View Full Version : The Official Boy Problems Thread


MissZero
03-15-2005, 10:33 PM
Ladies, this ones for us......we shall vent our little hearts out

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-15-2005, 10:40 PM
Yeah, is it me or does it seem like everyone has something to deal with on this topic lately?

vienna waits
03-15-2005, 10:41 PM
im not a girl but mario is off AI and i want him back :crybaby:

Georgia's on my Mind
03-15-2005, 10:44 PM
i turned your boyfriend gay. sorry.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-15-2005, 10:45 PM
i turned your boyfriend gay. sorry.
But none of us have one!!!1

Georgia's on my Mind
03-15-2005, 10:46 PM
But none of us have one!!!1
thats why, all men are gay and have sex with me. the end.

MissZero
03-15-2005, 10:46 PM
Yeah, is it me or does it seem like everyone has something to deal with on this topic lately?


sure seems that way

MaydayMalonesGirl
03-15-2005, 10:47 PM
BOYZ HATE ME. *mourns*

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-15-2005, 10:49 PM
thats why, all men are gay and have sex with me. the end.
Ohhhhhhhhh, okay

MissZero
03-15-2005, 10:53 PM
okay heres my vent....I was "talking" to this one guy up until about two weeks ago, which is when our semi took place, and he didn't wanna go so I went w/ my friend Jason (names have been changed)....anyway there was a group of 8 of us that all pulled money for a limo (my four best girls and their dates) so we had 2.5 hours afterwards to drive around and during that time I started to really "click" with my friends date (they were just friends yall im not a ho) and we talked the whole time and suddenly I'm into him. So my situation was finally gettin REALLY good w/ the first guy and then I start likin the other guy....and in school me n the other guy will shoot glances but thats it WE never talked again after that night...now I don't know what to do

Georgia's on my Mind
03-15-2005, 10:55 PM
okay heres my vent....I was "talking" to this one guy up until about two weeks ago, which is when our semi took place, and he didn't wanna go so I went w/ my friend Jason (names have been changed)....anyway there was a group of 8 of us that all pulled money for a limo (my four best girls and their dates) so we had 2.5 hours afterwards to drive around and during that time I started to really "click" with my friends date (they were just friends yall im not a ho) and we talked the whole time and suddenly I'm into him. So my situation was finally gettin REALLY good w/ the first guy and then I start likin the other guy....and in school me n the other guy will shoot glances but thats it WE never talked again after that night...now I don't know what to do
they both slept with me.

MissZero
03-15-2005, 10:59 PM
they both slept with me.

im thrilled

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-15-2005, 11:01 PM
they both slept with me.
Ur so gay :happyface

Georgia's on my Mind
03-15-2005, 11:05 PM
im thrilled
You didn't miss much

Georgia's on my Mind
03-15-2005, 11:06 PM
Ur so gay :happyface
and sexually ambitious

Karen*
03-16-2005, 01:12 AM
The title of this thread is misleading. It is called "The Official Boy Problems Thread" even though it's for GIRLS. Nice joke. :lol:

Kristina
03-16-2005, 01:20 AM
The title of this thread is misleading. It is called "The Official Boy Problems Thread" even though it's for GIRLS. Nice joke. :lol:
not really. it's the official BOY problems, not BOYS problems thread. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

dawsongirl
03-16-2005, 03:29 AM
Yeah, is it me or does it seem like everyone has something to deal with on this topic lately?
Yeah...what's with that?

G-Force Glockstar
03-16-2005, 05:06 PM
BOYZ HATE ME. *mourns*

Boys hate me too (well I mean no boy would want me as a girlfriend), but I won't worry about it again until High School ;)

Janet McFarland
03-16-2005, 05:21 PM
Weeee boys suck. Here's my vent (I'm posting it from another board, since I know everyone cares so much about my problems.)

