they are desperate for affection. Give me a freakin break. When men cheat it's because they are just horny dog. But because a woman does it, there has to be a good explanation. That's a bunch of bullsh%T

So they have an explanation for why married women cheat. Why does that have to be a 'bunch of bull ****?' And as for the reason men do it, don't you think that some of them do it because they're looking for affection, too? Shouldn't be completely unheard of.

mmm desperate for affection, thats why i used to mess around with a lot of people

If your husband isn't giving you the affection he should, then why not just divorce the creep and then go find someone else? People, both men and women, obviously like to overlap their problems instead of ending one first.

If your husband isn't giving you the affection he should, then why not just divorce the creep and then go find someone else? People, both men and women, obviously like to overlap their problems instead of ending one first.

I agree. If you're not happy, don't cheat for crying out loud. Seperate or get a damn divorce.

I can understand his point though. It seems that if a woman does it it's alright because her husband is an a$$ and not treating her good. But if a man was in the same situation he is considered a low-life scumbag. Another example of that is I was watching Queen Latifas(?) talk show once(don't ask-there was nothing good on at the time) and her show was about men always wanting sex. Queen and the audience were tearing these guys apart! They were no good, low lifes because they wanted sex more than their women. On that same show they brought out a couple were the woman was complaining that her husband didn't want sex as much as her. Now they were on the guy because he wasn't having sex ENOUGH with his woman. They never got on the womans case about her always wanting sex. Just him because he didn't want it as much as her. So the point is it seems like women get a pass when it comes to cheating or wanting sex more than their spouse because it's usually the other way around.

I can understand his point though. It seems that if a woman does it it's alright because her husband is an a$$ and not treating her good. But if a man was in the same situation he is considered a low-life scumbag. Another example of that is I was watching Queen Latifas(?) talk show once(don't ask-there was nothing good on at the time) and her show was about men always wanting sex. Queen and the audience were tearing these guys apart! They were no good, low lifes because they wanted sex more than their women. On that same show they brought out a couple were the woman was complaining that her husband didn't want sex as much as her. Now they were on the guy because he wasn't having sex ENOUGH with his woman. They never got on the womans case about her always wanting sex. Just him because he didn't want it as much as her. So the point is it seems like women get a pass when it comes to cheating or wanting sex more than their spouse because it's usually the other way around.




Agree 100%. A female told me that if her man wasn't in the mood for sex it means he is cheating or secretly gay. It can't be because he is tired or just wants to relax. Message to Women-ALL MEN ARE NOT SEX CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agree 100%. A female told me that if her man wasn't in the mood for sex it means he is cheating or secretly gay. It can't be because he is tired or just wants to relax. Message to Women-ALL MEN ARE NOT SEX CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They aren't?? All the ones I've met are. And I don't want one that is!

They aren't?? All the ones I've met are. And I don't want one that is!


Well there are men out there who are not

I can understand his point though. It seems that if a woman does it it's alright because her husband is an a$$ and not treating her good. But if a man was in the same situation he is considered a low-life scumbag. Another example of that is I was watching Queen Latifas(?) talk show once(don't ask-there was nothing good on at the time) and her show was about men always wanting sex. Queen and the audience were tearing these guys apart! They were no good, low lifes because they wanted sex more than their women. On that same show they brought out a couple were the woman was complaining that her husband didn't want sex as much as her. Now they were on the guy because he wasn't having sex ENOUGH with his woman. They never got on the womans case about her always wanting sex. Just him because he didn't want it as much as her. So the point is it seems like women get a pass when it comes to cheating or wanting sex more than their spouse because it's usually the other way around.

Personally, I think both the man and the woman are a-holes for cheating in the first place. It's not any more right for the woman than it is for the man, in my opinion.

This reminds me of the "She's a slut for having sex/He's a stud for having sex" double standard. Which I have always found very unfair and ignorant. I mean, the fact that they were upset with the guy for the lack of sex, whereas they weren't jumping on her back. Neither of the two should get a pass.

And I believe Solomon: Not all men are sex crazy. :lol:

Agree 100%. A female told me that if her man wasn't in the mood for sex it means he is cheating or secretly gay. It can't be because he is tired or just wants to relax. Message to Women-ALL MEN ARE NOT SEX CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah - it COULD be just because his AC is on the fritz!

yeah - it COULD be just because his AC is on the fritz!


You have defintely earned the name Wackball-LOL

You have defintely earned the name Wackball-LOL*bows*

thankee sir :)