First let me start by saying the VERY last thing I want to do on this board is start an argument. I just want to warn people about someone here at the boards, that I have been talking to for some time. Her sn is planetstella. I just want to say, that at first I thought she was a really nice girl and a potentially good friend. But once I started talking to her for awhile, I became aware that she is a liar, makes up stories, and has a sick way of thinking in regards to certain things. (I.E. jokes about family members that are of a crude nature and are inappropriate. There is one line that you just don't cross, and that's talking about family, in a bad or degrading way.) This is all I want to say. Again, I don't want to start an argument, just post a warning. So to anyone who interacts with her, just please remember these words. And chat with her at your own risk. Thanks for listening. :-D

I agree with that, I've had trouble with her too, mainly because she's been telling around that I was ignoring her, which is not true! I did have, and still have, comp trouble, but I would never ignore somebody purposely! But all of you here who are my friends know I ain't a bitch... usually ;) *hugs and love to all my friends!*

listen, people, u may say that u don't wanna start a fight, but then don't go on and make personal attacks on people!!!! how dare u come on here and embaress her like that. that is immature and cruel.just because for some bizarre reason i cannot see, doesn't mean u can come on here and make every one else that doesn't know her personally think she is a bad person!!!! if u r so worried about it, then just pm certain people. please don't embaress people by doing immature crazy stunts like this shyt

I think we should try and keep this a good board. PMing people is fine but posting it on here was a little extreme. I am not fighting with any of you. I think embarassing Rasa like that was mean. You are all nice people on this board. We don't want to start a fight with anyone. Let's keep it nice.:)

Kelly

Originally posted by monkeygirl
listen, people, u may say that u don't wanna start a fight, but then don't go on and make personal attacks on people!!!! how dare u come on here and embaress her like that. that is immature and cruel.just because for some bizarre reason i cannot see, doesn't mean u can come on here and make every one else that doesn't know her personally think she is a bad person!!!! if u r so worried about it, then just pm certain people. please don't embaress people by doing immature crazy stunts like this shyt

You misunderstood Angela's intention I think. All she did was post a warning, she didn't say Rasa is a bad person, she just talked about her expieriences with her, and I agreed to the warning because I know for a fact she's been telling around that I was ignoring her and that is pretty embarrassing for me to be honest, because I'd never do that. So I said that here, so everybody else who she might have told that knows it isn't true. And that isn't immature at all, immature would be to talk behind her back, in my opinion. But I'm sure that neither angeie nor I meant to insult her. Just clearifying some things, no more than that.

On the bright side though, I have news about my fics, I managed to rescue them all from that damn laptop, but that darn thing still keeps on dying on me and I have other stuff there that I gotta try to save, so as soon as I'm done with all of that I'll start posting again. :)

I agree with Jelly, I mean I dont know Rasa but maybe if you guys have a problem with her..IM her or email her and talk to her or something or start your own chat room. But we should all get along on boards. x0x0Jessie:)

Originally posted by CD DeLorenzo
I know for a fact she's been telling around that I was ignoring her and that is pretty embarrassing for me to be honest, because I'd never do that.

I have never ever told people that you WERE ignoring me. I told that you ignored me ONCE. And those are two different things. And just because i IMed u and you never IMed me back. Just wanted to point that out.

Originally posted by MinnIeMcKeOn
I agree with Jelly, I mean I dont know Rasa but maybe if you guys have a problem with her..IM her or email her and talk to her or something or start your own chat room. But we should all get along on boards. x0x0Jessie:)

again, you misunderstood us... we already talked to her personally, but I won't get into that here because, well it was personal, and if I would, it would really be embarrassing. Everybody has the right to their opinons, but also, everybody has the right to straighten things up when there are lies being told. And that was the only reason why I said what I said. I never ignored Rasa or anybody else, and I'm really the last person who would start a fight. I'm a peaceful person and usually get along with everybody, but I don't take crap from anyone.

Originally posted by planet_stella
I have never ever told people that you WERE ignoring me. I told that you ignored me ONCE. And those are two different things. And just because i IMed u and you never IMed me back. Just wanted to point that out.

see, that's what I mean, that isn't true, I never ignored you, and Angie told me that you told her.... so don't say you haven't told it around

Originally posted by CD DeLorenzo
see, that's what I mean, that isn't true, I never ignored you, and Angie told me that you told her.... so don't say you haven't told it around

I didn't say I didn't tell that around( and i told that to only ONE person by the way), but i never told around that you WERE ignoring me, I told that you ignored me ONCE! And ,as I said before, these are two different things.

