Michael [hXc]
05-24-2006, 03:25 PM
a few weeks ago, my so-called friend Chantel hooked me up with this girl Stephanie, who liked me. i didn't like her as anything but a friend, yet i hardly knew her. but i still said yes when she asked me out, thinking it would all work out. and it did, until recently.
she always acted like i couldn't talk to any of my friends who are girls (especially Crystal) without it being flirting. she and her friend accused me of flirting with Crystal, when we are only really good friends. and every time i told her something, she would tell all her friends. nothing i said could be kept a secret.
and this morning, i found out from my friend Leah that Stephanie has been flirting with my best friend Scott, who is also Leah's boyfriend. everyone in my homeroom class noticed it, and even the teacher noticed it. Leah and Stephanie were good friends, but Leah truly believed that she was flirting with Scott, and it upset me too. on top of it, all my friends have been making fun of me for liking Stephanie, because they said she's a bitch.
so at lunch today i went up to her and asked her "is it true you've been flirting with Scott? even Leah thinks you have been." and she said she wasn't. then her friend Caitlyn came up to me and said "they were not flirting, they are really good friends". yet why is it flirting when i talk to Crystal, but not when Stephanie talks to Scott? and then Caitlyn called me an ******* and said that if i broke up with Stephanie, she would do some awful things to me. and then she was yelling at me for listening to Leah and Crystal rather than Stephanie. but i have gotten really sick of Stephanie causing me to lose my friends. and then Leah and Crystal got into a fight with Caitlyn, and Leah said that i have every right to talk to whoever i want to, and i shouldn't be accused of flirting with Crystal if Stephanie can talk to Leah. and Leah has been really bothered about the whole thing, since she and Scott are going out.
i broke up with Stephanie, because i realized i only need my true friends, not a girlfriend who is influenced by her friends and causes me to lose my friends. also i have been very stressed out lately and i never was before. yet, why do i still feel bad, when i should feel better? what should i do?
:wave: advice is wanted.
she always acted like i couldn't talk to any of my friends who are girls (especially Crystal) without it being flirting. she and her friend accused me of flirting with Crystal, when we are only really good friends. and every time i told her something, she would tell all her friends. nothing i said could be kept a secret.
and this morning, i found out from my friend Leah that Stephanie has been flirting with my best friend Scott, who is also Leah's boyfriend. everyone in my homeroom class noticed it, and even the teacher noticed it. Leah and Stephanie were good friends, but Leah truly believed that she was flirting with Scott, and it upset me too. on top of it, all my friends have been making fun of me for liking Stephanie, because they said she's a bitch.
so at lunch today i went up to her and asked her "is it true you've been flirting with Scott? even Leah thinks you have been." and she said she wasn't. then her friend Caitlyn came up to me and said "they were not flirting, they are really good friends". yet why is it flirting when i talk to Crystal, but not when Stephanie talks to Scott? and then Caitlyn called me an ******* and said that if i broke up with Stephanie, she would do some awful things to me. and then she was yelling at me for listening to Leah and Crystal rather than Stephanie. but i have gotten really sick of Stephanie causing me to lose my friends. and then Leah and Crystal got into a fight with Caitlyn, and Leah said that i have every right to talk to whoever i want to, and i shouldn't be accused of flirting with Crystal if Stephanie can talk to Leah. and Leah has been really bothered about the whole thing, since she and Scott are going out.
i broke up with Stephanie, because i realized i only need my true friends, not a girlfriend who is influenced by her friends and causes me to lose my friends. also i have been very stressed out lately and i never was before. yet, why do i still feel bad, when i should feel better? what should i do?
:wave: advice is wanted.