InspectorExstead
06-25-2006, 04:13 PM
My best friend and I are INSEPARABLE. Literally. We don't go more than three hours a day without seeing each other. I'm always at her house, or she's always at my house (and our houses are less than a minute drive away from each other).
A couple of months ago, she met this guy. And from the moment I saw him, I didn't like him. He was just all bs and all talk. And needless to say, I wasn't too fond of him.
They've gotten closer and closer in the past couple of months. They've gone on one date and at this point, are "defining their relationship."
But to me, it seems like he's always trying to create a rift between the two of us. And he's always trying to control every situation, making sure it goes his way. And his way usually means not including me.
I don't think he's too fond of the fact that I'm always with them because he knows I don't think he's the guy for my best friend.
Anyway. Last night, there was a party my friend went to and she was planning on drinking. Soooo. I was supposed to pick her up. But then he decided he was going to pick her up, and wouldn't come get me. I was really worried about her because she had some alcohol, her first time, and I wanted to be there. But he wouldn't come get me (and he owes me too, cause I've done him too many favors).
I was pissed off at him and even told my best friend that I didn't want to see him. She wanted to go get breakfast at three in the morning, so we went to dennys (and I told her I didn't want to see him, especially since I feel awkward/uncomfortable around both of them).
And we get there...and he starts asking me what's wrong and why am I pissed. And I had to leave the restaurant twice to cool down. And my best friend didn't even say anything to make him stop, when she KNEW I didn't want to talk.
And I hate this guy. I really do. And I've told her before, but she doesn't seem to think I'm right.
Sorry if this turned into a drama-filled rant, but do you guys think I have a reason to be mad? I don't know what to say to make her realize this guy is not good for her...any ideas?
A couple of months ago, she met this guy. And from the moment I saw him, I didn't like him. He was just all bs and all talk. And needless to say, I wasn't too fond of him.
They've gotten closer and closer in the past couple of months. They've gone on one date and at this point, are "defining their relationship."
But to me, it seems like he's always trying to create a rift between the two of us. And he's always trying to control every situation, making sure it goes his way. And his way usually means not including me.
I don't think he's too fond of the fact that I'm always with them because he knows I don't think he's the guy for my best friend.
Anyway. Last night, there was a party my friend went to and she was planning on drinking. Soooo. I was supposed to pick her up. But then he decided he was going to pick her up, and wouldn't come get me. I was really worried about her because she had some alcohol, her first time, and I wanted to be there. But he wouldn't come get me (and he owes me too, cause I've done him too many favors).
I was pissed off at him and even told my best friend that I didn't want to see him. She wanted to go get breakfast at three in the morning, so we went to dennys (and I told her I didn't want to see him, especially since I feel awkward/uncomfortable around both of them).
And we get there...and he starts asking me what's wrong and why am I pissed. And I had to leave the restaurant twice to cool down. And my best friend didn't even say anything to make him stop, when she KNEW I didn't want to talk.
And I hate this guy. I really do. And I've told her before, but she doesn't seem to think I'm right.
Sorry if this turned into a drama-filled rant, but do you guys think I have a reason to be mad? I don't know what to say to make her realize this guy is not good for her...any ideas?