What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend.What are your turn ons and turn offs?

Turn Ons
Dark hair
Funny
Tall
Deep Voice
Brown Eyes
Nice Backside
Toned Body
Romantic
Affectionate
Shy
Black shirts
Nice lips

Turn offs
Shaved heads,really short hair.
Earrings
facial piercings
bad skin
bad odour
drug user
sleaze
boisterous
fat
bad hygiene
abusive
too much body hair
Poofy boys

In guys I look for understanding and sensitivity. I also look for tall, quiet guys with nice hair! Gotta have good hair... and sneakers. Gotta wear good sneakers (don't ask) and who have similar interests with me.

In girls I like long hair and gorgeous eyes. They have to understand me and be affectionate. They have to be calm, sweet, and gentle. And they musn't break my heart.

In guys I look for someone who is:

understanding and that I can talk to, sometimes its hard for me to open u about things but when I do he has to be able to be there for me

smart, this is a big one to me...I'm not saying he has to be a genious but I really dont want a dumb jock type guy

sensitive, i want a guy thats not always trying to be tough...if im going to be able to open up to him i expect the same back

physical things:
tall
soft brown eyes
dark hair
nice legs and butt
muscular (but not overly-ripped)
nice smile

taste in music.

Hmm...well, nice hair; excellent hygiene; not a sex-maniac; intelligent; gentle; understanding of my sometimes strange behavior...I jump to conclusions, get lonely, get angry, etc; not a smoker; not a heavy drinker; no druggies; decent wardrobe; not an insufferable *******; a good sense of humor...

if there's actually a guy out there like that, I'll faint.

Hmm...well, nice hair; excellent hygiene; not a sex-maniac; intelligent; gentle; understanding of my sometimes strange behavior...I jump to conclusions, get lonely, get angry, etc; not a smoker; not a heavy drinker; no druggies; decent wardrobe; not an insufferable *******; a good sense of humor...

if there's actually a guy out there like that, I'll faint.

There are many guys out there like this Cathy.

TURN ONS

Attractive
Unique Style
Intelligent
Articulate
Creative
Musician
Dark Hair
Beautiful Eyes
Physically Appealing


TURN OFFS

Arrogance
Hairy Backs, Necks, etc. (where hair should not be)
Swears
A Bloody Slob
Shaved Heads
Bad Teeth
Unsual Moles
Ignorant

There are many guys out there like this Cathy.
That's it...they're all hiding from me! :cuss: :lol:

Republican

That reminds me...I don't want any ignorant little turd, much like the people who comment on the Yahoo boards, who bash other people's opinions on things by calling them names and ****. And that proves your point how? Calling someone a ******* just makes you look like an idiot.

That reminds me...I don't want any ignorant little turd, much like the people who comment on the Yahoo boards, who bash other people's opinions on things by calling them names and ****. And that proves your point how? Calling someone a ******* just makes you look like an idiot.
Exactly, I agree with you 100%..Hate me, think I am an *******, because my point of view is different from yours?...

That's it...they're all hiding from me! :cuss: :lol:

I'm pretty sure they are not hidding from you. :)

That reminds me...I don't want any ignorant little turd, much like the people who comment on the Yahoo boards, who bash other people's opinions on things by calling them names and ****. And that proves your point how? Calling someone a ******* just makes you look like an idiot.
i don't see what the hell is so insignificant about liberals. the "lib" bashers are the only ones causing problems. :rolleyes:[/opinion]

TURN ONS
LOVING
KIND
NICE LIPS
BLONDE/DARK BLONDE HAIR
LIKES A LITTLE OF COUNTRY MUSIC
LOVES ME FOR ME

TURN OFFS
FACIAL HAIR
RUDE
TATTOOS
EARS PIECED

That reminds me...I don't want any ignorant little turd, much like the people who comment on the Yahoo boards, who bash other people's opinions on things by calling them names and ****. And that proves your point how? Calling someone a ******* just makes you look like an idiot.

*******. :lol:

Don't think I've ever heard that one before.

Ignorant
Republican

They kind of go together though, don't they? looool

They kind of go together though, don't they? looool

:cuss:

TURN-ONS
Good personality
Great sense of humor
One who can actually hold a good conversation!!
Non-judgmental

TURN-OFFS
Smokers
Alcoholics & Drug users(and I've dated both!! I sure know how to pick'em)
Razor stubble on a guy's face(sorry, but I like a clean-shaven guy)
Missing teeth
Guys who make themselves out to be better than everybody else. :rolleyes:

They kind of go together though, don't they? looool
lol :lol:

What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend.What are your turn ons and turn offs?