I understand taht you all want to try to inform everyone of what is going on. I really do. And I don't personally or unpersonally know that individual person....however, I also know what it is like for people to think waht they do of my or my friends. Like I said, I don't know her personally or otherwise. So you all say that you don't want to argue with anyone, and then what do you all do? Argue. I am probably older than you all which is why I am posting to make you all stop. I have been a part of this board for a while now. I know JinnyGirl88 and I know Jessie and Loren....but some people I don't know. And that is fine. But why do you all feel the need to tlak about people even if you are just trying to "inform" them? How would you like people to do that to you? How would you feel? Well I am not going to waste more time yelling at all of you who are involved in this. Like I said I don't know this person Rasa is it? But you should all be assamed! Rasa, don't worry, even if you don't think that you haev people on your side, you do!All the rest of you, need to grow up!

Okay pause the arguing for a moment and scroll up peoples. DiD anYone NotiCe i wroTe "I agree with Jelly" instead of Kelly? LOL okay just wanted to point that out okay byex0x0Jessie

Trust me I noticed!!! Hehe I agree with Babyexstead. I don't think this is the place to be arguing. I am friends with everyone here and this is just putting everyone in a weird position. Let's try and settle this:)

Oh it's settled. This is the last post I will make on the subject. My only intent was to warn people about her before they learned the hard way. My intent was NOT to start a fight, or embarass her or act immature. But if that's what you think then I'm sorry. You'll see for yourself then. :)

Oh and one more thing I forgot to mention. Honestly?????? I wouldn't mind if someone posted that about me. I really wouldn't. They could always im me and find out wheter it's true or not for themselves! :)

Originally posted by babyexstead
I understand taht you all want to try to inform everyone of what is going on. I really do. And I don't personally or unpersonally know that individual person....however, I also know what it is like for people to think waht they do of my or my friends. Like I said, I don't know her personally or otherwise. So you all say that you don't want to argue with anyone, and then what do you all do? Argue. I am probably older than you all which is why I am posting to make you all stop. I have been a part of this board for a while now. I know JinnyGirl88 and I know Jessie and Loren....but some people I don't know. And that is fine. But why do you all feel the need to tlak about people even if you are just trying to "inform" them? How would you like people to do that to you? How would you feel? Well I am not going to waste more time yelling at all of you who are involved in this. Like I said I don't know this person Rasa is it? But you should all be assamed! Rasa, don't worry, even if you don't think that you haev people on your side, you do!All the rest of you, need to grow up!

How would you feel if somebody is out there telling lies about you, wouldn't you want your friends and everybody else to know the truth? Like I said before that was the only reason for the earlier posts. But that keeps on getting ignored here. Stop acting like we're bashing her, we never called her names or anything. And I think we've all been through **** here already, so we all know how it feels like. But sometimes it's important in life to fall so you can get up again and learn from your mistakes. Furthermore this isn't about who you know here and who you don't know. As for how I'd feel, mad at first but in the long run I'd realize that someone out there tried to help me realize I was on the wrong track and realized I just needed a little kick to get on the right track again. I seriously wish somebody had done that for me when I was younger, but no one ever did and I've been through a lot of **** because I was all alone. And that turned me into a fighter and made me realize I have to stuck up for myself because no one else will. And part of that is not to take crap from anybody. I think if somebody had helped me back then, I wouldn't be as bitter and pessimistic about myself as I am today.
However, everybody deserves a second chance. If only that person would at least admit the mistakes made and apologize. That is the first step. Everybody makes mistakes, but you have to learn to admit you were wrong and not keep on insisting you never did something even though there's proof you did.
I am not ashamed at all for sticking up for myself and my friends.
And how old are you?

I am 17....how old are you immature one? I think that all this nonsense is ****! Yeah I said ****. Not ****, ****! You are obviously not old enough to be able to talk like this. IF you have anymore problems you can be free to email me at babycwbrat@yahoo.com. Otherwise, I am done dissucssing this with all the immature asses that are fighting with someone older then they are....and if by any chance you are older then me....act your age not your shoe size!

