padre
07-21-2004, 12:08 PM
Thought I'd put my 2 cents in on the bad trader issue. Allot of the discussion has been about traders who never delivery or never return emails about shipments. To me, there's another type of 'bad trader'. It's the ones who will actually get you the goods agreed on, but you have to pester, bother or beg!
It's understandable that everyone, at different points of time, get swamped with things - and things get backed up. But a 'good trader' will be either upfront with the trading partner and explain the trade might take x amount of time to complete (and the other person would then have the option to cancel the trade or wait). Or the other way is to communicate to the trader the progress ("I expect to have your stuff done in x days/weeks").
If you ARE that trader who is constantly bogged down with queues of stuff to get done, and have not choice but to delay stuff getting done, then the solution is simple - don't take on any more trades until you catch up. But many of the traders who get themselves in trouble, promise more and more traders materials, then they get in over their heads.
If you communicate well, most people will be understanding and not look to brand you as a bad trader. But ignore them, or not openly tell them you might have difficulties delivery the goods in a short time frame, then you desire any label they give you. I trade with many people who can't immediately or shortly get the materials out to me, but because they've been up front, and they let me know their progress every once in a while, I give them credit.
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Kevin
It's understandable that everyone, at different points of time, get swamped with things - and things get backed up. But a 'good trader' will be either upfront with the trading partner and explain the trade might take x amount of time to complete (and the other person would then have the option to cancel the trade or wait). Or the other way is to communicate to the trader the progress ("I expect to have your stuff done in x days/weeks").
If you ARE that trader who is constantly bogged down with queues of stuff to get done, and have not choice but to delay stuff getting done, then the solution is simple - don't take on any more trades until you catch up. But many of the traders who get themselves in trouble, promise more and more traders materials, then they get in over their heads.
If you communicate well, most people will be understanding and not look to brand you as a bad trader. But ignore them, or not openly tell them you might have difficulties delivery the goods in a short time frame, then you desire any label they give you. I trade with many people who can't immediately or shortly get the materials out to me, but because they've been up front, and they let me know their progress every once in a while, I give them credit.
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Kevin