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JT
04-05-2002, 09:58 AM
Would you?I have a lot of friends who make a big deal if they see a black man and white woman (or visa versa)!!!!I think that if you find someone you love you tell that person how you feel (unless your shy!) no matter what color they are!!!As you all know, I am black.But when it comes to love (or anything else) I don't care what color you are.I mean I have crushes on Charlie's Angels!!!!!!!!!(1977-79 cast only!!).I like both black women in TV and white women.Hey as long as they are girls!!!But if you are a man who likes men there's nothing wrong with that either!!!!!!!
All I'm trying to say is if you love someone a whole bunch it shouldn't matter at all what color they are.I have white friends and black friends.And we all hate our reading teacher but that's something else.How do you feel about that?

JethroSimpson
04-05-2002, 10:39 AM
I don't think colour is important when it comes to love, I know it wouldn't make any difference to me because I judge someone on what they're like as a person.

I've got black friends and I would have no problem dating anyone because of colour no matter what anybody said to me.

vienna waits
04-05-2002, 10:44 AM
Color doesnt matter at all to me... I just dont think I'd ever be with someone african american from around here because there is probably a total of about 5 african americans in my school.

XoVanillaRain90oX
04-05-2002, 10:48 AM
i have nothing against blacks and whites..chinese and spanish..if you like eachother and r in love is all that matters! my cousin's friend is white and married a black man..whats the big deal!? its cool in my book.

FOLrocks1
04-05-2002, 11:45 AM
i have no problem with that! I went out with a few blck girls before!

Plata
04-05-2002, 11:47 AM
Originally posted by JethroSimpson
I don't think colour is important when it comes to love, I know it wouldn't make any difference to me because I judge someone on what they're like as a person.

I agree. I focus more on a persons' personality than what they look like. And, I don't see why some people in the world are racist sometimes towards blacks, at least I know that's what it was like about 50 to 60 years ago, because I don't know about anyone else, but I have never been bugged by a black person in my life. The only race that ever bothered me were white people in my childhood. I don't think the color of a person really matters as long as the person is nice towards other people. I would for sure date a person from another race if they were kind and funny. Those are the only two qualities that matter to me. I wouldn't care what color they were. In fact, it probably wouldn't even cross my mind.

:) :p :cool: :happyface :wave:

Czas na Zywiec
04-05-2002, 11:52 AM
Originally posted by tootieismyfav
Color doesnt matter at all to me... I just dont think I'd ever be with someone african american from around here because there is probably a total of about 5 african americans in my school.

Same w/ me, but like you said, there's only about 3 African-Americans in my school, and I don't even know them because I just transfered here about a year ago, so the chances for me right now would be slim.

Chocoholic
04-05-2002, 01:46 PM
Skin color means nothing to me. I look at a persons' personality.

MyStErIoUs ChIck
04-05-2002, 01:51 PM
Race means nothing. It's what's on the inside that counts.

Kay Scarpetta
04-05-2002, 02:51 PM
To me, it doesn't matter. If I love someone, I don't care if they are green. The chance could possibly be high for me, because there are about a total of 5 white kids in my school. But still, I have no problem what-so-ever

Max Whittaker
04-05-2002, 04:58 PM
I will date anyone I like personally. We have to be best friends, but we don't have to be the same race.

-*Forever*-
04-05-2002, 05:22 PM
Do you really think I give a crap??? LoL Well, I know some perfectly perfect interracial couples *coughSuzanneandAnthonycough* anyhoo.......
I don't care at all. But all the black guys in my school are mean.

*Marilyn Monroe*
04-05-2002, 05:55 PM
"I don't think it's wrong, but I wouldn't do it! I think that blacks should stick with blacks and whites with whites!" That's what my grandma said, so i can't tell her that i have a crush on someone who's *gasp* black!! Oh god, that would be like sinning in her eyes! I dont have a problem with it cuz i've been in interracial relationships before. There are always gonna be the people who think that interracial dating is bad, but i dont!

