Mom indicted for hiring stripper for son
‘It didn’t harm him,’ mother says of effect on 16-year-old sonThe Associated Press
Updated: 5:32 a.m. ET May 29, 2005NASHVILLE, Tenn. - A mother faces criminal charges after she hired a stripper to dance at her 16-year-old son’s birthday party.



Anette Pharris, 34, has been indicted by a grand jury on charges of contributing to the delinquency of a minor and involving a minor in obscene acts. The boy’s father, the stripper and two others also face charges.

“I tried to do something special for my son,” Pharris said. “It didn’t harm him.”

About 10 people under the age of 18 were at the birthday party in September, including minors who were not related to the family, authorities said.

Police spokesman Don Aaron said minors are not permitted in adult establishments.

“A person shouldn’t be allowed to circumvent that law by hiring a stripper, a lady who took all her clothes off and spent a good amount of time dancing around minors,” he said.

Anette Pharris took photos at the party and tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Drug store employees notified authorities, police said.

“Who are they to tell me what I can and can’t show to my own children?” the mother said.

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:rofl:

sure it wasn't his bachelor party?

Normally I would agree with the cops and all, but in this case I kind of agree with the mom. I mean obviously it was very bad judgement, but I doubt there could be any harm.

Beats the crap out of balloons and cake...

;)

“I tried to do something special for my son,” Pharris said.
:mrtarver:

:rotflmao: That mom has good taste :lol:

hahaha!!!

Well, it is a little on the strange side, I must say. I mean I don't know of any mothers who would do that, and although it wasn't the best decision, I do agree with the mother. It's not like she hired a drug lord to come cater the kids, and it didn't do much harm.

Greatest Mom Ever! :lol:

Greatest Mom Ever! :lol:

:yeahthat :p

Come on... he's 16.

whatever happened to candygrams?

cool!

Oh dear god...no wonder all the decent men don't exist. They all had strippers at their 16th.

Oh dear god...no wonder all the decent men don't exist. They all had strippers at their 16th.


What I've learned is that decent guys DO exist. They're either dorks or gay.

What I've learned is that decent guys DO exist. They're either dorks or gay.

Indeed.

What I've learned is that decent guys DO exist. They're either dorks or gay.
holler.

What an AWESOME Mom!

what normal teenage boy would want to have a hard on in front of his mom? i mean, come on!

That is rather sad that a Mother would think that is ok to do.

That is rather sad that a Mother would think that is ok to do.


where's webwarrior when we need him?? :(

what normal teenage boy would want to have a hard on in front of his mom? i mean, come on!

Well a stripper isn't going to avoid it. :lol:

That is rather sad that a Mother would think that is ok to do.

True... but it's not illegal if only her son was around. Geez, you can get porn so easily these days on TV and the internet. :rolleyes:

where's webwarrior when we need him?? :(Don't say that, he might magically appear!

I say Go Mom! :rock:

Don't say that, he might magically appear!

:eek:

Don't say that, he might magically appear!
what did happen to him? i haven't seen him around at all lately.

Don't say that, he might magically appear!


:lol: Like a little Jerry Falwell! ;) I KID - I KID!!

what did happen to him? i haven't seen him around at all lately.


I know - him and Georgia.......could they be having a summit?! :eek3:

Fled to:

that's right, Georgia has vanished as well.... I thought it was more quiet around here!

i wonder if they finally admitted their undying love for each other and ran away to another message board? :-/

I know - him and Georgia.......could they be having a summit?! :eek3:

Fled to:
girl you are having way too much fun with that picutre :lol: :happyface

girl you are having way too much fun with that picutre :lol: :happyface


I know eh!!! I've been wanting to find one for a while now and he's a cute little guy! I wish I had more software to screw around a bit with him! ;)

I know eh!!! I've been wanting to find one for a while now and he's a cute little guy! I wish I had more software to screw around a bit with him! ;)
sounds dirty!!

sounds dirty!!:rofl:

sounds dirty!!


I realized that as I hit submit. :D hey - what can I say....its late...no one's around.... :happyface

I fully support the Nashville Police in this case. I think parents should be role models for their
children, and I think decency and morality should be everyone's business.

lol...all the guys are like, I want a mom like that, and the girls are like, that was lame.

I fully support the Nashville Police in this case. I think parents should be role models for their
children, and I think decency and morality should be everyone's business.The police had no business butting in. this is not a police state.

But we just HAD to hear from the moral majority in this case ya know!!! :D

I fully support the Nashville Police in this case. I think parents should be role models for their
children, and I think decency and morality should be everyone's business.
So i should cancel the stripper I ordered for your next Bible Study?

So i should cancel the stripper I ordered for your next Bible Study?