Here's my story: This whole year we've been talking and flirting. So one day I get fed up and I want to know if any of it means something or not. My friend asks him and he says "only as a friend". At first I was disappointed, then I got really angry. If I'm "just a friend", then why does he like lead me on? And how come he only picks on me? So for a month/2 months I haven't spoke to him. Well I have but we're not the same as were before, like we don't have any real conversations. So yesterday I think I got him mad about something I said, so I'm talking to my friend and she told me that she thinks he likes me. All I did was roll my eyes because I have everyone tell me that. With that thought in my head, I walk downstairs and see him flirting with some girl. Then after school I see a bunch of girls flirting with him. Now I'm really pissed off, but I don't know why. I know I don't like him, so why am I upset? He can flirt or talk with whoever he wants. I don't know what my problem is.. maybe because he was the closest thing I had to a boyfriend and I lost him? Yeah that's probably it.

MaydayMalonesGirl
03-16-2005, 06:06 PM
Boys hate me too (well I mean no boy would want me as a girlfriend), but I won't worry about it again until High School ;)

I could care less. All the guys in my school are stupid anyways.

MsOrange
03-16-2005, 06:10 PM
i'm engaged, and I still have boy problems, here we go:
My ex, John, IMs me out of the blue and just starts chatting like nothing happened. well, we broke up over 2 years ago... so after a few very awkward casual comments, i just flat out asked him, "What on earth are you doing IMing me?" and he was all "Well, i'm still trying to figure that out myself..." He knows i'm engaged, so I was very intrigued by this, flattered, curious, whatever you wanna call it, so i kept chatting w/ him for about 30 mins. Well, I told my fiancee, Jonathan (yes, I apparently have a thing for Jons), and he just about freaked.

Ugg... boys.

G-Force Glockstar
03-16-2005, 06:11 PM
I could care less. All the guys in my school are stupid anyways.

Exact same with me. Honestly I can't find one boy at my school I would even think about going out with :lol:

Hollow
03-16-2005, 06:16 PM
lol who cares about dating. 10 or 15 guys from my school liked me last year and i ignored them all. that was just the first semester though, after that i got depressed and cared little about my hygiene.

MsOrange
03-16-2005, 06:17 PM
Exact same with me. Honestly I can't find one boy at my school I would even think about going out with :lol:
when i was in high school i never dated. they boys were hardly worth the time... trust me, wait till you graduate or at least wait until you are old enough to meet some guys that are in college/in a career/mature.

G-Force Glockstar
03-16-2005, 06:18 PM
when i was in high school i never dated. they boys were hardly worth the time... trust me, wait till you graduate or at least wait until you are old enough to meet some guys that are in college/in a career/mature.

Yeah, besides I have sooooooooooooooooo much more to worry about than boys :lol:

MsOrange
03-16-2005, 06:20 PM
Yeah, besides I have sooooooooooooooooo much more to worry about than boys :lol:
Amen! KEEP THAT ATTITUDE

x3 Taylor x3
03-16-2005, 06:24 PM
Most guys just want to be friends with me.

G-Force Glockstar
03-16-2005, 06:35 PM
Amen! KEEP THAT ATTITUDE

I defintly will :lol:

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-16-2005, 06:42 PM
The only boy I'm anything near friends with is the one I like, and there's no way in hell I'll say anything because I'm a p*ssy. The end.

M82A1
03-16-2005, 07:05 PM
Here's my story: This whole year we've been talking and flirting. So one day I get fed up and I want to know if any of it means something or not. My friend asks him and he says "only as a friend". At first I was disappointed, then I got really angry. If I'm "just a friend", then why does he like lead me on? And how come he only picks on me? So for a month/2 months I haven't spoke to him. Well I have but we're not the same as were before, like we don't have any real conversations. So yesterday I think I got him mad about something I said, so I'm talking to my friend and she told me that she thinks he likes me. All I did was roll my eyes because I have everyone tell me that. With that thought in my head, I walk downstairs and see him flirting with some girl. Then after school I see a bunch of girls flirting with him. Now I'm really pissed off, but I don't know why. I know I don't like him, so why am I upset? He can flirt or talk with whoever he wants. I don't know what my problem is.. maybe because he was the closest thing I had to a boyfriend and I lost him? Yeah that's probably it.
It could be one of two things:

1: You still have feelings for him and you get jealous when you see him flirting with girls/girls flirting with him.

2: You are trying to compete with him, and get angry when you see him potentially finding a girlfriend.

