View Full Version : Has Anybody Felt Left Out Of Anything?
AtlantaBravesFan29 04-30-2004, 03:09 PM Has anyone felt left out of anything like when certain friends come up to you and say that we would rather not have you around because of certain things?
Any comments would be greatly appreciated(and no arguments!).
Chad22 04-30-2004, 03:12 PM I Feel left out all the time.
I Was The Kid in School that always got picked last for Sports, Ate Lunch Alone And Spent Recess sitting on the Swings Talking to himself. :/
I Did Have One Friend...But Only My Last year of Public School.
barwars 04-30-2004, 03:19 PM People never come up and tell people -- "ohh we dont want you anymore" -- it just happens.
I only feel left out if my friends do something without me.
But if Im with people I dont really know -- I dont give a damn.
LucyFan 04-30-2004, 03:25 PM I feel left out most of the time. I sometimes think I have a curse on me or something.
In elementary school, I really didn't "fit in" with any type of a group of kids. It was hard to deal with. I was "my own group of kids" if that makes any sense. In some ways, it still like that way today in high school.
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 03:38 PM Originally posted by Chad Doody
I Feel left out all the time.
I Was The Kid in School that always got picked last for Sports, Ate Lunch Alone And Spent Recess sitting on the Swings Talking to himself. :/
I Did Have One Friend...But Only My Last year of Public School.
Why doesn't that surprise me?
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 03:38 PM Originally posted by LucyFan
I feel left out most of the time. I sometimes think I have a curse on me or something.
In elementary school, I really didn't "fit in" with any type of a group of kids. It was hard to deal with. I was "my own group of kids" if that makes any sense. In some ways, it still like that way today in high school.
So basically you were kind of weird in elementary school?
Hollow 04-30-2004, 03:42 PM I'm left out of everything.
Hollow 04-30-2004, 03:43 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Why doesn't that surprise me?
Shut up. No one wants to fight with you.
AtlantaBravesFan29 04-30-2004, 03:59 PM Here we go again!!!:(
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 04:04 PM Originally posted by BravesFan2004
Here we go again!!!:(
Yup
MandieR1980 04-30-2004, 04:05 PM I feel left out alot especially when I see couples happy together and in love and I wonder when it's gonna be my turn. :(
*Pleasant Tomorrow* 04-30-2004, 04:07 PM I've always been left out, I was never good enough for my old friends. Thank God I've met some people who appreciate me more, even if I am odd...
AtlantaBravesFan29 04-30-2004, 04:09 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Yup What are you doing following me around,"Computer Bully"??? I have dealt with people like you before so just stop it right now.
Czas na Zywiec 04-30-2004, 04:13 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Why doesn't that surprise me?
SOLOMON, I'm going to say this as bluntly as I can.
SHUT UP.
You goddamn hypocryt. You criticize everyone here for whatever reasons, yet if you looked in the mirror, you'd see you're no better. Just because your penis isn't ever used doesn't give you the right to lash out at everyone here. It's not our problem you can't get any women.
vienna waits 04-30-2004, 04:16 PM I think everyone has felt left out at some point in their lives. It used to be the friend thing but I don't worry so much when I'm not surrounded by people I'm comfortable with because I love being by myself too. It sometimes bothers me when I see people in love because I don't know what that's like and I feel like life is passing me by.
AtlantaBravesFan29 04-30-2004, 04:18 PM Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
SOLOMON, I'm going to say this as bluntly as I can.
SHUT UP.
You goddamn hypocryt. You criticize everyone here for whatever reasons, yet if you looked in the mirror, you'd see you're no better. Just because your penis isn't ever used doesn't give you the right to lash out at everyone here. It's not our problem you can't get any women. I tried to post to what I thought was a great topic and now it has turned to this and after I specifically said "no arguments".SOLOMON comes on here and rants and raves at everybody and calls them names. These boards and including Random Post Boards(which are only for exclusive people,by the way) have become nothing but a bickering and arguing mess. I will not post under my own name ever again or until SOLOMON gets banned from these boards.
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 04:18 PM Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
SOLOMON, I'm going to say this as bluntly as I can.
SHUT UP.
