View Full Version : How long do YOU wait?


peter may
03-29-2004, 01:50 PM
ok so this cute girl gave me her phone number last night, and said to call her, so just wondering what do you think is the appropraite length of time to wait till I should call her, i usually wait about 2 days, i am interested... ;)
What about u guys?:)

Chocoholic
03-29-2004, 02:27 PM
It doesn't matter as long as you CALL HER!!! :D

Penny Lane
03-29-2004, 02:31 PM
Don't wait too long. She is probably waiting for your call if she gave you her number.
Don't torture the poor girl!:(

Anyway, good luck Peter! Hope it works out!:D

peter may
03-29-2004, 03:08 PM
yeah i will call her as she was hot, but i dont want to seem too eager as it can be misconstrued as being too keen:)

Cashodeen
03-29-2004, 04:10 PM
Okay, Peter, this is going to sound crazy, but I say wait 5-7 days to call.

~*Hannah_Lee*~
03-29-2004, 04:16 PM
Originally posted by Penny Lane
Don't wait too long. She is probably waiting for your call if she gave you her number.
Don't torture the poor girl!:(

Anyway, good luck Peter! Hope it works out!:D
Exactly. She wouldn't have given you the number if she didn't want to call. I wouldn't wait more than 2 days, she'll think you aren't interested.

Cashodeen
03-29-2004, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~
Exactly. She wouldn't have given you the number if she didn't want to call. I wouldn't wait more than 2 days, she'll think you aren't interested.

I knew everyone would think my advice (which is actually Doc. Love--a relationship genius's advice) would be bad. But the fact that someone would eventually call (and a few more days isn't that much more), means they are interested. But in waitng almost a week it absolutely avoids someone looking too eager.

Not to mention it tests the girl. If any girl were to say "Oh, you waited a week and that's too long, so now I'm not interested," then that means they weren't that interested to begin with.

TJL
03-29-2004, 04:53 PM
It's best not to appear too eager. Two or three days is okay, unless you told her you'd call her the next day.

Of course asking me for advice on women is like asking Michael Jackson for tips on parenting, so do whatever the Hell you want.

;)

ANYSNTHATWORKS
03-29-2004, 04:56 PM
coming from a girl who never has the guts to give any guy her number unless they ask for it, IF I gave you my number though, I would understand if you waited two days, but no longer then that.

~*Hannah_Lee*~
03-29-2004, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by ANYSNTHATWORKS
coming from a girl who never has the guts to give any guy her number unless they ask for it, IF I gave you my number though, I would understand if you waited two days, but no longer then that.
Wow, that siggy is long! :eek:

spunkygirl
03-29-2004, 05:46 PM
Originally posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~
Wow, that siggy is long! :eek:

:lol: I thought the same thing when I saw it :)

Penny Lane
03-29-2004, 08:13 PM
In the words of The Beatles..................


Any time at all
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there...........................:music:

Words to live by;) :D

Cashodeen
03-29-2004, 09:28 PM
Originally posted by Penny Lane
In the words of The Beatles..................

Any time at all
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there...........................:music:

Words to live by;) :D
Penny Lane has attached this image:
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/attachment.php?s=&postid=1594141


After reading that, I recant what I said. :D :thumbsup:

Brent88
03-29-2004, 09:29 PM
Originally posted by TJL
It's best not to appear too eager. Two or three days is okay, unless you told her you'd call her the next day.

Of course asking me for advice on women is like asking Michael Jackson for tips on parenting, so do whatever the Hell you want.

;)

:rofl:!!!!! That was too funny.

I don't know how to answer the question... I haven't started dating yet. :o

dawsongirl
03-29-2004, 10:49 PM
No idea. I've never given my number to any guy.

~*Hannah_Lee*~
03-29-2004, 11:48 PM
Originally posted by dawsongirl
No idea. I've never given my number to any guy.
Me neither, I'm just going by what I think I'd want them to do.

GabbyFang
03-29-2004, 11:57 PM
Sometimes, I'll give-out my number and the person calls within 2-5 days. So, ya, I'd say within 2-5 days.

robyrob
03-30-2004, 08:27 AM
well, i would say its better to wait - its been a long time since i've gotten a number, but i know from personal experience that 15 minutes is DEFINATELY too short.

peter may
03-30-2004, 02:40 PM
well heres an update,

the first date is Thursday nite ;)

see what happens!

Kazza
03-30-2004, 04:00 PM
Originally posted by peter may
well heres an update,

the first date is Thursday nite ;)

see what happens!

Yipee! Good for ya :happy face:

Cashodeen
03-30-2004, 05:53 PM
Originally posted by peter may

well heres an update,

the first date is Thursday nite ;)

see what happens!

You didn't waste anytime. ;)

That's awesome. Hope you have fun!

ANYSNTHATWORKS
04-04-2004, 07:08 PM
Sorry I'll change my siggy just as soon as I have a chance. I realize it is long. Sorry again!

Hollow
04-04-2004, 08:00 PM
if someone gave me their number, i would never call them. hahahahaha. bitch. unless it was the greatness that is lars. actually i found his cell number on the metallica board even though its probably not his but i saved it just in case.