I like a female with

Cute Face
Nice Hands
Nice Feet


I don't like a female with

Ugly Face
Manly Hands
Ugly Feet

Sense of humor

Intelligence

Compassion

Laid-back personality

Non-judgemental

Affectionate

Turn ons:

TALL (I'm pretty short so I like tall guys)
darker hair
nice eyes
nice smile
FUNNY (I love guys who are funny)
smells good
fairly intelligent(at least able to hold a conversation)
good listener
guys with good sense of style/taste in music


Turn offs:
short
arrogance
heavy drinkers, druggies(drinking socially doesn't turn me off but when it's an every day sort of thing I get annoyed).
liars
facial hair
long hair

ON
Smart
Cute, not hot
Goofy, boyish, shyness like esque
Yet...outgoing...if that makes sense
Funny
High sprits, yet a silent mystery
Understanding
Common Sense

OFF
Macho bitch
monkey hair
*******
dumbass
Big ego, "never wrong"
druggie, alcoholic, smoker

ON
Smart
Cute, not hot
Goofy, boyish, shyness like esque
Yet...outgoing...if that makes sense
Funny
High sprits, yet a silent mystery
Understanding
Common Sense

OFF
Macho bitch
monkey hair
*******
dumbass
Big ego, "never wrong"
druggie, alcoholic, smoker




GOOFY?????

GOOFY?????
Whooopppps, I'm sorry. Typo :lol: I meant good feet. :lol: My bad. :crazy:

Off: The only thing that i really cannot tolerate is poor hygeine, racisit/red neck (redneck DOES NOT EQUAL country boy), and a weird sense of humor

Country boys do it for me.. and big hands...

GOOFY?????
.

.
!!

!!
Sexy SOB. Yeeahhhh slap that asssss

If I knew what I was looking for, I probably would have found it by now.

Sexy SOB. Yeeahhhh slap that asssss
kinky

.....a pulse...

.....a pulse...
your standards are WAY too high

your standards are WAY too high


Yeah - I know, but I decided I just had to raise them up this past year!! :lol:

No Matter how pretty a woman's face is, if her feet is JACKED UP, it won't Work-lol Any Men agree?

No Matter how pretty a woman's face is, if her feet is JACKED UP, it won't Work-lol Any Men agree?

Haha, sorry. Feet aren't a deal breaker for me.

No Matter how pretty a woman's face is, if her feet is JACKED UP, it won't Work-lol Any Men agree?
Nope.

I want a girl with a good personality, sense of humor, and a good heart. I don't want her to be too emotional either. I know this sounds horrible, but I don't want to listen to a girl whine about why life sucks 24/7.

With looks, I just want them to look clean and healthy.

I can go both ways when need be, so mhm, I'll do both...

Those of the X Chromosome...

LIKES
Dark, but not fakely dark, hair
Funny
Glamorous
Understanding
Sensitive
Interested in trying new things (NOT WHAT YOU ARE THINKING!!!!)
Proud
Rich parents

DISLIKES
Too ghetto
Too high maintenance
Enormous breasts and buttocks
Irresponsible
Too nice

Those of the Y Chromosome...

LIKES
Dark hair
Between and five and six feet tall
Caring
Understanding
Loving
Warm
Romantic
Nice @$$
Nice smile

DISLIKES
Basically, the opposite of everything under the LIKES column

i don't see what the hell is so insignificant about liberals. the "lib" bashers are the only ones causing problems. :rolleyes:[/opinion]

I don't either. I guess politics wasn't my calling.

I don't either. I guess politics wasn't my calling.

Nope, it was mine. ;) :p

Rich parents



:lol:

Nope, it was mine. ;) :p

Well you can have my share too. :D

Well you can have my share too. :D

Thank you. :)

.....a pulse...
geez, have a little tolerance! :rolleyes:

big tits, nice face and fit body ;)

big tits, nice face and fit body ;)

big tits, nice face and fit body ;)

Hey, that's my girl!

:rofl: that thing is so hilarious.

erm how is that racist?

erm how is that racist?

Yeah, it's sexist, but not racist.

;)

erm how is that racist?
It's not. I just felt like showing off my smiley. :)

What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend.What are your turn ons and turn offs?


