If I could change one thing about myself is that I have this nasty habit of bitting my fingernails. Hafe the time I do not even know I'm doing it. I know that I get it from my dad.

I'd be thin, and not fat.

Originally posted by dukey
If I could change one thing about myself is that I have this nasty habit of bitting my fingernails. Hafe the time I do not even know I'm doing it. I know that I get it from my dad.

*half

i don't know.

i wouldnt have social anxiety.

There are so many things I'd change about myself. I don't even know where to begin!
If I had to pick only one thing, it'd probably be my drinking. I drink too much and it messes me up. If I were sober I'd have a much better chance at sorting out all the other things that are wrong with me. :rolleyes:

Hmmmm.....nothing.

How about everything? I know I probably just come off as some whiny, dramatic teenager...but I really do hate most everything about myself...the way I act or don't act, look etc.

My tolerance for people with idiotic views of the world.

A lot... probably the fact that I really f-cked up last year and had to go to rehab.. that was probably the worst 10 days of my life.

If you mean something about our appearance, I wish my eye color was blue or green instead of brown. Other than that, I don't really wanna change anything.

Oh man...I'm with Mossopp...there's so many things I'd be here all night thinking of them.

Um...outside of all the dumb mistakes I made in HS and college...

I'll say my skin. That bugs me the most I think. After that would be my hips.

I wish I wasn't so afraid of everything

Originally posted by dawsongirl


Um...outside of all the dumb mistakes I made in HS and college...



I made a mistake or two myself in high school!:lol:

Originally posted by BUSH-2004!!!
My tolerance for people with idiotic views of the world. Calling their views "idiotic" is certainly a good start. Bravo, sir! You've seen the light.

My fatness. Id also give myself bigger boobs.

Originally posted by AKA
Calling their views "idiotic" is certainly a good start. Bravo, sir! You've seen the light.

Thank you sir. I am trying. Have a nice day.

i think i'd give myself a bigger sandwich right now.

and maybe a dill pickle and some gingerale to wash it all down with.

Originally posted by robyrob
i think i'd give myself a bigger sandwich right now.

and maybe a dill pickle and some gingerale to wash it all down with.

Sounds good!:)

If I could change one thing, I'd want to be less of a worrier

Id want to get angry less easily.

Only one?

Hmm....maybe that I'm not so senstivite or get so angry eaisly.

I'd be much thinner than I am now. About 125 lbs sounds good.

Originally posted by phoebe7165
I'd be much thinner than I am now. About 125 lbs sounds good.

I think that every guy and girl around wishes they could change something about the way they look.

i would be physically, emotionally and socially perfect.

Picking just one...

It would probably be teeth. I would like to have strong teeth, all cavity-free.

After that, two more...

- About 6' in height would be nice.

- 20/20 vision. I don't wear glasses, but my vision (w/out glasses) is about 20/50 (left eye) and 20/400 (right eye).

Everything. :lol:

Bitterness I have towards people of my past.

I would make myself more noticable to people I love and want to help...

My family all my life has laughed at me and called me crazy for trying to tell them stuff I knew was bad but they just thought I was crazy :(

I worry too much, have a bad stomach (and grey hairs) to prove it.

Im so sorry honey :(

I hope your doing OK Theda..... I keep trying on CD as you know...... I create accts and they block me and I create another....... (Takes me 5 mins)

I bet you cant believe they keep blocking me honey! (I have had over 500 accts,dont they realise its not working??) - Some staff isnt but most still do..... (I hope you arent (I dont know your handle there so im not sure (I usually check the logs when im blocked to see who did it (When it says IDIOT I dont have to check....I know who did that one! (Janina)))))

I bet you see alot of talk about me on the mod base huh?? -- If they only knew what a problem was,maybe they would leave me be!!!

Perfection is something I never strived for and I'm far from perfect, but I like myself. And it's not an ego thing. One thing I'd change if I could would get my OA issues in knee and lower back, so so Reduced. Gone would be great but less would be great too.

Theda, I've had worry issues in my life, but learned how to let go of a lot of stuff I could not control, this is key. When I think back at my worries, and see where I am today, it's all worked out ok, pretty good, good enough. Getting involved in Science of Mind in the 80's was a major turningpoint. It's a great way to live and so sad so little know about it.
It's pretty big in CA, it was in the 80's when I found it, it found me.

I was too nice to people who were undeserving, not not kind enough to people who were. That's really the only thing I would change. Otherwise I am far from perfect, but I am contented with who I am.

Perfection is something I never strived for and I'm far from perfect, but I like myself. And it's not an ego thing. One thing I'd change if I could would get my OA issues in knee and lower back, so so Reduced. Gone would be great but less would be great too.

Theda, I've had worry issues in my life, but learned how to let go of a lot of stuff I could not control, this is key. When I think back at my worries, and see where I am today, it's all worked out ok, pretty good, good enough. Getting involved in Science of Mind in the 80's was a major turningpoint. It's a great way to live and so sad so little know about it.
It's pretty big in CA, it was in the 80's when I found it, it found me.

Thank you for the wise advice.

I definitely have to learn to not allow things (that I cannot control) consume me. :wave:

I'D LIKE TO GET OUT OF THIS *** **** WHEELCHAIR!!!!

Thank you for the wise advice.

I definitely have to learn to not allow things (that I cannot control) consume me. :wave:

Yep yep yep

The only thing we can control is ourselves....

I would make myself more noticable to people I love and want to help...

My family all my life has laughed at me and called me crazy for trying to tell them stuff I knew was bad but they just thought I was crazy :(

Your family seems to have sense.

