe
09-21-2005, 05:58 PM
12. Bleh.

Mijada
09-21-2005, 07:26 PM
I was 18 when I got my first kiss that really mattered and meant something to me. However I remember when I was around 8 years old my older brothers best friend who must have been 14 or 15 used to get me alone and kiss me all the time. A full kiss, open mouth etc. He would say it was our secret, give me candy and we would go to his house and we play video games and stuff while his parents were at work. At the time, even though I hated the kissing part, I really liked all the attention I was getting and so I never told anyone. It wasn't till I grew up that I realized that that guy had some serious problems.
I told my sister about it a few years ago but have never told anyone else, not even my husband.

Ireneparalegal
09-21-2005, 07:42 PM
I was 18 when I got my first kiss that really mattered and meant something to me. However I remember when I was around 8 years old my older brothers best friend who must have been 14 or 15 used to get me alone and kiss me all the time. A full kiss, open mouth etc. He would say it was our secret, give me candy and we would go to his house and we play video games and stuff while his parents were at work. At the time, even though I hated the kissing part, I really liked all the attention I was getting and so I never told anyone. It wasn't till I grew up that I realized that that guy had some serious problems.
I told my sister about it a few years ago but have never told anyone else, not even my husband.
Wow. very open of you to share that with us. I know that being a young girl, we are vulnerable to a lot of things that we didn't know was right or wrong.

~LadyJess~
09-21-2005, 07:46 PM
I got my "first" kiss (the one that actually counts to me) about a month ago. I'm such a sap but it really was all that I had been waiting for.

Faith
09-21-2005, 09:20 PM
13

Rene
09-21-2005, 09:43 PM
im 16 and still no dice

Rene
09-21-2005, 09:46 PM
I was 18 when I got my first kiss that really mattered and meant something to me. However I remember when I was around 8 years old my older brothers best friend who must have been 14 or 15 used to get me alone and kiss me all the time. A full kiss, open mouth etc. He would say it was our secret, give me candy and we would go to his house and we play video games and stuff while his parents were at work. At the time, even though I hated the kissing part, I really liked all the attention I was getting and so I never told anyone. It wasn't till I grew up that I realized that that guy had some serious problems.
I told my sister about it a few years ago but have never told anyone else, not even my husband.
thank God he didnt do more

dawsongirl
09-21-2005, 09:48 PM
Oh, I suppose I'll be 38 or something. :rolleyes:

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-21-2005, 09:50 PM
*commits suicide*

swedeace
09-21-2005, 09:50 PM
Oh, I suppose I'll be 38 or something. :rolleyes:
Ditto. http://3.forumer.com/html/emoticons/aob/icon_redface.gif :rolleyes:

Stormtracker TF
09-21-2005, 10:06 PM
Still waiting.

Ireneparalegal
09-21-2005, 10:08 PM
Still waiting.
God, I feel bad...no one should have to wait for a kiss...here's one for the guys who haven't had one yet....SMOOOOOOOOOOCH...just on the cheek mind you!!! :p

Jo_Luvs_Ketchup
09-21-2005, 10:26 PM
LOL well for me, I was 15 and never thought I would have a boyfriend. Apparently, since I laughed at his stupid jokes, he liked me. 2 hours after I met him, we were making out in an elevator. I told my friends and they all called him elevator boy lol. Little did I know, what I was doing was dangerous, since he sexually assaulted me a few months later. It was weird, because he was such a gentleman (pulled out my chair for me, opened doors) so girls, just be careful out there. I don't think I'll ever feel anything for a man that I felt before my 'boyfriend'. I don't tell that story to a lot of people so feel lucky hehe. :wave:

Ireneparalegal
09-21-2005, 10:29 PM
LOL well for me, I was 15 and never thought I would have a boyfriend. Apparently, since I laughed at his stupid jokes, he liked me. 2 hours after I met him, we were making out in an elevator. I told my friends and they all called him elevator boy lol. Little did I know, what I was doing was dangerous, since he sexually assaulted me a few months later. It was weird, because he was such a gentleman (pulled out my chair for me, opened doors) so girls, just be careful out there. I don't think I'll ever feel anything for a man that I felt before my 'boyfriend'. I don't tell that story to a lot of people so feel lucky hehe. :wave:
Wow, Jinny, I am so sorry that you had that happen to you. I can't type here what I think of him...I would get booted out of here so fast. Like I said before, I think alot of us females can talk and chat abt bad experiences we had growing up. The fact that we are known only to one another thru this forum and yet feel comfortable posting intimate thoughts makes me feel good abt our board. Jinny, so sorry, I know I am repeating myself. Just horrible.