Just an onlooker's observation. :)

Michael [hXc]
03-16-2005, 07:07 PM
It could be one of two things:

1: You still have feelings for him and you get jealous when you see him flirting with girls/girls flirting with him.

2: You are trying to compete with him, and get angry when you see him potentially finding a girlfriend.

Just an onlooker's observation. :)

possibly :lol: she could also just downright hate him too. i don't know. :p

Hollow
03-16-2005, 07:59 PM
The title of this thread is misleading. It is called "The Official Boy Problems Thread" even though it's for GIRLS. Nice joke. :lol:
"boy problems"

"boy" is being used as an adjective describing the problems; problems OF, RELATING TO, or that INVOLVE boys.

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Janet McFarland
03-16-2005, 08:14 PM
It could be one of two things:

1: You still have feelings for him and you get jealous when you see him flirting with girls/girls flirting with him.

2: You are trying to compete with him, and get angry when you see him potentially finding a girlfriend.

Just an onlooker's observation. :)

It is definitely not #1. Maybe #2? Argh so confused :o

possibly :lol: she could also just downright hate him too. i don't know. :P

Yeah I think you know that I hate him :p

Michael [hXc]
03-16-2005, 08:19 PM
i'd go with that she is disgusted and pissed because of how he acted towards her so she is pissed and confused all at the same time.

Karen*
03-17-2005, 02:32 AM
Dude, boys are just jerks.

dawsongirl
03-17-2005, 04:04 AM
Weeee boys suck. Here's my vent (I'm posting it from another board, since I know everyone cares so much about my problems.)

Here's my story: This whole year we've been talking and flirting. So one day I get fed up and I want to know if any of it means something or not. My friend asks him and he says "only as a friend". At first I was disappointed, then I got really angry. If I'm "just a friend", then why does he like lead me on? And how come he only picks on me? So for a month/2 months I haven't spoke to him. Well I have but we're not the same as were before, like we don't have any real conversations. So yesterday I think I got him mad about something I said, so I'm talking to my friend and she told me that she thinks he likes me. All I did was roll my eyes because I have everyone tell me that. With that thought in my head, I walk downstairs and see him flirting with some girl. Then after school I see a bunch of girls flirting with him. Now I'm really pissed off, but I don't know why. I know I don't like him, so why am I upset? He can flirt or talk with whoever he wants. I don't know what my problem is.. maybe because he was the closest thing I had to a boyfriend and I lost him? Yeah that's probably it.

So weird...that sounds so much like me. I shall shortly tell my story.

So there's this guy that I met in a class in college about 3 years ago. We hit it off as friends (which was really kind of bizarre, cuz we're night and day different). Well, like I do all too often, I developed a crush on him and was totally sad when that semester was over because he was graduating and I still had a semester (I actually cried! What a dope). So I go another semester and I guess a few months after I graduated, I look him up (he went on to grad school) and email him to say hey. We start talking on email and IM and I went up to see him once (like a nostalgia trip for me). So about 2-3 months ago, we start talking a lot, and like the guy he his, starts "jokingly" making comments and lame flippant remarks about sexual crap. Well, frankly, it pisses me off. So I write him this email explaining some stuff and I hear nothing. And nothing. And nothing. So I then write an email about how it was nice talking to him, but I guess you hate me, so bye. He writes back and says he never checks that email anymore and that he's been real busy with his thesis. Okay, I feel stupid. Well, that was 3 weeks ago, and we've talked just twice since then, and it was just kinda like, he didn't wanna talk to me or something. And now he's disappeared on spring break I guess and I'm all like jealous cuz I don't know who he's with or anything. Why am I jealous?! This is insane. But I guess I'm afraid to let go or something, because this is the closest I've come to having a boyfriend and at 25, I think if this doesn't work out, I'm finished and I might as well just resign myself to dying alone and depressed.