Originally posted by babyexstead
I am 17....how old are you immature one? I think that all this nonsense is ****! Yeah I said ****. Not ****, ****! You are obviously not old enough to be able to talk like this. IF you have anymore problems you can be free to email me at babycwbrat@yahoo.com. Otherwise, I am done dissucssing this with all the immature asses that are fighting with someone older then they are....and if by any chance you are older then me....act your age not your shoe size!

Yes, it would be nice if people on this board would act their age. Hmmm I am 26. Clearly older then you, but I agree with Cat.(Witch btw she is older then you. But once again that is soemthing she can tell you her own age if she wants to.) Now I don't know Rasa or whatever her name is so I can't tell you anything about her, but the warning was a good idea. Haven't U guys heard of the person with the IM name of Monkeyman. Look quite truthfully you never know who you are talking to, and by giving them personal info you are taking a risk, but that is of your choise. And if, you were mature you would understand that fights happen it's a way of life. Now there are ways to make those fight immature, but I don't see how what anyone has said was immature. Is a matter of fact neither Angela or Cat have been immature. Do any of you know becides Cat, Angela, and Rasa know what happend in an im between the three of them? If, not then as I you should have nothing to say. What if, they had already asked her to stop lieing? That they realized that she was younge, but they were trying to help her. I know Cat, and I know she would try to help people, but once again this isn't about who you know, and don't know. I have tallked with Angela once, and she seemed really nice, and from all of her posts she seems very nice. I don't think her intshions were to hurt anyone, but to help. And I know Kelly too. And as far as kelly goes she's very sweet, but if she rembers we had a huge chat room one day, and all of use talked to her. But once again that's between her, and us. We weren't trying to hurt her we were trying to help her. Maybe we did both, and maybe we made it worse, but ya know it was worth a try. And I can see that if, trying to help someone by having a chat with them by explaining what is wrong, and that doesn't work then maybe giving a warning about them is the best thing they can do. And you know something else when this was posted it said "" Just a Warning, but if you don't want to pay it any attention you don't have to."" key word there being you don't have to pay any attention to it.

Exactly! As for my age, I'll be 23 in a few more days, and you are actually younger than most people here, at least younger than those I know, including Angie.
And I think you're the one to act immature here, first of all, this isn't even your problem, so why get involved? I don't know you, I don't have any problems with you, so I won't email you. Because thankfully I am far from immature and don't fight without reason, and this just isn't worth to start a fight with someone I don't even know and who doesn't have the slightest clue as to what this is all about. So you stop acting like you know it all. You obvioulsy don't have the experiences to even get into this, so stay out of it!
As for all the ****s, the only thing I said that got bleeped out is sh_it, I have no idea what you were trying to say with this: "I think that all this nonsense is ****! Yeah I said ****. Not ****, ****! You are obviously not old enough to be able to talk like this"
but whatever, it obviously doesn't have anything to do with the issue here, so it doesn't matter.
It's just like Michelle said, we were just trying to help. And that's all I have to say.

Ok everyone! Hold on for a moment. This all thing is getting crazy in here. No offence to anyone who doesn't know me and replied, but you REALLY don't know me and dn't understand what this is about, and I don't really think you have anything to say ( no offence to anyone again). And about that hurt part, no one hurt me, because I think that everyone has the right to think about me whatever they want, whether it's true or not. But I'm not gonna change myself just because there are people who don't like me. If everyone didn't like me, then I'd be concerned about that and think that I should change something about me, but now there are my friends who do like me with all my good and bad features and know that I can't be a perfect person. So if there's someone that doesn't like me, it's not my problem, because I can't be a perfect friend to everyone.

I just wanted to say I am sorry to kelly I didn't mean to bring your name into this. Kelly has nothing to do with any of this. I was just trying to make a point witch was we chatted with her in a chat room discussed our problems with her, and we all moved on. WE each said we were sorry, and I think all of us learned a lil form that chat. But once again I say I am sorry to kelly for anyone missunderstanding what I said.