Jo_Luvs_Ketchup
09-21-2005, 10:33 PM
Wow, Jinny, I am so sorry that you had that happen to you. I can't type here what I think of him...I would get booted out of here so fast. Like I said before, I think alot of us females can talk and chat abt bad experiences we had growing up. The fact that we are known only to one another thru this forum and yet feel comfortable posting intimate thoughts makes me feel good abt our board. Jinny, so sorry, I know I am repeating myself. Just horrible.
Aww thanks. I guess a lot of girls know about it. Even though it was horrible then and some of my family blamed me (dont ask lol), I know I survived it and I just got to be more careful in the future. Thank you! :D ;)

Nighthawk76
09-21-2005, 10:49 PM
Oh, I suppose I'll be 38 or something. :rolleyes:

:kiss: There's a kiss for you, Cathy! :D

I was seven years old when I was first kissed by a girl.

Karen*
09-22-2005, 01:06 AM
Not yet! God, I feel so behind! :crybaby:

Rene
09-22-2005, 01:24 AM
Not yet! God, I feel so behind! :crybaby:
me too :(

dawsongirl
09-22-2005, 03:14 PM
:kiss: There's a kiss for you, Cathy! :D

I was seven years old when I was first kissed by a girl.

:blush: :D


I kissed a boy when I was 3 at my aunt's wedding. I don't even know who he was! :lol: Just the ring bearer. Such a tease.

ajcat082
09-22-2005, 03:43 PM
15 and still waiting

Gizmo1
09-22-2005, 04:33 PM
17 and still waiting....i havent even had a bf yet....I'M way behind....the guys at my school are a$$holes...id rather wait and have my 1st bf be a nice guy than to rush into things.

Babes_Cat
09-22-2005, 05:08 PM
5
hah. starting early.

*thinks* wow, at the moment i have no idea.
i clicked reply knowing and i just blanked.
let me get back to you.
:doh:

hah, but i do remeber the first time i... oooh, nevermind. ;)

EmoJoe
09-22-2005, 06:12 PM
:blush: :D


I kissed a boy when I was 3 at my aunt's wedding. I don't even know who he was! :lol: Just the ring bearer. Such a tease.
My cousin kissed a boy in pre-school once and then she got a time-out :lol:

Dumballa
09-22-2005, 06:17 PM
My cousin kissed a boy in pre-school once and then she got a time-out :lol:

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swedeace
09-22-2005, 09:33 PM
*sigh* Now I feel left out.... I'm used to it, though... Story of my life.... pissed:

Ireneparalegal
09-22-2005, 09:47 PM
17 and still waiting....i havent even had a bf yet....I'M way behind....the guys at my school are a$$holes...id rather wait and have my 1st bf be a nice guy than to rush into things.
good for you Gizmo... :wave:

KristinHerreraFan
09-22-2005, 09:51 PM
I was 11. It was in 5th grade. We went to the pool and made out underwater. She couldn't keep her hands of me!!! :p

Heart Shaped Box
09-22-2005, 10:00 PM
It was the day of my 12th birthday, and the day or ouf school dance. Anyway, I think my boyfriend was an older than me. It wasn't really great, since all I did was kiss him on the cheek, then we kissed on the lips. All of my friends were like "Just kiss him quick, no one will notice!" Let's just say the chaperone's were really strict. It was really funny too because when we kissed this band from our own school was playing and everyone was all rocking out, and we were just slow dancing. :rofl:

Ireneparalegal
09-22-2005, 10:19 PM
It was the day of my 12th birthday, and the day or ouf school dance. Anyway, I think my boyfriend was an older than me. It wasn't really great, since all I did was kiss him on the cheek, then we kissed on the lips. All of my friends were like "Just kiss him quick, no one will notice!" Let's just say the chaperone's were really strict. It was really funny too because when we kissed this band from our own school was playing and everyone was all rocking out, and we were just slow dancing. :rofl:
good for you!!!! sometimes you can't just sit around and wait, you got to make the first move!! :wave:

~LadyJess~
09-22-2005, 10:54 PM
17 and still waiting....i havent even had a bf yet....I'M way behind....the guys at my school are a$$holes...id rather wait and have my 1st bf be a nice guy than to rush into things.

Good for you. And trust me, it will be worth it. I'm almost 20 and just got into my first relationship a month ago and my boyfriend is such a great guy, at this point in time I feel he really was worth waiting for.

TheGreatPretender
09-23-2005, 11:22 AM
*commits suicide*
:lol: How old are you 16? It really isn't that big of a deal.

I'm still waiting too but I'm heterosexual and there are like two guys in my school so yeah.

dawsongirl
09-23-2005, 06:22 PM
17 and still waiting....i havent even had a bf yet....I'M way behind....the guys at my school are a$$holes...id rather wait and have my 1st bf be a nice guy than to rush into things.