°Bubbly Blonde°
04-05-2002, 08:25 PM
Of course there is nothing wrong with it...people are people, and hotties come in every race/color! Can ANYONE (girls/gay guys) deny the total hottness of: Denzel Washington, Craig Davis, etc? NO! Can any of you guys deny the hottness of Halle Berry, or Janet Jackson, or Beyonce Knowles? NO! If you are hot, (and have a good personality of course) than you are in, in my book! lol

DarleneIllyria
04-05-2002, 09:22 PM
I would date outside my race. I don't care what color a person's skin is either. Personality is the only factor I look for. If you have a great personality than chances are I will go out with you. If you have an attitude problem, then chances are I will avoid you entirely. At my school, I have one certain guy in my mind. He thinks he is God's gift to women, and his head is so big its a complete mystery how he fits in the door. I can't stand when guys act like that.

In closing if the guy is modest and has a good personality then I don't care if he is blue with green stripes. I would go out with him anyway.

Chocoholic
04-05-2002, 09:34 PM
Originally posted by NancyMcKeon1987
"I don't think it's wrong, but I wouldn't do it! I think that blacks should stick with blacks and whites with whites!" That's what my grandma said,

Are we cousins or something? ;) My grandma always says the same thing.

ILuvJoandBlair
04-05-2002, 10:28 PM
I couldn't care less about what race you are, if I like you, I like you. It's all about your personality.

InspectorExstead
04-05-2002, 10:38 PM
color means nothing when it comes to love. if u seriously love someone that should be enough...and the color of their race or religion should not be something that gets in the way.

Blair85
04-05-2002, 10:55 PM
I see absolutely nothing wrong w/ it. People are people & I wish more people out in the world would realize that. I don't even care if someone is orange w/ 3 feet long buck teeth, they are still a person who should be treated w/ respect!!!! I would date a person of another race, but there's not much of a variety of I guess 'different' people around here. There is only one black student at my school and he is so nice, but I bet it has to be hard not having anyone a little bit similar looking to you. Anyway, I like all people! I can't wait to get out in the world to meet more peoples! :wave:

Swimfan85
04-05-2002, 10:57 PM
color doesnt matter....the only thing thats counts is that we like each other for ourselves and not materialisticlly

JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo
04-05-2002, 11:11 PM
I don't have a problem with me...but i'm like the only one in my family. Like someone earlier said, my entire family is "i'm not against, but i wouldn't do it attitude". I'm white, and i've been on dates w/ male friends who weren't. I've never understood what's wrong w/ it... theres no such things as kooties.

ISmellFine
04-05-2002, 11:24 PM
I don't have a problem with other people doing that, but I, myself wouldn't.

Hollow
04-05-2002, 11:34 PM
No it feels a lil weird to me

JDS84
04-06-2002, 08:31 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it either. But I wouldn't do it either.

DJM77
04-06-2002, 09:57 PM
I wouldn't have a problem dating a girl of a different race. Love is colorblind.

X4Wrapsumden4X
04-06-2002, 10:01 PM
I am gonna marry a black person cause they are so much hotter than white people I would **** nelly right now....but but my dad said the day I come home with a black person I would never see him again lol

JoPol_wannabe
04-06-2002, 10:20 PM
It doesn't matter to me what color of guy I date just as long as he is sweet, sensitive,caring, we have allot of the same interests, he is cute and a Christian. I don't think it would matter to my parents if I dated a black person just as long as we love each other and he treats me right.

Brian
04-15-2003, 11:21 PM
Originally posted by JT
As you all know, I am black.


I didn't know you are black. Anyways, I'm with the other posters in this thread. As long as the person has a good personality, is nice, and is understanding, then that would be all that matters.

Crimson and Clover
04-15-2003, 11:33 PM
Originally posted by ILuvJoandBlair
I couldn't care less about what race you are, if I like you, I like you. It's all about your personality.

same here as long as you are nice ill date anyone from any race. i am dating a hispanic now.

AnaheimPMWitch
04-15-2003, 11:44 PM
I dont think it really Matters as long as I love the guy Race doesnt matter nor does age (I mean HECK i'm all in love with a 20 year old and i'm 30) or anything else as long as long as they have the values i'd want them to have

Czas na Zywiec
04-15-2003, 11:47 PM
I don't mind what race you date, as long as you're happy, but I think I'll stick with the human race. ;) After all, there is only one human race.