No buddy they dont really,they believe MSM lies,etc

I'D LIKE TO GET OUT OF THIS *** **** WHEELCHAIR!!!!Oh my I am so sorry honey...... I didnt realise you were in one :(


I was too nice to people who were undeserving.......Im like that also..... Its how God wants us to be.. Loving and kind to others even if they arent nice to us.......

I would change my height if it were possible, I'm 5 foot 3 and would love to be a few inches taller so I could reach stuff in my kitchen cabinet. I know it's kind of silly compared to people who want to change their health problems.

Your family seems to have sense.Way to get a veiled insult in saying you think Dude is crazy. Attacks like that are not allowed here. You were also nasty to Bestie in her thread about Howie Mandel calling her opinions the dumbest thing you have ever seen, you treated her like that in other threads as well. :rolleyes: If you don't like other members here, there is still no call to insult them, just ignore their posts and move on. Yet you seem to take it personally when I call a wrestler dumb. That guy or any celebrity couldn't care less what I say about them online.

Way to get a veiled insult in saying you think Dude is crazy. Attacks like that are not allowed here. You were also nasty to Bestie in her thread about Howie Mandel calling her opinions the dumbest thing you have ever seen, you treated her like that in other threads as well. :rolleyes: If you don't like other members here, there is still no call to insult them, just ignore their posts and move on. Yet you seem to take it personally when I call a wrestler dumb. That guy or any celebrity couldn't care less what I say about them online.

To Dude it’s just “words on a screen”. He does have whacky ideas and wasn’t insulted.

The Howie Mandel thing was pretty dumb. Couldn’t believe what I was reading.

I just didn’t see how The Miz was “dumb”. A guy who was able to make millions from his reality TV persona is not dumb.

The Howie Mandel thing was pretty dumb. Couldn’t believe what I was reading.
Even if Dude wasn't insulted Bestie probably was. There was no call to insult her like that, saying the dumbest thing you had seen here went way too far. Sometimes private opinions should be kept to yourself...

Even if Dude wasn't insulted Bestie probably was. There was no call to insult her like that, saying the dumbest thing you had seen here went way too far. Sometimes private opinions should be kept to yourself...

I was insulted from that asinine post.

I was insulted from that asinine post.That is pathetic. Attacking members' intellect and intelligence here is definitely against the rules. Just stay out of her threads if you think her ideas are asinine. :rolleyes:

That is pathetic. Attacking members' intellect and intelligence here is definitely against the rules. Just stay out of her threads if you think her ideas are asinine. :rolleyes:

You think I care what you think? Get off your pedestal.

You think I care what you think? Get off your pedestal.As a moderator you especially should have a higher standard for how you treat other members if you disagree with them. You know full well personal attacks here are against the rules, and it is really sad you think it is ok to treat Bestie and Dude (even if he didn't take it personally) like that.

IceCream, you took the words out of my mouth, I was not going to enter in there, but JamesG has done a good job on me over the months...and a moderator, which is kinda like a teacher type, people to look up to. But that's not often the case on forums I've found, some nasty moderators out there. I could say more but that's enough.

Dude does not deserve some of the bull thrown at him nor do I and nor do others.

Dude does not deserve some of the bull thrown at him nor do I and nor do others.

That’s debatable. :lol:

That’s debatable. :lol:No it isn't. Part of what rule 2 of TJ's rules for posting here says: no personal attacks or derogatory comments against other posters are allowed here. They have just as much right to express their opinion as you. Any Sitcoms Online user making derogatory comments against ANY SITCOMS ONLINE MEMBER (TJ specifically made that part all caps) will be suspended. Any moderator violating the harassment rule (which I am assuming would include keeping up personal attacks on members' intelligence) may be subject to revocation of moderator powers.

Im so sorry honey :(

I hope your doing OK Theda..... I keep trying on CD as you know...... I create accts and they block me and I create another....... (Takes me 5 mins)

I bet you cant believe they keep blocking me honey! (I have had over 500 accts,dont they realise its not working??) - Some staff isnt but most still do..... (I hope you arent (I dont know your handle there so im not sure (I usually check the logs when im blocked to see who did it (When it says IDIOT I dont have to check....I know who did that one! (Janina)))))

I bet you see alot of talk about me on the mod base huh?? -- If they only knew what a problem was,maybe they would leave me be!!!

I need to address this.

I have never blocked any of your accounts on City-Data because I am not a moderator on that site, and I have never been a moderator on CD. I do not even know is Janina is, nor do I care.

Once again: I AM NOT A MODERATOR ON CITY-DATA.

I have ZERO ties to City-Data. I was a member once for about an hour, then I quit. I did not find City-Data interesting enough for me to stay.

No it isn't. Part of what rule 2 of TJ's rules for posting here says: no personal attacks or derogatory comments against other posters are allowed here. They have just as much right to express their opinion as you. Any Sitcoms Online user making derogatory comments against ANY SITCOMS ONLINE MEMBER (TJ specifically made that part all caps) will be suspended. Any moderator violating the harassment rule (which I am assuming would include keeping up personal attacks on members' intelligence) may be subject to revocation of moderator powers.

Well then, did you report my posts that you objected to? Take it to TJ if you see a problem.

Well then, did you report my posts that you objected to? Take it to TJ if you see a problem.The thread Bestie posted had died down, so at the time I let it be. But when I saw you continuing the pattern of personal attacks on members you don't like with Dude in this thread, I decided to speak up for them. What really bothers me though is you being so proud of those attacks and delighting in mocking posters you think are stupid, yet knowing full well the rules here that you continue to not think apply to you.