Props to IRISHROSEKATE. You spoke your mind no matter what anyone thought. Although you agreed with me, I would still be approving of you and your thoughts even if you didn't. You mentioned how in whatever chat you're talking about, that you apologized for what you thought was wrong. That goes to show that you acknowledge that no one is perfect. And lots of people don't do that. So props to you. Stick to your guns. You seem very level headed. Also, the person that said to email them to talk more, isn't that the same person that was also saying stop acting immature? Well by emailing them wouldn't that be an immature act? Hmmm I sense a hypocrite. And I think IRISHROSEKATE sensed it too. So she decided not to email back. Oh and anyone who's wondering I'm 21. hehe And very mature. :-D Once again,

PROPS TO KATE!


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Originally posted by ANYSNTHATWORKS
Props to IRISHROSEKATE. You spoke your mind no matter what anyone thought. Although you agreed with me, I would still be approving of you and your thoughts even if you didn't. You mentioned how in whatever chat you're talking about, that you apologized for what you thought was wrong. That goes to show that you acknowledge that no one is perfect. And lots of people don't do that. So props to you. Stick to your guns. You seem very level headed. Also, the person that said to email them to talk more, isn't that the same person that was also saying stop acting immature? Well by emailing them wouldn't that be an immature act? Hmmm I sense a hypocrite. And I think IRISHROSEKATE sensed it too. So she decided not to email back. Oh and anyone who's wondering I'm 21. hehe And very mature. :-D Once again,

PROPS TO KATE!


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Aww that was so sweet of you thanks! And you:yourock: as well. And I complenty agree with what you said.

On another note all three of ya pointed out that no one is perfect. I know what it's like being in all three posutions sp. None is an easy spot, and either you can grow and learn from it or stay the same.

Peace, Love, and Joy

OK, can everyone just hear me out for a minute. Listen, I was really pissed off the other day when I posted. I just know what it is like to get made fun of. It been done to me my whole life. I was just saying that (how would you like it) to prove a point. It's like saying, put yourself in their shoes, and it was just trying to prove a point. I didn't mean anything by it. That's why I said that people should grow up. Because I have meet soooo many immature people in my life, it just makes me want to scream. I swear it wasn't meant to offend anyone. I really didn't mean it that way. All I meant was, just try being them for one day. How do you know that you don't push that someone too far? Maybe they don't like themselves so as it is, and that just adds to it? What if that person just wanted to be perfect for everyone? Alot of people want this. I really didn't mean to cause more trouble.
And about the whole age thing....someone asked me how old I was, and I just told them....age doesn't mean anything. Trust me, my best friend is like 18 and she is sooooo immature, but then I know someone who is in 9th grade, and yuo would think that she was older then she really was. I didn't mean anything by it. I will admit, I'm not perfect. Everyone who knows me that, can tell you that. I am never perfect. But I have one question, is anyone? Everyone thinks that they are better then everyone else. Is that right? Should we put people down? I just wanted to stick up for someone, cuz noone sticks up for me. I know what it's liek to have to be made fun of, and no one wants to stick up for you. It happens everyday in a little place called High School. People can be such jerks. So like I said, I only meant it to stick up for someone like I would want them to do for me. I didn't mean to cause anything.
The only reason that I said about emailing me was because I don't think that the boards are the best place to fight or have arguements.
I hope you all forgive me for only doing something that I would want people in return to do for me. Just try.
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of course no one is perfect, we all know that, but accepting someone the way he or she is, is a different thing from getting mad because someone is telling lies about you. Like I said before, I know it too, how it is when someone makes fun of you and you're all alone, but read the whole thing again, in no way, we were making fun of her. We didn't call her ugly, or anything like that. So don't turn it into that. I'm pretty sure if you had been the one, lies were told about, you would have gotten mad too.
And as for the highschool thing, screw them. Stick up for yourself, stop giving a damn about what they say. Just ignore them and do your own thing no matter what they say or do. That shows strength and maturity.

You know I agree with you...but it's easier for you. You're not in HS anymore. You don't know what the kids are like anymore. I do know what its like to be told lies about. Trust me. I'm in 11th grade, and this really awesome kid from our school died, and everyone was going around saying that I said that he deserved it, when all I was really doing was repeating some guy. So I know what it's like to have lies told about you.
I know waht you are saying. I know you didn't call her ugly or anything. But in a way, it's still all considered being made fun of, you know? It's the whole talking behind someone's back. I just didn't think taht it was right. But that is my opinion. I shouldn't have voiced it out in the first place. I hope that everyone that read my posts, that I didn't mean it the way it sounded. I'm really sorry.