You goddamn hypocryt. You criticize everyone here for whatever reasons, yet if you looked in the mirror, you'd see you're no better. Just because your penis isn't ever used doesn't give you the right to lash out at everyone here. It's not our problem you can't get any women.
Who me?
AtlantaBravesFan29 04-30-2004, 04:24 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Who me? Yes,you!! You started the arguments flowing again.
Michael [hXc] 04-30-2004, 04:43 PM There has been a troll problem lately and the one causing it is Solomon! Why can't you leave people alone, Solomon? You are insulting people for no reason and harrassing people. Shut up, hypocrite! You are criticizing people for the things you do.
Well, anyway, thats' a sad story about feeling left out. Nearly all of us have suffered that fate to some degree at one time or another. Nearly all of us have been guilty at one time or another of purposely malking someone feel left out. Life is a game, and not a very fun one much of the time. Always hold your head up whether you feel left out or not.
Chad22 04-30-2004, 04:57 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Why doesn't that surprise me?
Because Theres Not Much to be surprised About After seeing your Mother-LOL!!!!!
Michael [hXc] 04-30-2004, 05:10 PM Solomon, that's you
http://science.exeter.edu/jekstrom/Color/Menu/Spider/Spider.jpg
Skywalker 04-30-2004, 05:16 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Solomon, that's you
http://science.exeter.edu/jekstrom/Color/Menu/Spider/Spider.jpg
If I might quote Steve Martin "What the hell is that?"
Michael [hXc] 04-30-2004, 05:20 PM A spider. Sorry Solomon, that wasn't you. THIS is you
http://cas.bellarmine.edu/tietjen/images/Brown-recluseSpider_02-Closeup.JPG
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ 04-30-2004, 05:21 PM I was the friend in school that if my friends had a closer friend.. theyd drop me like a hat. But the moment their other friend was absent.. I was available for them. :rolleyes: Its like I was only good enough until someone better came along. Thank God I met Amanda freshman year.
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 05:24 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
There has been a troll problem lately and the one causing it is Solomon! Why can't you leave people alone, Solomon? You are insulting people for no reason and harrassing people. Shut up, hypocrite! You are criticizing people for the things you do.
Well now you know how it feels when you ask a simple question and get attacked for no reason. If u can't handle it don't dish it out.
Michael [hXc] 04-30-2004, 05:26 PM When did that happen to me? It didn't. Anyway, since you have never looked into the mirror, here's the reflection
http://cas.bellarmine.edu/tietjen/images/Brown-recluseSpider_02-Closeup.JPG
Bang A Gong 04-30-2004, 05:53 PM Yes, I have always been the one to get left out. Picked last for sports, sitting alone at lunch, being bullied and laughed at by all the other kids, sitting at home all alone on Friday nights while my peers are out having fun. It used to really upset me, but I have learned to shrug it off. I like being alone.
Tuesday Weld 04-30-2004, 05:54 PM Yes, I've felt left out, a lot. I think a lot of it was/is my own imagination making me think that.
Michael [hXc] 04-30-2004, 06:05 PM I have sometimes felt left out, but usually I spend time with my friends and we always hang out. When we have to get in groups of 3 at school, it's me, Scott, and Josh.
TVFactFan 04-30-2004, 06:15 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I have sometimes felt left out, but usually I spend time with my friends and we always hang out. When we have to get in groups of 3 at school, it's me, Scott, and Josh.
awwwww, do you really?
Hollow 04-30-2004, 06:19 PM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
awwwww, do you really?
Shut the **** up. You're only trying to start another fight whether you admit it or not. No one wants to fight with you so stop trying to get them to.
Hollow 04-30-2004, 06:24 PM Originally posted by Sourbabie
Yes, I have always been the one to get left out. Picked last for sports, sitting alone at lunch, being bullied and laughed at by all the other kids, sitting at home all alone on Friday nights while my peers are out having fun. It used to really upset me, but I have learned to shrug it off. I like being alone.
I'm the exact same way. I've always been the loser and i've never really known why. I guess i come off as an easy target. In around 5th grade i was dying just to have one friend, but after awhile i realized i liked spending time by myself rather than with someone i'm not really close to. **** everyone.