No no no...I'm behind at almost 26. But anyway, being single is better than wasting your time with a jerk who treats you like toxic waste. So you're being very smart. :)

Penny Lane
09-23-2005, 07:34 PM
13. I was SO in love! :lol: :crazy:

Jrnygrl
09-23-2005, 08:09 PM
17 for me! :D

Brian
09-23-2005, 09:36 PM
Prom night in 2003. I was 17.

Ireneparalegal
09-23-2005, 10:45 PM
13. I was SO in love! :lol: :crazy:
isn't it funny how at 13 we always think we're in love...LOL
man, i've "been in love" what about...4 times before I hit 16!!!!

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-24-2005, 12:07 AM
:lol: How old are you 16? It really isn't that big of a deal.

I'm still waiting too but I'm heterosexual and there are like two guys in my school so yeah.
Still makes you feel a little loserish when people who are like 12 are walking around with boyfriends. Not that people need them at that age...but Christ, I've never even been close to a boy or held one's hand. It's like wtf after awhile...

~LadyJess~
09-24-2005, 12:23 AM
Still makes you feel a little loserish when people who are like 12 are walking around with boyfriends. Not that people need them at that age...but Christ, I've never even been close to a boy or held one's hand. It's like wtf after awhile...

Trust me, I so hear you and God knows I was there for the longest time. And I know as much as it sucks to hear the phrase, "You'll find someone when you aren't looking," it really is freakishly true.

CollegeDropout
09-24-2005, 11:29 AM
I was 4, he was 5....it was magical, other then that Ive kissed other boys from like 3rd grade on...that makes me sound like a hoe, but I'm not, I am just a little precocious

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-24-2005, 11:32 AM
Trust me, I so hear you and God knows I was there for the longest time. And I know as much as it sucks to hear the phrase, "You'll find someone when you aren't looking," it really is freakishly true.Well, yeah, you're probably right...but waiting is so damn...annoying. Being in highschool doesn't help when all you see is little teenies with their boyfriends and girlfriends everyday.

TheGreatPretender
09-24-2005, 11:34 AM
Still makes you feel a little loserish when people who are like 12 are walking around with boyfriends. Not that people need them at that age...but Christ, I've never even been close to a boy or held one's hand. It's like wtf after awhile...
I just like to laugh at all my friends who are getting tied down with boyfriends and relationships. "Lyke omg I have to stay home and cut my wrists cause my boyfriend said some **** today and it made me sad and it's the end of the worrllllldd." I mean seriously, it's like my dance teacher said at school, having a boyfriend at that age is just too much drama because we obviously aren't mature enough to handle things like that.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-24-2005, 11:36 AM
I just like to laugh at all my friends who are getting tied down with boyfriends and relationships. "Lyke omg I have to stay home and cut my wrists cause my boyfriend said some **** today and it made me sad and it's the end of the worrllllldd." I mean seriously, it's like my dance teacher said at school, having a boyfriend at that age is just too much drama because we obviously aren't mature enough to handle things like that.
I definately don't want one now...but it still makes you think about yourself and what the hell is wrong with you because you're not involved in the normal teenage stuff.

TheGreatPretender
09-24-2005, 11:42 AM
I definately don't want one now...but it still makes you think about yourself and what the hell is wrong with you because you're not involved in the normal teenage stuff.
I doubt there is anything wrong with you. I'm like that too. We're just not interested in that kind of stuff. I really couldn't care less about who's going out with who who dumped who and who ****ed who in the woods....etc etc. :lol:

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-25-2005, 07:51 PM
I doubt there is anything wrong with you. I'm like that too. We're just not interested in that kind of stuff. I really couldn't care less about who's going out with who who dumped who and who ****ed who in the woods....etc etc. :lol:
:lol: Yeah, me either. Good Lord teenagers suck.

Ireneparalegal
09-25-2005, 11:27 PM
:lol: Yeah, me either. Good Lord teenagers suck.
Yeah, I was a rebellious one back in the days...i regret it too. Funny how when we grow up we tell our kids almost the same things our parents told us.

Rene
09-25-2005, 11:29 PM
Still makes you feel a little loserish when people who are like 12 are walking around with boyfriends. Not that people need them at that age...but Christ, I've never even been close to a boy or held one's hand. It's like wtf after awhile...
same here :(

Rene
09-25-2005, 11:31 PM
Well, yeah, you're probably right...but waiting is so damn...annoying. Being in highschool doesn't help when all you see is little teenies with their boyfriends and girlfriends everyday.
i know!!! everyone in my school has a bf/gf! its soo annoying

#1_Nancy_McKeon
09-26-2005, 01:11 AM
I received my first kiss when I was fourteen. It was about three days before Christmas, and now... He still remains the first and only guy I have kissed and I'm now twenty. Funny how things work.