I hate myself SO MUCH right now.

dawsongirl
03-17-2005, 04:44 AM
when i was in high school i never dated. they boys were hardly worth the time... trust me, wait till you graduate or at least wait until you are old enough to meet some guys that are in college/in a career/mature.
So true. HS boys are so immature. Well, many college boys are too. In fact, they can be worse. Maybe we should just all wait until we're 35. Or marry old. :lol:

MsOrange
03-17-2005, 01:52 PM
So true. HS boys are so immature. Well, many college boys are too. In fact, they can be worse. Maybe we should just all wait until we're 35. Or marry old. :lol:
very true about the immaturity in college

i vote for the marry old thing... :D

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-17-2005, 09:37 PM
I want to die.

x3 Taylor x3
03-17-2005, 09:57 PM
The guy I like can't seem to take anything seriously. I can't stand it.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-17-2005, 09:59 PM
The guy I like can't seem to take anything seriously. I can't stand it.
I just figure if you find a problem with someone, you don't TRUELY care for them. I just blame everything on myself in these situations.

x3 Taylor x3
03-17-2005, 10:03 PM
I just figure if you find a problem with someone, you don't TRUELY care for them. I just blame everything on myself in these situations.

I really do, but it seems like everytime I try to talk to him about something serious he makes lame jokes or whatever.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-17-2005, 10:04 PM
I really do, but it seems like everytime I try to talk to him about something serious he makes lame jokes or whatever.
Maybe it's nerves? I know I act like a dumb**** when I'm nervous.

x3 Taylor x3
03-17-2005, 10:06 PM
Maybe it's nerves? I know I act like a dumb**** when I'm nervous.

Maybe, but I wouldn't expect him to get nervous talking online.

dawsongirl
03-17-2005, 10:07 PM
I really do, but it seems like everytime I try to talk to him about something serious he makes lame jokes or whatever.
I think that's a guy thing. Really. Cuz I swear every convo with my crush turns into sex jokes. Like he has nothing better to say. :rolleyes:

x3 Taylor x3
03-17-2005, 10:11 PM
I think that's a guy thing. Really. Cuz I swear every convo with my crush turns into sex jokes. Like he has nothing better to say. :rolleyes:

YES. The guy I like does the sex jokes too. I think he thinks it like impresses me or makes him sound cool, it's really just immature and stupid though.

Lady T
03-17-2005, 10:11 PM
I think that's a guy thing. Really. Cuz I swear every convo with my crush turns into sex jokes. Like he has nothing better to say. :rolleyes:
That is all most men think about is SEX!!! :rolleyes:

Rebel Queen 1980
03-17-2005, 10:42 PM
OMG!,I hate talking to guys when I was teenager. Damn all they ever wanted
to about was about oral sex. They wanted to know how many girls in the
class would give it.and then they would ask what other boys in the class
would take from them. All of the girls refused to answer him.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-17-2005, 11:27 PM
OMG!,I hate talking to guys when I was teenager. Damn all they ever wanted
to about was about oral sex. They wanted to know how many girls in the
class would give it.and then they would ask what other boys in the class
would take from them. All of the girls refused to answer him.
I...tend to stay away from those.

CheersChild4life
03-17-2005, 11:43 PM
Ok I'm in 8th grade, now those boys are immature. They love talking about sex but, so do I so it's all good! I come from a really small school and all the guys there think I'm ugly, but then I go to the mall or something and all these high school guys will hit on me and stuff. It's one crazy deal!

MsOrange
03-17-2005, 11:45 PM
8th grade virgins talking about sex is hilarious ... aww, to be young again

Hollow
03-18-2005, 12:20 AM
I'm sure Janice agrees that many posts in this thread present signs of sexism.
None of you have any right to judge us men by our gender. If anyone in this
thread says one more thing to degrade males, I'm gonna tell TJ on you.

M82A1
03-18-2005, 12:25 AM
I'm sure Janice agrees that many posts in this thread present signs of sexism.
None of you have any right to judge us men by our gender. If anyone in this
thread says one more thing to degrade males, I'm gonna tell TJ on you.
You're a guy? Wow. I always got the impression you were a girl.

MsOrange
03-18-2005, 12:28 AM
You're a guy? Wow. I always got the impression you were a girl.
sarcasim sweetie, sarcasim ;)

M82A1
03-18-2005, 12:31 AM
sarcasim sweetie, sarcasim ;)
Oh... it's kind of hard to detect sarcasm on a message board.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-18-2005, 01:00 AM
I ****ing hate this. All I want to do is talk about him or talk TO him. The first is the most annoying thing to other people, and we're not close enough to talk outside of school. (and we have a 3 day weekend so I'm all the more miserable) ****ing teenage ****ing woe. ****ing. ****. I want to die.