Rebel Queen 1980 05-01-2004, 01:15 AM Yeah,I know you all feel,In school I felt I like I was being
left out.I had a few close friends but my classmates were
a different story.You didn't belong if you didn't disrespect
authority,cheat,steal,smoke,drink,or start fights etc.
Anyways I always found comfort in other things sometimes
I would wish that some of my friends were alot like of the cool
characters of the 80's sitcoms.I really don't care anybody
anyway there are some people whom I can't stand much
less today because they always saying hi and smiling like
there isn't damn problem in the world!,They make me so mad!:mad: I hate the happy go lucky bunch!:( :crying: :crying:
Czas na Zywiec 05-01-2004, 02:02 AM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Who me?
No, Winston Churchill.
Ewan's My Man 05-01-2004, 02:03 AM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
awwwww, do you really?
you're almost 29! he's 12!!! do you know how disgustingly sad that is?!
moving on...i rarely feel left out, ya know if i find out friends are doing something without me, i do feel a lil upset, but i have a lot of friends in a lot of different groups, girls and guys, so i never really feel left out
Cashodeen 05-01-2004, 02:26 AM Originally posted by TVShow Analyzer
Well now you know how it feels when you ask a simple question and get attacked for no reason. If u can't handle it don't dish it out.
I remember people would comment badly about some of your questions in the past, but I don't remember you ever coming into other threads and sturring up stuff because of it. Why are you doing that now?
webuster 05-01-2004, 04:49 AM Yes, in my secondary school I'd do nothing over the weekends and my 'friends' would come in having done everything- they jsut never asked, I'm also a weak swimmer, so I don't go to swimming pools- but they never asked to go anywhere.
My group of friends have sort of drifted apart. We still stand together outside but few of us have much in common now. I've started hanging around with new people- and I dunno, I think some of my friends are kinda jealous cos the tables have kinda turned.
But, in school, I always feel left out- I like very few people in my class, and I'm too nervous to talk to most of the people I like, and some people in my class I absolutely hate. It's only outside school, or during break and lunch, I don't feel left out.
Yes, I've felt left out before. In school I was the one to be picked last. I hated when we had tp get in groups or partners in class, because I hated being the last one. I got along better with the teachers than the students. I was the one that only did what was right and was considered to mature for the kids that acted immature.
I'm kind of like that too. I hate groups in classes, especially English or Drama, because the loudest people get their crappy ideas used. I actually don't want to know some people in my class because they're too immature. I know like the answers and all to loads of things but never speak up either (though one day I cracked up during a quiz when no one was getting any questions right, so I, who wasn't part of the quiz, just said most of the answers). I mean, because I read quite a bit, like old movies and and indy movies and stuff, I feel out of place in the class because no one else is like this.
I kind of feel bad too now. In class, one of my friends from my last school hangs around me all the time-he has more confidence so he could go talk to others, and let me just talk to whoever. Anyway, I've kind of come to dislike him almost now, one day he was hanging around so much and saying so many ghastly stupid things I was like gritting my teeth and all and someone pointed out I looked like I was gonna kill someone. Now, although I don't particularly like this person- I can't come right out with it and say it, but I feel bad for leaving him out of everything
Michael [hXc] 05-01-2004, 07:09 AM Originally posted by Ewan's My Man
you're almost 29! he's 12!!! do you know how disgustingly sad that is?!
moving on...i rarely feel left out, ya know if i find out friends are doing something without me, i do feel a lil upset, but i have a lot of friends in a lot of different groups, girls and guys, so i never really feel left out
It is disgustingly sad because I am acting 29 and Solomon is acting 12
robyrob 05-01-2004, 07:24 AM Originally posted by webuster
...My group of friends have sort of drifted apart. We still stand together outside but.... i'm sorry, but when i read that i got the image from "King of the Hill" in my head, with Hank Hill and his redneck buddies standing in front of the fence drinkin beer and hangin out :lol:
hawaii five-o 05-01-2004, 12:57 PM Originally posted by Cashodeen
I remember people would comment badly about some of your questions in the past, but I don't remember you ever coming into other threads and sturring up stuff because of it. Why are you doing that now?