I dunno, probably someone as bright and attractive as I am! :D

I love intelligent women, i was once totally in love with a girl who worked as a satellite programmer ( her profile said "Yes, I am a rocket scientist" )< That little sentence alone had my heart fluttering...of course, I pushed her away, and regretted it a long time...the lady i'm with now isnt a scientist, but she can build and program a computer with one brain tied behind her back ;)

No Matter how pretty a woman's face is, if her feet is JACKED UP, it won't Work-lol Any Men agree?
That goes for men as well; like you, I despise men who do not take of their feet and their hands..one of the biggest turn offs is seeing a man with ugly feet.

Turn ons

Dark brown/Black hair
Wavy or naturally curly hair
brown eyes
Tan
Sweet
Gentle
Funny
Affectionate
Patient
Sense of humor (not cruel)
Kind
Understanding
Must love me as I am.
Fit
Moderately hairy Chest.


Turn Offs

Mean
Crude
Stupid
Arrogant
Macho
Shaved Head
Long Hair
Bald
Hair on backs and shoulders
Overly hairy arms.

No Matter how pretty a woman's face is, if her feet is JACKED UP, it won't Work-lol Any Men agree?


SOMEBODY'S got a foot fetish!!! ;)

So would these guys be a turn ON or OFF for ya?

SOMEBODY'S got a foot fetish!!! ;)

So would these guys be a turn ON or OFF for ya?
:rofl: I saw something about this lady's long toenails on Ripley's Believe It or Not once. Said she could only wear open-toe sandals -- no socks! That would drive me bonkers! Also, when Guinness World of Records used to have a primetime TV show on Fox in the 90's, they had something about this one guy who hadn't clipped his fingernails since 1952. :crazy: And I'm not sure if it was on Ripley's or Guinness, but they also talked about another woman who had pretty long fingernails -- not as long as that guy's though, but it was still really long.

TURN ONS
Pretty smile (I know, I know, looks aren't everything, but I could never be with a girl with an ugly smile)
Nice laugh
Make me laugh
Intelligent
Nice eyes (color doesnt matter)
Must smell nice
ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY HAS TO BE CLEAN
As for the body.... I'm an ass man.

TURN OFFS
Big muscles
Hairy....anything
Acne (I'm not going to lie.... it scares me)
Overly skinny
Overly fat
Crazy color hair
Gossip
Slutty clothes (what can I say? I like the preppy look)


I'm impartial when it comes to things like hair, eye and skin color, but the one girl I really like is a brunette with brown eyes. Weight and height aren't priorities, but the only girl I've ever really liked is pretty tall, pretty skinny, and just plain pretty.

:rofl: I saw something about this lady's long toenails on Ripley's Believe It or Not once. Said she could only wear open-toe sandals -- no socks! That would drive me bonkers! Also, when Guinness World of Records used to have a primetime TV show on Fox in the 90's, they had something about this one guy who hadn't clipped his fingernails since 1952. :crazy: And I'm not sure if it was on Ripley's or Guinness, but they also talked about another woman who had pretty long fingernails -- not as long as that guy's though, but it was still really long.

:lol: I've seen those ones too - I think the guy with the fingernails was from India or something. How does anyone get ANYTHING done like that? Imagine picking your nose? You could pierce your brain if someone bumped you! And those toenails - her bedsheets must be in shreds! She can't be married - it would be like sleeping with a cougar! And I thought I put holes in the toes of my pantihose! :rolleyes:

:lol: I've seen those ones too - I think the guy with the fingernails was from India or something. How does anyone get ANYTHING done like that? Imagine picking your nose? You could pierce your brain if someone bumped you! And those toenails - her bedsheets must be in shreds! She can't be married - it would be like sleeping with a cougar! And I thought I put holes in the toes of my pantihose! :rolleyes:
Does your Hubby wear his socks to bed? ;) :lol;

Sense of humor is a big thing. Because 9 times out of 10 if there's a guy that makes me laugh I find him attractive. Good hygine too.

Sense of humor is a big thing. Because 9 times out of 10 if there's a guy that makes me laugh I find him attractive. Good hygine too.
If that's so, then why dont clowns have harems? :lol:

If that's so, then why dont clowns have harems? :lol:

Because they smell bad?? ;)

Turn ons

Dark brown/Black hair
Wavy or naturally curly hair
brown eyes
Tan
Sweet
Gentle
Funny
Affectionate
Patient
Sense of humor (not cruel)
Kind
Understanding
Must love me as I am.
Fit
Moderately hairy Chest.


Turn Offs

Mean
Crude
Stupid
Arrogant
Macho
Shaved Head
Long Hair
Bald
Hair on backs and shoulders
Overly hairy arms.