GrapeJelly
04-15-2003, 11:48 PM
My husband is black and I'm not. We have a wonderful marriage and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. I consider myself very lucky that we were both open to the prospect of an inter-racial relationship, or I would have missed out on the best thing to ever happen to me. :)

#1_Nancy_McKeon
04-15-2003, 11:53 PM
I'm not against inter racial relationships either. My mom has said she wouldn't do it either until recently because she said when she was growing up mix racial children didn't really belong at school. They were in a league of their own, but now society is different, and it's fine now. My mom was going to adopt a inter-racial child (black/white) but his mother decided she wanted him.

I'm white and my boyfriend is Indian. I find nothing wrong with it. I love him, and that's all that matters. I'd do anything for him. (Within reason of course. LOL ;) )

Hollow
04-16-2003, 12:14 AM
no it wouldnt feel comfortable

MandieR1980
04-16-2003, 01:20 AM
Yes I would infact I have feelings for a black guy right now. The only time I wouldn't date a black person is if he dresses like a homie (or talks like one) you know what I mean pants barely on their asses, I don't mean to offend anyone by saying that but I like a guy who dresses classy I'm not saying all black men dress like that because I know a few who don't and even some white guys dress like that.

C Doody
04-16-2003, 01:27 AM
If i liked them yes. Just because someones a different color than you does that mean their a different kind of person? No.

Its like M&Ms. They all look different on the outside, Yet look the same on the inside.

Sterling Holobyte
04-16-2003, 01:43 AM
Doesn't bother me. In fact, I married a part-Native American/part-Japanese girl. How's that for a different race?!

angel676
04-16-2003, 01:56 AM
I would date out of my race, but he sure better have respect for me and be honest with me, as I would do the same for him.
I have no problem with interracial(sp) relationships, but my family is a different story, especially my grandparents.

Three'sCompanyrules
04-16-2003, 03:01 AM
It doesn't matter at all to me, there is nothing wrong with it. If your in love and happy then its perfect. My parents wouldn't mind if I dated a black girl or any other race.

Nanny Fine
04-16-2003, 08:08 AM
Of course I would - "surface" stuff doesn't matter, it's what is on the inside. I find myself more attracted to guys that aren't white though so I know I've never had a problem with it :):)

Brandon
04-16-2003, 08:10 AM
no.

Rob1
04-16-2003, 09:00 AM
My wife is the same race and religion as I am, but that's just how things turned out. In the past, I never had a problem dating someone outside of my faith, or of a different color. As long as she was a good person, that's all that mattered to me.

DetectiveGriffin
04-16-2003, 09:16 AM
Man, I am way to fat to race!
No, j/k.

A friend of mine I worked with wanted to marry me several years ago, but he was a bisexual and i couldnt go for that. How he lives his life is fine with me, he was very nice and we got along great, but even though i had no problem with him being black, i didnt want to be involved with anyone who had a promisquous past, hetrosexual or homosexual. I think hes always had it in the back of his mind that it was his color. :(

Havent seen him in a lot of years; always wonder if hes ok and whats going down with him.

Since this is a sitcom board (not this thread, but the whole thing, you know what i mean), when i was little i used to love watching welcome back kotter. It always made me wonder how anybody could hate anybody over their race. Those kids were so funny and cute. I was real little and the town i grew up in was all white, so race isnt something i grew up thinking about, but al the people on tv were just so exotic and beautiful.

Then i would hear stuff on the news, words like New Yorks "hell's kitchen" and get really p.o'd and wonder what kind of person would make up a name like that. :(

Ewan's My Man
04-16-2003, 09:35 AM
If I loved the person and was treated with respect I'm all for interracial relationships. I mean...I'm white, and I practically drool over Will Smith whenever I see him...and Sean Patrick Thomas...lawdy lawdy that man is hott.

Rob1
04-16-2003, 09:44 AM
Originally posted by Original Prankster
I don't mind what race you date, as long as you're happy, but I think I'll stick with the human race. ;) After all, there is only one human race.

Of all the responses to this question that I have seen so far, I really like yours the most. Wonderful answer, I wish that I have thought of that first! :)

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
04-16-2003, 10:51 AM
Race would never bother me. It's always bothered me how ppl judge over things like that because it's so stupid. If I knew someone was the right person for me then I could care less about race.

Tuesday Weld
04-16-2003, 12:18 PM
Compatibility is what matters,to me.If I'm compatible with a man of another race and we were really in love,I'd have no problem with it.