Maybe he feels left out.
Michael [hXc] 05-01-2004, 01:00 PM Who feels left out?
Hollow 05-01-2004, 04:10 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I am acting 29
erm
Michael [hXc] 05-01-2004, 04:30 PM well, at least more than Solomon is
webuster 05-01-2004, 04:49 PM i'm sorry, but when i read that i got the image from "King of the Hill" in my head, with Hank Hill and his redneck buddies standing in front of the fence drinkin beer
Lol! That thought is just so funny- Ii'll probably have that stuck in my head when it comes to lunchtime on tuesday at school now!
But really, I think we only stand together more out of a sense of familiarity. In fact, most of them, I don't think I have anything in common with at all anymore- some of them just change their alliances and beliefs constantly- and act so sure they're right, then change their minds. some are the sort that stand around saying 'you're so immature'- I hate people that always do that, it shows they're willing to just let go of something they like just to fit in with their next age group. I've actually found the people I knew longest (and strongest) at the beginning, I've drifted further away from. There'd be maybe two or three out of the 6 that are still ok.
G-Force Glockstar 05-01-2004, 09:28 PM Originally posted by Chad Doody
I Was The Kid in School that always got picked last for Sports, Ate Lunch Alone And Spent Recess sitting on the Swings Talking to himself. :/
No way! You're kidding! That is like me ALL THE TIME. I hate it, don't you? :(
Chad22 05-02-2004, 12:46 AM Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
No way! You're kidding! That is like me ALL THE TIME. I hate it, don't you? :(
I Got used to it. :/
dawsongirl 05-02-2004, 03:03 AM Originally posted by MandieR1980
especially when I see couples happy together and in love and I wonder when it's gonna be my turn. :(
Ditto. I swear there is no Mr. Right out there.
I've been left out of a lot of things...school, here, social gatherings...basically I either scare people, bore them, or I'm just a loser.
dawsongirl 05-02-2004, 03:08 AM Originally posted by Jen1989
I don't drink, I don't party ,I don't smoke.
Same here. I was never popular in college, yet I liked it more than HS anyway. But I still don't drink and party...so I guess I better meet a guy at the library...or run into him on the freeway. :rolleyes:
dandelion wine 05-02-2004, 03:14 AM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Ditto. I swear there is no Mr. Right out there.
I've been left out of a lot of things...school, here, social gatherings...basically I either scare people, bore them, or I'm just a loser.
For what it's worth, I don't think you're a loser. If people can't appreciate you for the person you are, then to hell with them. That goes for Chad and a number of other people who've already posted in here.
dawsongirl 05-02-2004, 03:19 AM Originally posted by little insomniac
For what it's worth, I don't think you're a loser. If people can't appreciate you for the person you are, then to hell with them. That goes for Chad and a number of other people who've already posted in here.
Thanks. :)
But maybe I come across better online. Well, I know I do. More time to think about what I'm going to say. :lol:
webuster 05-02-2004, 08:31 AM .basically I either scare people, bore them, or I'm just a loser.
I'm like that with MOST people- but not all. I hate sports in school anyway, but it's still bad being picked last. I walk around the pitch in a trance during games- usually the PE teacher'd give you hell for this- but I think most people know not to approach me when in my trance-like state of mind- it's kind of like talking to Hannibal Lecter in the gym in Red Dragon!
Same here. I was never popular in college, yet I liked it more than HS anyway. But I still don't drink and party...so I guess I better meet a guy at the library...or run into him on the freeway.
I think sometimes there's no right girl out there- but, I don't want to go out with some run of the mill person, and I do meet some I like- but for some reason I suspect I'll meet people in strange ways for the rest of my life.
dandelion wine 05-02-2004, 11:32 PM Originally posted by dawsongirl
Thanks. :)
But maybe I come across better online. Well, I know I do. More time to think about what I'm going to say. :lol:
You're welcome, Cathy. :)
It's a lot easier here, it seems. Least, like you said, there's more time to think about what you want to say - and then there's the edit button, which has helped me a few times. :lol:
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