Hollow
03-18-2005, 01:05 AM
You're a guy? Wow. I always got the impression you were a girl.
nah, i was doing an impression.:grr:

dawsongirl
03-18-2005, 03:22 PM
I ****ing hate this. All I want to do is talk about him or talk TO him. The first is the most annoying thing to other people, and we're not close enough to talk outside of school. (and we have a 3 day weekend so I'm all the more miserable) ****ing teenage ****ing woe. ****ing. ****. I want to die.

Doesn't it just suck? I've been waiting for a week and a half for him just to get back on IM, and it's driving me frickin nuts.

Georgia's on my Mind
03-18-2005, 03:28 PM
I love my boyfriend, he's super. Sex is super too.

x3 Taylor x3
03-18-2005, 03:34 PM
I love my boyfriend, he's super. Sex is super too.

YES.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-18-2005, 06:03 PM
I love my boyfriend, he's super. Sex is super too.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-18-2005, 06:05 PM
Doesn't it just suck? I've been waiting for a week and a half for him just to get back on IM, and it's driving me frickin nuts.
At least you can talk to him on IM. Dear Lord, I'd kill for that.

Michael [hXc]
03-18-2005, 06:05 PM
That is all most men think about is SEX!!! :rolleyes:

i have friends who that's all they think about and they're 13.

Hollow
03-18-2005, 06:17 PM
That is all most men think about is SEX!!! :rolleyes:
it's natural..

dawsongirl
03-18-2005, 06:20 PM
At least you can talk to him on IM. Dear Lord, I'd kill for that.

:( It's taken several crushes to get to the talking point. All the rest didn't know I existed.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-18-2005, 09:38 PM
:( It's taken several crushes to get to the talking point. All the rest didn't know I existed.
He knows I exist, it's just...I don't know, really confusing. I don't even know where to begin.

dawsongirl
03-18-2005, 10:20 PM
He knows I exist, it's just...I don't know, really confusing. I don't even know where to begin.

Well, at least that's a positive.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-18-2005, 10:26 PM
Well, at least that's a positive.
Yeah, I definately feel lucky for that...but there's still misery.

Sara Micelli
03-19-2005, 04:04 AM
I like a good friend of mine, but I'm not sure what to do. I'm confused and depressed.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-19-2005, 12:34 PM
I like a good friend of mine, but I'm not sure what to do. I'm confused and depressed.
We're having a suicide party next Thursday at 8. Would you like to come? :)

Georgia's on my Mind
03-19-2005, 01:01 PM
yum

Mr. Stefani
03-19-2005, 01:48 PM
cant we have a girl problems post? **** EM DIRTY ASS SKANKS

Rhiannon
03-19-2005, 03:07 PM
I had a lot of these same boy problems my freshman year in high school. Right now, however, I'm really happy with my boyfriend.

TheGreatPretender
03-19-2005, 03:26 PM
My problem is that boys run away when I come within a foot of them. Is there hope for me? ;)

Sara Micelli
03-19-2005, 03:46 PM
We're having a suicide party next Thursday at 8. Would you like to come? :)

I'll be there. :)

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-19-2005, 06:38 PM
cant we have a girl problems post? **** EM DIRTY ASS SKANKS
there is one :roller:

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-19-2005, 06:38 PM
I'll be there. :)
Cool, how fetch! That's 3.

Hollow
03-19-2005, 10:27 PM
there is one :roller:
two in fact. props to the great webwarrior for heroically telling janice on whoever made the second one.

vienna waits
03-19-2005, 10:54 PM
two in fact. props to the great webwarrior for heroically telling janice on whoever made the second one.

lol patriot:

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
03-20-2005, 01:52 AM
two in fact. props to the great webwarrior for heroically telling janice on whoever made the second one.I know. I about pissed myself when I saw TWO of the SAME THREAD! Instead I cut off my right leg.