How do you respond? Can you take other people's comments like water off a ducks back,or does the slightest
thing upset you? And,if someone was talking about you behind your back,would you want to know what the
person is saying,or would it upset you too much,and you'd rather not know?

lol...I can't let things go very well. I get all pissy and that person is an automatic enemy. Sometimes I forget about what they said over time, but if it was bad enough, I hate them.

I'd want to know what was being said about me.

I don't take things well at all... I get really mad.

Depending on the mood I'm in, I'll go off on the person, or I'll just walk away and ignore it. Hey, can't please everyone.

it depends on who says it and how bad of a thing they say. if it's my worst enemy, i'll let it roll off my back. if it's someone i thought was my friend, i'll be hurt. if it's my best friend, i'll be really hurt.

I just say nyeah nyeah neah, stick out my tongue at them :p amd walk away.

Then I go home and report them to the FBI over their huge collection of gay midget porn.

:lol:

Actually I stress out about it and get paranoid that there's a big badmouthing conspiracy going on behind my back.

I get nasty right back, I get mad really easily

Unless im not in a mood to argue, than I just walk away

If someone says something bad about me, I tend to take it really personal. Then I often allow it to upset me.

IT depends I yell if they get on my nerves and annoy me all the time, I ignore too, but it is hard

It all depends on who says it. If I don't care about the person, the less it bothers me. Usually, all it takes is an apology for me to let things go. I'm a total sucker for an apology. I can be steaming, but if someone sincerely apologizes to me, I just forget it.

I get nasty right back, I get mad really easily

you know, i never feel that way because it's not really a mad feeling, it's that i'd feel sorry for them that they'd feel that way. if it's like Makayla or someone like that who says something, i ignore it and my friends torture her for me. you know, there's no effect in getting nasty because that's what people enjoy and it'll just make them do it more. if you act like it doesn't bother you, it loses the effect for the one who said it.

I report them to the moderators.

:p

Depens who and what they say.

Sometimes I'll just get nasty right back, and sometimes I'll be the shy and sensitive one.

it depends on how well i know them. if it's someone i've never seen i ignore it, otherwise i straighten them out.

Depends on what they say but I used to let things get at me alot, but now I've realised that I shouldn't care about what other people think about me or say about me.

I eat them.








lololol Just kidding, I just brush it off and ignore them. Or of it's nasty enough, I'll get nasty right back.

I usually hunt them down and tell them to their face, "Tough ****. I don't care if you like me or not. I honestly don't give a flying ****" or I say "It's obvious you don't like me. Therefore, I don't like your sorry ass and you don't deserve to talk to me" and I walk away. I don't waste my time on anybody. If they decide to apologize, I take it with a grain of salt. If they screw up again, I don't talk to them anymore. I have better things to do than wonder whether they like me or not. I am my own person. If you don't like what I do, tough ****, because I'm not going to change for you. :D

I really wish i didn't care so much about other people's thoughts about me,but i do care,and i cant help it.I try to please everyone so when someone is nasty in return,it really upsets me.I take most things to heart.I hate people talking about me,but its fact of life,and people are always going to do it,so i i better learn to get over it.

...thats how I know that I'm doing my job ;)

I say something back to them. I get pissed really easily.

I always hate it when someone says something bad about me. Even if I know it is a lie, it still hurts. When someone says something about me that I know is a lie I usually just don't want to have anything to do with that person.

it really depends on who it is. But I usually just ignore them and not say anything at all, which really isn't' always a good thing. I should learn to stick up for myself sometimes.

How do you respond? Can you take other people's comments like water off a ducks back,or does the slightest
thing upset you? I try not to let it bother me......

People sometimes are very mean to me...... Still I try to be loving towards them....

Bottom line and think it out folks....what others say about me is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. People that are irritants to my life are NOT in my life. And sometimes a break from person (s) is in order.

Depends on what they say but I used to let things get at me alot, but now I've realised that I shouldn't care about what other people think about me or say about me.


Here is a wise Young person's way they look at this issue. Good for them and their young courage and wisdom to know differences...

What is nice about my life is that I live in China and I no longer have any friends, or basically know any foreigners and the only people in my life is my (Chinese) wife and her people. I have been unemployed for over a year because of circumstances but happily today I got a two year visa (instead of the one year I was expecting) and hopefully will do some freelancing soon.

I came back to America and really if I never had to, I would not go back but I will of my father ever decides to die, so I can get my annuity and figure out what to do with his house with his dingbat second wife. I just loathe America on so many levels. I had a lot of problems growing up and lots of people messed with me, which I mostly avoided and this lasted into adulthood. I even had a neighbor kid who was about 15 when I was in my twenties living at home calling me naked under his breath. I had enough of him and told his mother if he didn’t stop I was going to kill her son. If I could get away with it, I would have, with a blowtorch and time. He isn’t the only one either.

But I don’t want to go to prison for the rest of my life so leaving was the next best thing. You can keep your burgers, chicken wings, self checkout, men who wear dresses, hatred towards people who produce, taxes, having to drive everywhere, insurance, Door Dash, Amazon. The lies and the sneakiness. Having to work for billionaires until you die. Incompetence everywhere at all levels. Most of all, being forced to be around people I would not urinate on if they were on fire.

What is nice about my life is that I live in China and I no longer have any friends, or basically know any foreigners and the only people in my life is my (Chinese) wife and her people. I have been unemployed for over a year because of circumstances but happily today I got a two year visa (instead of the one year I was expecting) and hopefully will do some freelancing soon.

I came back to America and really if I never had to, I would not go back but I will of my father ever decides to die, so I can get my annuity and figure out what to do with his house with his dingbat second wife. I just loathe America on so many levels. I had a lot of problems growing up and lots of people messed with me, which I mostly avoided and this lasted into adulthood. I even had a neighbor kid who was about 15 when I was in my twenties living at home calling me naked under his breath. I had enough of him and told his mother if he didn’t stop I was going to kill her son. If I could get away with it, I would have, with a blowtorch and time. He isn’t the only one either.

But I don’t want to go to prison for the rest of my life so leaving was the next best thing. You can keep your burgers, chicken wings, self checkout, men who wear dresses, hatred towards people who produce, taxes, having to drive everywhere, insurance, Door Dash, Amazon. The lies and the sneakiness. Having to work for billionaires until you die. Incompetence everywhere at all levels. Most of all, being forced to be around people I would not urinate on if they were on fire.

You went into a long dissertation and nothing about the Thread Topic:(:(

What is nice about my life is that I live in China and I no longer have any friends, or basically know any foreigners and the only people in my life is my (Chinese) wife and her people.But what do you do Yong when people are mean to you??