:brent

So i should cancel the stripper I ordered for your next Bible Study?
LOL

My parents had a big party in a private room in a restaurant for my brother's 21st birthday. They hired a belly dancer. My brother sat in the chair while she just danced around him holding the silk sashes to the exotic music. She kept her clothes on.

Four years later, when he was 25, my brother came out of the closet. :lol:

My parents had a big party in a private room in a restaurant for my brother's 21st birthday. They hired a belly dancer. My brother sat in the chair while she just danced around him holding the silk sashes to the exotic music. She kept her clothes on.

Four years later, when he was 25, my brother came out of the closet. :lol:
i'm not laughing at your brother being gay or anything... but that is so ironic that it's :censored: hilarious! :lol:

i'm not laughing at your brother being gay or anything... but that is so ironic that it's :censored: hilarious! :lol:
It is funny. He told us after came out that while he was sitting there, that he was thinking WTF??....and was wished it was a male dancer. :lol:

So i should cancel the stripper I ordered for your next Bible Study?

:brent :rofl:

My parents had a big party in a private room in a restaurant for my brother's 21st birthday. They hired a belly dancer. My brother sat in the chair while she just danced around him holding the silk sashes to the exotic music. She kept her clothes on.

Four years later, when he was 25, my brother came out of the closet. :lol:

:rotflmao:

How come I never got a Chippendale dancer for my 16th? :mad:

How come I never got a Chippendale dancer for my 16th? :mad:

I agree! I got screwed over. Oh well, I'm 21 next year, so maybe I'll get something racier than a Chippendale dancer. ;)

My parents had a big party in a private room in a restaurant for my brother's 21st birthday. They hired a belly dancer. My brother sat in the chair while she just danced around him holding the silk sashes to the exotic music. She kept her clothes on.

Four years later, when he was 25, my brother came out of the closet. :lol:


Too bad it WASN'T money well spent in that case!!! I'd love to know what was going through his mind while he sat and watched!! :lol: :lol:

Probably wishing it had been a big guy in a cop uniform instead poor guy! :lol:

It is funny. He told us after came out that while he was sitting there, that he was thinking WTF??....and was wished it was a male dancer. :lol:

O.k. - that just answered my previous question!! I figured as much! That IS a funny story Janice! One I'm sure he's had a lot of fun with!



Geez - I never even got so much as a clown for any of my birthdays.......just dated a couple! :rolleyes:

What I've learned is that decent guys DO exist. They're either dorks or gay.

Yes, that's right. And all decent women are either PMSing or serving time.
Or married to gay dorks.


What kind of statement is that?

Imagine if a guy made that kind of comment about women, you'd have yourself in a tizzy.

I agree! I got screwed over. Oh well, I'm 21 next year, so maybe I'll get something racier than a Chippendale dancer. ;)
Me too. Yay for us 1985-ers! :cheer: I want a male stripper for my 21st, yo.

So i should cancel the stripper I ordered for your next Bible Study?
:brent :rotflmao:

My parents had a big party in a private room in a restaurant for my brother's 21st birthday. They hired a belly dancer. My brother sat in the chair while she just danced around him holding the silk sashes to the exotic music. She kept her clothes on.

Four years later, when he was 25, my brother came out of the closet. :lol:

Bad belly dancer. ;)

How come I never got a Chippendale dancer for my 16th? :mad:

I saw a stripper in a bowling alley when I was like, 12. Ugliest SOB I ever saw. Yuck.

All I ever got was a birthday cake. :(

Me too. Yay for us 1985-ers! :cheer: I want a male stripper for my 21st, yo.

Yay 85-ers! :rock:

I saw a stripper in a bowling alley when I was like, 12. Ugliest SOB I ever saw. Yuck.


:rotflmao:

I saw a stripper in a bowling alley when I was like, 12. Ugliest SOB I ever saw. Yuck.


I'm picturing Danny Devito a la Friends! :lol:

Um ok :lol:

His mom is in deep **** for getting a stripper... yet he could go on the internet and see things 10x worst and no one would know.

So, does this mean i should cancel the hooker she ordered for his 17th birthday, NEXT year?? :confused:

I wonder what the stripper thought about all this... :D

I fully support the Nashville Police in this case. I think parents should be role models for their
children, and I think decency and morality should be everyone's business.Has anyone ever noticed how people go on about morality and decency when there appears to be a LACK of it? Never when there is an "abundance" of it.

Good point there. Or when people always want to mention moral or ethical values?Why does "morality" always mean "anti-sex"? :confused:

hahahaha.

That's sad that people can't do something at a party with it intended to be all in good fun.

Why does "morality" always mean "anti-sex"? :confused:

Because morality is subjective..and those who think sex is bad for whatever reason, like to be pompous and annoying, thinking that their morals are absolutely correct.

LMAO! This is almost as strange as the "Ronald McDonald Kidnappes SpongeBob" thing.