In ONE word......LARRY!!!! :lol:

Does your Hubby wear his socks to bed? ;) :lol;

:lol: - Actually, when Solomon posted that about the feet, I immediately thought of my hubby - he's got feet on him like a Raptor!! :eek: It's ME that needs the protection. I just slap some hockey pads on.....or don't shave my legs for a couple of days and give him the "cricket" treatment! :crazy:

:lol: - Actually, when Solomon posted that about the feet, I immediately thought of my hubby - he's got feet on him like a Raptor!! :eek: It's ME that needs the protection. I just slap some hockey pads on.....or don't shave my legs for a couple of days and give him the "cricket" treatment! :crazy:
Hmmmmmmmm Maybe i SHOULD stay single :lol:

In ONE word......LARRY!!!! :lol:
I think California IS dreaming !!! :lol:

Mikado - :lol: to both replies.

Don't worry - keep your feet soft and don't purposely drive your wife nuts with them and you'll be fine! ;) It's only karma!


And yah, Katie sure dreams of that one.....(I'm thankful it wasn't a description of Mr. Roper tho). :lol:

Turn On's:
Six-Pack
Muscles
Blue Eyes
A Little Bit of Facial Hair and A Little Bit of Chest Hair
Sweet
Affectionate
Funny
Blue Eyes
Nice Hair
Must Treat me like a Lady
Same Moral Values
Fit

Turn Off's:
Smoking
Chewing Tobacco
Hairy Back & Shoulders
Dirty Mouth
Arrorgant
Fat
More Earrings than me

* Turn Ons:
-first and foremost: GREAT listening skills! Very, very important to me.... and an effort to communicate and really listen and NOT just "hear"
-considerate
-good hygiene (takes care of his looks, clothes, etc...not necessary has expensive clothes but can make his clothes nice by washing them, etc)
-understands I'm not too much of a socializer
-understanding
-great sense of humor
-is patient with my flaws (paranoia, irrationality, anger, shyness, not a huge socializer, fears, uptight, etc)
-affectionate
-is upfront and honest with me
-compassionate about my hobbies as I would be with his
-a sense of mutuality
-easy-going

* Turn Offs:
-smokers
-drinkers (ocassional is fine as long as it's not overboard)
-inconsiderate
-rude
-controlling
-bad personal hygiene
-piercings and an overkill on tattoos
-beards
-arrogant
-macho
-overly hairy

* Turn Offs:

-drinkers (ocassional is fine as long as it's not overboard)
-

Define "overboard."

;)

Someone who is understanding, warm, friendly, not so caught up in being masculine, always there for me, not controlling, and easy going. I seriously don't care how they look, if there is a connection then there is a connection.

don't care how they look, if there is a connection then there is a connection.


Although, ya gotta admit - a dog is a dog! ;)

to the above...... HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!!! :lol:
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Although, ya gotta admit - a dog is a dog! ;)
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Turn ons
1. Sense of humor (This is a big one for me, there is nothing sexier than a man who can make me laugh.)
2. Intelligent
3. Family and Career Oriented
4. Math Whiz (It sounds dumb, but I'm ******** in math, and so in the end I think it would balance out if the guy is good at it.)
5. Understanding
6. Physically affectionate
7. Honest


Turn offs
1. Tattoos- One or two is fine, but I can't stand the Ozzy Osbourne overdone tattoo thing.
2. Smokers
3. Overly hairy chest. There are some men who look like a bear, that's scary.
4. Tobacco chewers
5. Arrogance

You want a math wiz DF? Ok, leaves me out :( :lol:

You want a math wiz DF? Ok, leaves me out :( :lol:


Sorry :( . Not a math whiz, but somebody who can actually do math. I know the essentials, like balancing a checkbook, and making change. That's about it though.

Define "overboard."

;)
Having a drink....and another, and another, and another... That to me is going overboard because it's just like chugging. It's pointless to me.

A man looking for a woman:

Turn ons:
-between 5'4" and 5'9" tall.
-sweet talkin'
-caring
-blonde, redhead, carrottop, or brunette.
-blue, green, or gray eyes.
-must be sweet.
-must be adventurous.
-must like traveling.
-

Turn offs:
-ratty hair.
-colored contacts.
-boob enhancer bras and pieces.
-fake boobs.
-black, brown and hazel colored eyes.
-hairy chests.(on a woman).
-mustaches and/or beirds(on a woman).
-big, noticable, manly-type tattoos.
-mullets or pompadores.(on a woman).
-heavy cussers.
-gangster type women.

This is what I look for in a guy:

tall
wears cologne (not overpowering though)
nice eyes
cute smile
intelligent
good sense of humor
good laugh