G-Force Glockstar
09-26-2005, 06:21 PM
NEVER! AND I'M STILL CRYING OVER IT!

EmoJoe
09-26-2005, 06:43 PM
NEVER! AND I'M STILL CRYING OVER IT!
Dont worry. Your only 14. You have plenty of time.

G-Force Glockstar
09-26-2005, 07:31 PM
Dont worry. Your only 14. You have plenty of time.

But most kids get their first kiss by the time they're 13 :(

TheGreatPretender
09-26-2005, 07:46 PM
But most kids get their first kids by the time they're 13 :(



:brent:

Lol I know you mean to put kiss but that still sounded funny.

swedeace
09-26-2005, 08:07 PM
:brent:

Lol I know you mean to put kiss but that still sounded funny.
LOL! It's like one of those Jay Leno "mess-ups"! It does fit in a hilarious way!! :brent:

14 and no kiss? Don't worry about it, Niki. It really isn't the end of the world. Trust me.

EmoJoe
09-26-2005, 08:07 PM
:brent:

Lol I know you mean to put kiss but that still sounded funny.
LOL what a scary world that would be...

EmoJoe
09-26-2005, 08:08 PM
But most kids get their first kids by the time they're 13 :(
Not all kids though.

swedeace
09-26-2005, 08:10 PM
But most kids get their first kids by the time they're 13 :(
Contrary to what your peers "say" about kissing and dating at your age is actually not true. Not all kids around your age have dates or kiss. They may just "fib," or just do so JUST to fit in. It really isn't that worth it until you find someone you two can mutually like each other.

EmoJoe
09-26-2005, 08:14 PM
Contrary to what your peers "say" about kissing and dating at your age is actually not true. Not all kids around your age have dates or kiss. They may just "fib," or just do so JUST to fit in. It really isn't that worth it until you find someone you two can mutually like each other.
Actually kids in 8th grade DO actually date (im in 8th grade now) but most of it is fake and just for popularity reasons.

TheGreatPretender
09-26-2005, 08:18 PM
The best things in life are worth waiting for. If you just kiss a guy to fit in with your peers than that would be tawdry and loveless. When the right time comes you will know, and then it will mean even more.

Jonathan
09-26-2005, 08:20 PM
Actually kids in 8th grade DO actually date (im in 8th grade now) but most of it is fake and just for popularity reasons.

Yeah. All about getting your name around and stuff.

~LadyJess~
09-26-2005, 08:37 PM
But most kids get their first kids by the time they're 13 :(

If anything, I think this thread has shown that that's not true. Very few of the people who have replied to this have said they were 13 or younger.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-26-2005, 09:53 PM
:brent:

Lol I know you mean to put kiss but that still sounded funny.
lol within time, though, that sentence could be so true.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
09-26-2005, 09:54 PM
If anything, I think this thread has shown that that's not true. Very few of the people who have replied to this have said they were 13 or younger.
Yeah, that's what I would've gotten out of it...

swedeace
09-26-2005, 10:01 PM
Actually kids in 8th grade DO actually date (im in 8th grade now) but most of it is fake and just for popularity reasons.
Oooops.... I re-read my post and it does NOT make sense. My post doesn't sound right. I meant to say that "most" kids Niki's age - not all - actually do date. Sorry for the confusion. Yeah, i agree - there are kids who date just for popularity. In my opinion, that is the wrong reason to date.

dawsongirl
09-26-2005, 10:47 PM
But most kids get their first kiss by the time they're 13 :(

No they don't.

And statements like that make me feel like an even bigger loser. Seriously, when you're almost 26 and never been kissed, then you can be depressed and impatient.

Nighthawk76
09-26-2005, 10:58 PM
No they don't.

And statements like that make me feel like an even bigger loser. Seriously, when you're almost 26 and never been kissed, then you can be depressed and impatient.


Hey, I gave you a kiss, Cathy! :lol: And I don't go around kissing just anybody. :D

Ireneparalegal
09-26-2005, 11:12 PM
Wow, I am really surprised at the different ages one has received a kiss. It's best to wait though, cuz once you start early, then other things follow. It's best to wait, I wish I had, then I wouldn't have grown up so fast.

dawsongirl
09-28-2005, 02:30 AM
Hey, I gave you a kiss, Cathy! :lol: And I don't go around kissing just anybody. :D

ahh...so that's why I've never had a boyfriend. A guy kisses me and I forget it! :lol: ;)

clj2
09-28-2005, 09:22 AM
I've never had anyone kiss me besides family and maybe some old ladies we know, lol. :D

Ireneparalegal
10-01-2005, 07:05 PM
ahh...so that's why I've never had a boyfriend. A guy kisses me and I forget it! :lol: ;)
lol:lol:

angel676
10-02-2005, 05:17 PM
I was about 5 or 6 when I had my first kiss.