Originally posted by babyexstead
You know I agree with you...but it's easier for you. You're not in HS anymore. You don't know what the kids are like anymore. I do know what its like to be told lies about. Trust me. I'm in 11th grade, and this really awesome kid from our school died, and everyone was going around saying that I said that he deserved it, when all I was really doing was repeating some guy. So I know what it's like to have lies told about you.
I know waht you are saying. I know you didn't call her ugly or anything. But in a way, it's still all considered being made fun of, you know? It's the whole talking behind someone's back. I just didn't think taht it was right. But that is my opinion. I shouldn't have voiced it out in the first place. I hope that everyone that read my posts, that I didn't mean it the way it sounded. I'm really sorry.

it's not that long ago, that I'm out of school, so I still remember what it is, and unfortunately during all my schoolyears so much sh-it happened to me that I'll never forget.
This was obviously open and right in front of her and not behind her back though. Which is another reason to do it here, we didn't IM all or friends and told them behind her back about it. This was an open confrontation, and it really can't classify as making fun of because no one here laughed. We all were hurt here after all.
I'm glad though that you decided to stop fighting a fight that wasn't yours to begin with.

PS: Did ya notice? I did start acting my shoe size... cuz that's 40... :lol:

Awww Yaaaaaaaay I am so glad all of ay figured it out!


Also I think most people know what it's like to have people picking on them. Truely I do. It may not be the same as say someone that they make fun of all the time, but all it has to be said is once, and someone can be scared for life. I understand how rude kids can be. For example: I have a learning disabilty, and every one in school thought that those kids that it meant they were stupid, but we weren't, we just have a different way of learning then everyone else. Is a matter of fact I think I was more intelgent then most the people in that school, but it took a lot of time for me to figure that out on my own. I still to this day have a hard time spelling, Does that mean that I am stupid? I don't think so. As a teenager I was sooooo scared of everything. Wither if, it was just arugements or fights, I couldn't handle it. Kids in our class rooms when the teasher was out of the room used to turn off the lights, and though things, and becasue of my last name I was always in the front of the room. I was sooo afaid of someone picking up a deck and throughing it at me. In study hall this one year was a girl who didn't like me, and that whole week she had gone around sticking tacks on people's chairs...So I was trying to be careful when ever I sat down LOL, but she still go me. I sat down on that tack and was like Owwww! I wanted to scream it out, but I knew that would only make her happy cause I was in pain so I sat there, and stood up slowly and I don't remember what I did with the tact. Lets see there was this girl my 10 grade year who would go around kicking white guys, and this was in the class room, just because he they were white. there are a lot of other story's that i could tell, but I want to talk about one more thing.

I wish that I could sit here, and tell you that once you get out of highschool that things well get better. That the grown ups acted like grown ups. I went for my first job when I was 19 I was sooooooooo Nieave sp. I truly thought well this is gonna be better then high school, but in some ways it was worse, because I trusted these people with some of my secreats, and I found out real fast that they weren't any different then people in HS they were just as bad. They talked behind people's back that I was friends with, Hell they were friends with them as well, but anyway, I would tell them that I didn't like when they talked about someone behind there back, but they just kept doing that. So finely I just stopped hanging around with them. Sure there are some people that are more grwon up, and that helps, but you will always have your Clicks. And those people will always think that they are better then you. Now in the past year of have had some health problems, and I was off work for a while, but then I went back, and I was starting in a deparment. I thought okay this is a new start you can do this. Well six mounths later there was this women who couldn't stand me. She would yell at me all the time, and put me down, and stuff. Witch if, you know me you know that just makes me make more mistaks. Well anyway a lot of stuff happend, and they were trying to fire me. But I hadn't done anythating wrong that everybody else had done. they were just targeting me. We have a Union though, and even though I have put in my two weeks I am fileing against the company that I was working for. I should win too, becasue they really don't have anything on me. And I could have stayed there, but for concern for my own health I decided that it would be better if, I didn't go there again. Anyway this is just so that no one walks into something full forse thinking that it's gonna be soooooooo different, and it's not.

Peace, Love, and Joy

Man,How dumb can people get.I mean the internet is place
to spill out your personal info!,There are crooks out there.
That's why I make-up some stuff when I pm people on here.
not all the time though.If you want to talk your friends or family
members email them or call them instead.