Faith
04-16-2003, 03:32 PM
Race doesn't matter to me.. If I love someone and he loves me it doesn't matter one bit.. I usually tend to races other than my own though. My boyfriend right now is Native American, Hispanic
and White.

*PinkLady*
04-16-2003, 03:54 PM
Absolutely! Race doesn't matter to me. It's what kind of person they are.

°Bubbly Blonde°
04-16-2003, 04:28 PM
I might have posted in this thread, I dont remember, but I'd definitely date someone of another race, the guy I like and who likes me is Hispanic. I wouldnt exist if it were not for interacial relations (as wrong as they were...), people dont know it when they look at me, but Im 1/64th black and 1/8 Pueto Rican so.....

dawsongirl
04-16-2003, 04:53 PM
Originally posted by Original Prankster
I don't mind what race you date, as long as you're happy, but I think I'll stick with the human race. ;) After all, there is only one human race.

Oh crap. Then you better tell Amy Wong that. ;)

-*Leah*-
04-16-2003, 06:46 PM
Originally posted by YearbookLoser
Color doesnt matter at all to me... I just dont think I'd ever be with someone african american from around here because there is probably a total of about 5 african americans in my school.


That is EXACTLY the way it is here where I live. We probably don't even have 5 black people in our school. We have 1 black girl that is in high school and a couple in elementary and thats all. I am not racist at all, I don't think, but I just don't ever see myself marrying a black guy. For the reason above, like you said.

Mijada
04-16-2003, 07:32 PM
At this point in time I'd date just about anybody. My life is so boring right now. :lol:

Rhiannon
04-16-2003, 07:34 PM
yes, if he made me happy

Kay Scarpetta
04-16-2003, 09:36 PM
Sure. I mean, there's no difference except the color of your skin. Not a big deal at all.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
04-16-2003, 10:11 PM
I could care less what you were. However, I personally am not attracted usually to different races- nothing prejudice Im just not attracted. But if I was, then yes.

pandora_spocks
04-17-2003, 01:37 AM
Sure, as long as we both have the same interests and such. Basically, the same thing I would look for in any other girl so color doesn't really matter.

Czas na Zywiec
04-17-2003, 10:49 PM
Originally posted by dawsongirl


Oh crap. Then you better tell Amy Wong that. ;)

Kiff does her justice. :p I mean he spent all those years in Branigan's shadow (And behind him when climbing up a ladder. That outta make any person sick. :barf: ) I think Amy's good for him. And the Wong's will get their grandchild. Two birds with one stone!

DetectiveGriffin
04-18-2003, 11:15 AM
In regards to the human race thing, thats not really fair. I mean, if aliens came by, and they were cool, id totally go out with them. Like clark kent or something - hes cool. and then there's mork - he ruled.

theres a long list of totally right on aliens. it breaks my heart that you are so closed minded.

<GGGGGG>


^_^

Rob1
04-18-2003, 11:26 AM
Originally posted by DetectiveGriffin
In regards to the human race thing, thats not really fair. I mean, if aliens came by, and they were cool, id totally go out with them. Like clark kent or something - hes cool. and then there's mork - he ruled.

theres a long list of totally right on aliens. it breaks my heart that you are so closed minded.

<GGGGGG>


^_^

DetectiveGriiffin, I would just like to know one thing - In your lifetime, how many aliens have you actually met? :crazy:

JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo
04-18-2003, 11:32 AM
Originally posted by DetectiveGriffin
In regards to the human race thing, thats not really fair. I mean, if aliens came by, and they were cool, id totally go out with them. Like clark kent or something - hes cool. and then there's mork - he ruled.

theres a long list of totally right on aliens. it breaks my heart that you are so closed minded.

<GGGGGG>


^_^
If you wanna look at it like that then... have you ever snubbed off a dog who was obviously attracted to you simply because it was a dog?

DetectiveGriffin
04-18-2003, 11:33 AM
four (maybe 5) and yes.


just playing.

:)

dawsongirl
04-18-2003, 12:37 PM
Originally posted by Original Prankster
Kiff does her justice. :p I mean he spent all those years in Branigan's shadow (And behind him when climbing up a ladder. That outta make any person sick. :barf: ) I think Amy's good for him. And the Wong's will get their grandchild. Two birds with one stone!

:lol: A little green Asian baby. Aww..